I have a friend on my residence hall who has been an enigma for me in many ways. He is a believer and member of my small group--a very gentle guy most of the time, and quiet, but often has fits of uncontrollable, awkward behavior. He may come into my room at 3 in the morning when I am asleep, turn the lights on, laugh in my face, and leave. Often times, he would just run into my room, my door being closed, and start jumping on my bed, laughing, carrying a blank expression on his face. When I try to talk to him, he would laugh it off, ans stare wildly at me. Other times, being a rather strong guy, he would grab me by the hand and drag me to his room, or even tackle me to the ground. A minute later, he would usually apologize or ask me to forgive him and give him a hug, and then will leave my room as quietly and suddenly as he has come in.
I have tried to talk to him about the issue many times. It seems he either cannot or doesn't want to talk about it--usually he does not even respond at all. I've never felt so awkward with anybody--just because I cannot read him; he seems so contemplative, deep. When he is in public, he usually is very composed, even tactful. It is only when it is just him and me, or even some other friend of his, that he starts acting this way. Or when hs is by himself you may occasionally hear him laugh out loudly through his room door or out in the hallway.
It has been hard for me because I have been harsh on him many times, usually rebuking him for his antics, but afterward I have felt remorseful, having so much compassion on him--for he is indeed very lonely. It's been difficult for me to speak the truth in love, to decide when to rebuke and when to tolerate him.
Today, after one of those plunges into my room (he lives across the hall from me), I tried to talk with him most seriously, prayerfully. I questioned his motive. He whispered he didn't have any idea why he did what he did, as if he had blacked out. He said he had to leave.
I have been praying for him, asking the Lord for guidance in this situation. I have never cast out a demon... if this is what I am really facing. Have any of you faced a similar situation? Please pray that I may not get in the Lord's way in this situation. Thanks.
In Christ,
Slavyan
