Oh goodness! I'm not into debating. All I can say is that is the way the Lord has spoken to me for about two years now- my 14 yr. old daughter also. Sometimes they are in tandem. This is coming from someone who does not even have the gift of speaking in tongues- so I'm not into having this gift or that. I know that there are many who are skeptical- and that's ok. The dreams are mainly for myself (correction, warning) anyway- only sometimes about others. I have no idea why I have them but I DO Know the difference betwenn having one that means something- and just having too much pizza the night before.I could never debate this- I only know what the Lord gives me and that is that. Here is just an example of something He gave me a few months ago and I wrote an article about it:~Lawful but not Beneficial~Do you have something in your life that is lawful but not beneficial- "legal" but not morally or spiritually advantageous for you personally? Some of you know my background with fitness. For almost two years now I've been led to stay home from the gym and exercise at home. Once, I tried going back to the gym to "test the waters" and see if it was the right thing for me to do. I was led not to go. About a month ago, I decided it was time to try again. I thought (in my own good judgement, ha ha) that I could be a light to others there, etc... I went, thinking that if I wasn't supposed to go, that the Lord would give me a dream. He usually gives me a dream if I am doing something that isn't pleasing to Him. For two weeks- no dreams about it. I was feeling good and more comfortable going back, getting into a routine. My oldest daughter was at home watching my other two children, and I was only going three days a week. Finally, after two weeks the Lord gave me a dream. Before I tell you the dream, let me first tell you that when I was 17 and 18 years old I had a fake I.D. Yes, that was me back then. I used to use it to buy beer or alcohol while underage. I will never forget that feeling of being so nervous and paranoid standing in line waiting to pay, knowing that I had a fake I.D. It was a terrible feeling of not knowing if I was going to get caught- but , worth it at the time (so I thought.) Now the dream: I was standing in line at that same liquor store waiting to buy some type of alcohol. I just remember feeling relieved because I was "legal" now and didn't have to be nervous or paranoid that I might get caught. I kept saying to myself as I was standing in line, "Wow, I can actually buy this stuff now and it's legal." I knew my husband was out of town in the dream, and that just my oldest daughter was at home. I was planning a night out. The next part of the dream, I was somewhere sitting on the floor talking/ socializing with a couple of guys. All of a sudden I knew the time was really late and I needed to get home- but I didn't really want to leave because I was having such a good time. No pressures of home, kids, etc... Before I left I remember talking to a couple of ladies about fitness training. When I got home my husband was waiting there and I had to explain why I had left my daughter alone so long. End of dream. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ As I looked back on the dream I realized that I was so happy and relieved that it was now legal for me to be buying the liqour- but the fact was that it was still morally wrong and not beneficial for me to do so. The same with going out for the evening(without my husband). I am a grown woman and am able to run my own life- but what I was doing was not right for me in the sight of the Lord. I was trying to get away with things because I felt it was "legal" or legitimate. There is no law against it. So it was with going to the gym. The Lord was trying to tell me, "Chanin, I'm not going to tell you it's not legal- there is no law or rule that says you cannot go. But it's not morally or spiritually beneficial for you, for your family, and maybe for others around you. I knew this was true and because I work out in the free weight area at the gym (where mostly men work out) I was around alot of other men. I did not interact with many but it is not good to tempt others or cause them to stumble, even because of our own freedom. Paul says "All things are lawful for me, but not all things are helpful; all things are lawful for me, but not all things edify. Let no one seek his own, but each one the other's well being." 1Cor.10:23-24 ...whatever you do, do all to the glory of God. Give no offense... just as I also please all men in all things, not seeking my own profit, but the profit of many, that they may be saved." 1Cor.10:31-33 Are there things that we're doing that seem "legal", but in the Lord's eyes are not beneficial for us or for others around us? Maybe what we're doing makes not only us stumble but makes others stumble. There is no rule or law against many things but the Lord knows best. I am so humbly grateful for His guidance.