Have you ever had an adult (Christian) ask you why fornication is wrong? I have. I have to confess, also, that I had worked very hard to understand the answer for myself, because there had been a time when I didn't know either…
(Yes)! This is so good, thanks for bringing this up. We have many Christians both men and women in the church who at one time or another though of themselves as being Saved, because they held the title of a “Christian”. Yes they were Christians because they believed, but that alone did not assure there salvation.
Why fornication is wrong? This is my perception of it. We all fall short of his glory, and we sin Yes we sin in many ways. When you know that something is wrong and you do it anyway or say it, it’s Sin. The bible speaks about sin that does not lead to death, and then you have THE Sin that will lead you to death, I believe it’s fornication.
When you sin in this area, you sin against your own body, and therefore leading towards death.
You begin to deal with condemnation, quilt, unforgivenss, ect. You loose sight of who you are, who God intended for you to be, and how he in tented for you walk, in the light bearing the fruits of his Spirit.
Your body is the temple of the HOLY SPIRIT, where he has come to “Abide”.
Not only this, but during fornication / sex out of marriage, yes you do – you engage in intimacy with everyone that that individual was involved with in the past. You then have to deal with the Soul Tie.
What is Soul Tie, I’m glad you asked:
This link will give you a Great understanding of what a Soul Tie, Is
http://www.breakingfree.us/ungodly_soul_ties.html
The word of God says “when we commit sexual immorality, we are sinning against our own body.” This is where “ungodly soul ties” are made. When a man and woman comes together in a sexual relationship, there is a bonding and there is a tearing. A piece of that man’s soul cleaves to the woman, and a piece of the woman’s soul cleaves to the man. This will occur even if it was just a “one night stand.” Many people, including some in the church, have left pieces of themselves all over the world. We are created in the image and likeness of God, and when Satan can get us to sin against our own body, it is an affront to God.
Now, you can develop a Soul Tie with someone by just speaking to them all the time, via phone or intranet/internet, but this particular Soul Tie, is one that will bring about confusion and deception.
You begin to think in your mind before you begin to feel it in your heart that you are in love with this person, but you are not. It is a Soul Tie, and if you ever want to experience the TRUTH, you must be set free from this. It takes a lot of prayer and fasting, closing of door’s, Vow’s that you will not have any physical contact until you are married. It takes you wanting desiring enough is enough, I have made up my mind that no longer will I continue allow Satan to lie to me, I am worth much more then this, and I deserve to be respected but you must begin to respect yourself and love yourself enough to say No, I am waiting on God and I don’t care how long it takes, 6-7-8 years I am waiting on God for his best and his perfect will.
Now this could also mean not kissing someone until you are at the Alter, if that’s what it takes for you to remain pure. You know what your weakness are and the area where you are tempted the most, so don’t go there.
It takes you wanting desiring enough is enough, I have made up my mind that no longer will I continue to allow Satan to lie to me, I am worth much more then this, and I deserve to be respected, but you must begin to respect yourself and love yourself enough to say No! I am waiting on God and I don’t care how long it takes, 6-7-8 years I am waiting on God for his best and his perfect will.
Just a glimpse but I hope it helps you.