When my wife first got saved (I was overseas in the Marines), her church was doing a thing on stewardship... basically cuz they wanted to build a new fellowship hall. I came home right in the middle of the whole thing. She asked me to attend some of the "seminars", and relunctantly I went... (sometimes under the influence of Jack Daniels)...
The church had hired this slick "salesman" type guy who gave these seminars as a living... oops, I mean ministry. It so turned me off that I rejected the gospel probably longer than I would have.
It was nothing more than a ploy to get people to tithe and give even more... sowing seeds... give to get... slick marketing... etc. God only knows how much this church paid this slickster to give these seminars.
Well... now that I am in church leadership myself, this issue of stewardship has come up a number of times. Here is how we handle it in our house churches:
a) We encourage people to actually study the Bible for themselves concerning this issue (and all other issues) and let the Holy Spirit lead them to the truth, rather than use a slick markting guru.
b) we simply teach what the New Testament teaches about tithing... which is [b]nothing[/b]. Tithing is not for the NT testament believers, we are free from the Law. If you're going to command people to follow one part of the Law, then you must follow ALL of it.
c) we simply teach what the New Testament teaches about giving... which is God owns it ALL, and He will speak to us on an individual basis what we should give. Sometimes we pool it together in a collection for a specific need (as they did in the NT), and sometimes we enourage people to give to needs individually.
d) we dont pay any elders, teachers, etc. I dont have a problem with salaried leaders, but we dont do it in our house church networks because we want people to teach the whole counsel of God without feeling like if they offend someone the funds will drop off. In others words, we dont want money influencing our teachings.
e) Since we meet in homes, and have no desire to build "temples" of wood and stone... we have no overhead. This frees up any funds we may have to go to support missionaries and other ministries and outreaches.
It's all very simple.
Krispy