Hi JaySaved,
There has always been a disappointment surrounding all the theology of predestination that is extrapolated, often from these very texts.
Just changing the emphasis a bit giving a different perspective;
[i][b]whoever comes to me[/b] I will [u]never[/u] cast out.[/i]
[i]that [b]everyone[/b] who looks [u]on the Son and believes in him[/u] should have eternal life[/i]
The one already stressed;
[i][b]Everyone who has heard and learned from the Father comes to me--[/b][/i]
Putting them all back where they were found and again the seemingly contradiction of;
[i]"This is why I told you that [b]no one[/b] can come to me unless it is granted him by the Father."[/i]
[i]This is why ...[/i], What is 'why'? Better, what is 'this'? What preceded it all? All kinds of backdrop, could it be that other hard saying;
[i]He that eateth my flesh, and drinketh my blood, dwelleth in me, and I in him.[/i]? (Joh 6:56). It practically repulsed so many that ... [i]From that time many of his disciples went back, and walked no more with him.[/i] Joh 6:66
Even after He had explained what He meant;
[i]As the living Father hath sent me, and I live by the Father: so he that eateth me, even he shall live by me.[/i]
And
[i]It is the spirit that quickeneth; the flesh profiteth nothing: the words that I speak unto you, they are spirit, and they are life.[/i] Joh 6:63
Yet what good do they do if they are not 'eaten' as it were? To go back to; [i]"This is why I told you that [b]no one[/b] can come to me unless it is granted him by the Father."[/i] "Granted", what is the 'grant'? I am less sure it is the idea of predestination as it has often been reported and more, this will get me into all kinds of trouble in some camps, of [i]conditions[/i].
[i]Whosoever[/i] is pleaded throughout scripture;
Rev 22:17 And the Spirit and the bride say, Come. And let him that heareth say, Come. And let him that is athirst come. And [u]whosoever[/u] will, let him take the water of life freely.
1Jo 5:1 [u]Whosoever[/u] believeth that Jesus is the Christ is born of God: and every one that loveth him that begat loveth him also that is begotten of him.
1Jo 3:9 [u]Whosoever[/u] is born of God doth not commit sin; for his seed remaineth in him: and he cannot sin, because he is born of God.
Of the many, this last one, conditional, yes? "Born of God." All may come come, [i]whosoever[/i] may come. But there are some "musts".
Joh 3:7 Marvel not that I said unto thee, Ye [u]must[/u] be born again.
And also a "cannot";
Joh 3:3 Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he [u]cannot[/u] see the kingdom of God.
Going over to Luke;
"If any man come to me, and hate not his father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brethren, and sisters, yea, and his own life also, he [u]cannot[/u] be my disciple. And whosoever doth not bear his cross, and come after me, [u]cannot[/u] be my disciple.
So likewise, whosoever he be of you that forsaketh not all that he hath, he [u]cannot[/u] be my disciple. Luk 14:26,27,43
So it seems there are some conditions after all to receiving this 'grant' of the Father that go on beyond [i]believing[/i] in His Name, actually, to believe on His Name is to meet all these requirements.
Joh 6:64 But there are some of you that believe not. For Jesus knew from the beginning who they were that believed not, and who should betray him.
[i]The demons believe and tremble[/i] ... Comes to mind. Judas had all the opportunities of all the other disciples and yet ...
Another, wonderful, tremendous incident that has always just struck me in it's profundity;
[i]And a woman having an issue of blood twelve years, who had spent all her living upon physicians, and could not be healed of any, came behind him, and touched the border of his garment: and immediately the issue of her blood stanched. And Jesus said, Who is it that touched me? And when all denied, Peter said, and they that were with him, Master, the multitudes press thee and crush thee.
But Jesus said, Some one did touch me; for I perceived that power had gone forth from me.[/i] Luk 8:43-46 (ASV)
That the woman touched Him far deeper than a mental ascent, she [i]really[/i] [u]believed[/u], enough to draw off power from the Lord. Tremendous, mind blowing thought!
That profound difference there contrasted with those offended and then turned back even though they had up to that point been even '[i]disciples[/i], seeing all the miraculous works, following the Lord, 'believing' up to a point... until it cost them something.
Both a receiving and a repudiating. Repentance is a condition. And I just cannot see any possibility at all of 'accepting' the one without the repenting or 'repudiating' of the other. It's axiomatic, automatic. Having the eye's of the heart opened is to bring everything out into exposure. Everything.
Have been musing on this a great deal and perhaps it is why it is taking this leaning to these hard questions. The simplicity and difficulty of everything boils down to just sheer honesty. That is the requirement. It always has been and always will be the prerequisite to everything. It is the beginning, end and middle and that ongoing middle of progression. "[i]I desire truth in the [u]inward[/u] parts[/i]."
Joh 14:6 Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: [i]no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.[/i]
This, the 'grant', this, is the only way through, this, is the acceptance. It is adamant that we must be therefore [i]changed[/i], altered, re-born.[i]... no flesh should glory in his presence.[/i]
Joh 6:53 Then Jesus said unto them, Verily, verily, I say unto you, Except ye eat the flesh of the Son of man, and drink his blood, ye have [u]no life[/u] in you.
Recalling these are spiritual words, from the spiritual Man, it is His life that is the requirement.
Joh 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
There it is, this all encompassing verse that has practically become something that many wish was almost not in the scriptures anymore, having been rushed over and trampled underfoot. [i]Whosoever[/i] again.
Joh 3:17 [u]For[/u] God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved.
Joh 3:18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
That ought to be the most frightening verse in all of the New Testament. [i]Already[/i]. There you have it, the line in the sand, there is no passing beyond it nor sneaking in another way.
Joh 3:19 And [u]this[/u] is the condemnation, [b]that[/b] light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil.
Exposure.
Joh 3:20 For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved.
"Lest", there is the condition, there is the key, there is repentance and admittance and confession and repudiating, there is the coming clean, there is the essence of honesty.
There is the stalling as well.
1Ki 18:21 And Elijah came unto all the people, and said, [b]How long halt ye between two opinions?[/b] if the LORD be God, follow him: but if Baal, then follow him. And the people answered him not a word.
Joh 3:21 But he that doeth truth [b]cometh to the light, that his deeds may be made manifest[/b], that they are wrought in God.
Think there is just a whole world of 'theology' packed into this ending of the context. To digress back to the whole matter of predestination, I personally believe the whole thing is just shot through with presumption on 'our' part, those that hold to this idea that everything is and has been settled (it has) and therefore we are ultimately wasting our time speaking to those [i]predestined[/i] to perdition and on and on it goes. I am flatly convinced it is none of our darned business, meddling, assuming the end from the beginning, that which is reserved for God alone. A certain audacity that strikes me as appalling.
To end this. OF [i]course[/i] we cannot come to [i]Him[/i] lest the Father [u]draws[/u] ... Is this not the very thing that is perpetually in motion?;
Rom 10:21 But about Israel he says, "All day long I have held out my hands to a disobedient and rebellious people."
And what of the paradoxical statement just prior?
Rom 10:20 And Isaiah boldly says, "I was found by those who were not looking for me; I was revealed to those who were not asking for me."
Every single solitary soul that is honest has a giant question unanswered;
Why?
What's the point? Why live and die? Why the universe? Creation itself begs an answer. The conscience begs an answer. Sure there is that "God shaped hole" as it has been put but there is a [i]must[/i] of explanation, a demand inwardly for the answer. Are not these very things the "[i]draw[/i]"? It is either denial or capitulation.
Backing up once again;
Rom 10:18 But I ask, "Didn't they hear?" Certainly they did! In fact, "Their voice has gone out into the whole world, and their words to the ends of the earth."
"[b]All that the Father gives me will come to me[/b],
1Jo 4:10 In this is love, not that we have loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins.
1Jo 2:2 He is the propitiation for our sins, and not for ours only but also for the sins of the whole world.
And so they do and so they will, come to the Lord, upon those conditions He Has set forth. Quite a bit still left unsaid I realize and apologize for the legnthy ... I guess it was as much a study in motion as I went along, culling and drawing off various underlying expressions.