bennblake,
I have read your post and I have some disagreements with it. Please know that I submit the following in humility and with the desire to have an edifying conversation. My disagreement is not with you personally but just with some of your writing. I pray that both of us (and others who are reading) would grow closer to Christ as a result of our discussion.
God has foreknowledge of our decisions, but at not time does God make those decisions for us. He has given us the freedom to love Him or not. We can choose to love God, or choose to not love God. Because God is greater than time, knowing all things, He knows our choice before we have made it. However, we choose to love God by our own choice.
I agree that God does have foreknowledge of our decisions. I however must disagree with your assertion that God chooses based upon our choice. This is just not Biblical. It is simply a means to explain the many passages in scripture that speak about God choosing us and we being His chosen people. For example let’s take 2 Thessalonians 2:13-15,
“But we are bound to give thanks alway to God for you, brethren beloved of the Lord, because God hath from the beginning chosen you to salvation through sanctification of the Spirit and belief of the truth: Whereunto he called you by our gospel, to the obtaining of the glory of our Lord Jesus Christ. Therefore, brethren, stand fast, and hold the traditions which ye have been taught, whether by word, or our epistle.”
Clearly, it is God who chooses and it is God who calls. But, some people don’t like what this verse says and they simply try to ‘explain it away’ and make it say something it does not. Here is how some wish to reword these verses:
“But we are bound to give thanks alway to God for you, brethren beloved of the Lord, because God hath from the beginning chosen you to salvation [because He saw that you would be wise enough to make a decision to have faith] through sanctification of the Spirit and belief of the truth: Whereunto he called you [every single person on the Earth]by our gospel, to the obtaining [so that they might have a chance to be wise enough to obtain themselves] of the glory of our Lord Jesus Christ. Therefore, brethren, stand fast, and hold the traditions which ye have been taught, whether by word, or our epistle.”
I often think of God as the master chess player. A good chess player knows His opponents moves from the beginning of the game. A good chess player plans his entire strategy from the first move. Likewise, God who knows all things, planned all of His moves from the very beginning.
This is [url=http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Middle_knowledge]Molinism[/url] and it has been around since the 16th Century. I am not accusing you of being a Molinist, but your example of the chess player is very similar. It is popular today by those who wish to hold on to man’s free will but maintain God’s sovereignty. It is popular but not Biblical.
One of the things we must settle upon in this matter is God's love for us. It is God's Will that we live forever with Him in Heaven. This is what God wants for everyone. He does not want any person to die. This is affirmed in the bible:
2 Peter 3:9
The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. He is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.
In your understanding of 2 Peter 3:9, God will never come because He is always waiting for people to come to repentance on their own free will. This is a problem because people are constantly being born and coming into the age of accountability. God would be eternally being patient because He doesn’t want anyone to perish. You must admit that God would have to be patient until a certain point. But what point would that be?
The proper context of 2 Peter 3:9 is that God is patient with the elect waiting for them to come to repentance. In this understanding, there will come a day when all of the elect will come to repentance and therefore God’s patience will end.
God's Will is eternal. This means from before time until after time, the desire of God's heart is the same. God has always and will always want us to be live with Him forever in love. However, love is not something that can be forced. Though God loves us, we must choose to love Him.
Does God this apply to those who are in hell? Does God still desire for them to be with Him?
When a person decides they do not want to love God in return, this creates a huge problem. If we don't love God, we are defying His Will. We are rejecting God's love.
A person does not one day decide they do not want to love God. They naturally do not want to love God. Romans 6:7-8, “For the mind that is set on the flesh is hostile to God, for it does not submit to God's law; indeed, it cannot. Those who are in the flesh cannot please God.”
To defy God's Will is a most serious offense. God eternally wants us to share in love. However, when we reject that love, we are eternally rejecting God's love. This creates a huge problem. God loves us....we reject God. The end result is Hell. It was God's desire and will to create every person for love. God never changes. God will never change His mind. For all eternity, God will always want us to exist for His love.
Does this also apply to Pharaoh? Romans 9:14-18
“What shall we say then? Is there injustice on God's part? By no means! For he says to Moses, "I will have mercy on whom I have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I have compassion." So then it depends not on human will or exertion, but on God, who has mercy. For the Scripture says to Pharaoh, "For this very purpose I have raised you up, that I might show my power in you, and that my name might be proclaimed in all the earth." So then he has mercy on whomever he wills, and he hardens whomever he wills.”
So, fully knowing that some people would reject God and these people would not be saved, God still created them. God wants them to be saved. He will always want them to be saved. These people are not saved because of their own choice. They reject God's salvation. They reject God's love. As a result, God gives them what they want. They do not want to be with God, so God sends them to a place where He is not. They go to Hell.
If God knows that a person will never become a Christian, why does He continue to bring conviction in the hopes that they would repent?
God did not predestine anyone for Hell.
Agreed. God predestines some to be conformed into the image of His Son and the others He leaves alone in their natural state of being His enemy.
God predestined everyone for Heaven.
This is unbiblical. Romans 8:29-30 says that all who are foreknown are predestined. All who are predestined are also called, and those whom He called he also justified, and those whom he justified he also glorified. If God predestined everyone for Heaven, then everyone would be in Heaven.
However, God has also given us the freedom to choose. A person goes to Heaven or Hell because of their own choice. This is most significant. We must always remember this. We are held accountable.
We do have the right to choose. However, we only choose to disobey God until we are regenerated. It is after regeneration that we even have the capacity to obey God and choose Christ. We are held accountable because of our actions and all unrighteousness will be punished.