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John173 Feb 25, 2007

This is a topic that weighs heavily on my heart. First let me say that I do not believe psychology has any answers. As a matter of fact, I believe the roots of psychology to be demonicly inspired. Christian counseling doesn't seem to have any anwers either. Yet, I am deeply aware of the fact that there are many brothers and sisters in this world of ours who carry deep emotional scars. My hearts cry is that the body of Christ can find the means to acknowledge this internal pain and learn to minister to the hurting. I know that our Lord recognizes this need. In some other post somewhere I made mention that I look upon Isaiah 61:1-3 as a mission statement of sorts for God sending His Son.


[color=330066]"The Spirit of the Lord God is upon Me
Because the Lord has anointed Me
To preach good tidings to the poor;[/color]
[color=0000CC]He has sent Me to heal the brokenhearted,
To proclaim liberty to the captives,
And the opening of the prison to those who are bound;[/color]
[color=330066]To proclaim the acceptable year of the Lord,
And the day of vengeance of our God;[/color]
[color=0000CC]To comfort all who mourn,
To console those who mourn in Zion,
To give them beauty for ashes,
The oil of joy for mourning,
The garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness;[/color]
[color=330066]That they may be called trees of righteousness,
The planting of the Lord, that He may be glorified."[/color]

I believe that the true method of healing from the Lord is nothing less than He Himself. Healing occurs as we enter in beyond the veil into his presence. I was mulling over this the other day and had an image come to mind of sitting on some sandstone steps looking down on the temple in Jerusalem with a young man to whom I was ministering. I put my arm around his shoulder and said "Let's go to the temple together." By this I meant let us go on into the holy of holies where healing is found.

I guess my point is that when we are hurting going into the holy place is not natural. It usually takes someone to lovingly and compassionately come along side them and gently speak the words of truth to them. God loves you! Come on, let's go together, shall we pray?

Oh Lord, help us to be aware of the brokenhearted amongst us. Let us be agents of Your love and concern. Teach us how to take them by the hand and lead them to Your throne of grace.

Amen,

In His Love,

Doug

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PTywama3 Feb 25, 2007

I would be careful of such generalized statements.

Psychology is defined as:
1 The science that deals with mental processes and behavior.
2 The emotional and behavioral characteristics of an individual, group, or activity: the psychology of war.
3 Subtle tactical action or argument used to manipulate or influence another: He used poor psychology on his employer when trying to make the point. (from dictionary.com)

By this, your reference to psychology is an employed action, ala the use of knowledge (reference 3). In this regard, it would be easier to say there is no magic pill to give somebody which will "fix" them, but this is an approach which is viably inappropriate of the subject rather than the councilor (note the distinction there.)

As such, your encouragement of someone to seek and pray is indeed a use of psychology, just not inherently of the "ph.d." variety. Psychology is a field, much the same as theology or philosophy - which means it is practically impossible to avoid. Just because we don't like the term doesn't make it less viable or even useful.

sermonindex Feb 25, 2007


Hi John,

This is a subject very close to my heart. But, the word 'psychology' (the study of the soul?) has many unhelpful connotations in Christians' minds, and with good reason.

One critic of Leanne Payne's 'The Healing Presence', said the money for the book was worth it for the discussion of Jungian thought alone. She points out that Jung held that the profane and the holy are two poles of the same entity. Which of course, is complete heresy to biblical truth.

But, what PTywama3 said here

Subtle tactical action or argument used to manipulate or influence another:
in quoting a dicitonary definition, IS TRUE, and it can be CON-structive, rather than DE-structive.

This thought is most easily defined by the example of a dislocted or broken bone being put back in place, or, back into alignment so it can heal back into a condition for normal use, and without deformity. Too many Christians are willing to keep their emotional deformities, their pain, their psychological self-deceptions. I agree that this is a reason the church is weak.

I also agree that the place to take our pain is the holy of holies. But, there are many types of pain which we have been taught to ignore, or given the idea that WE have to fix first, before we can enter there.

My answer to this is 'Who made thee? - Does He not already [i]know[/i] your struggles - better even than yourself? Does He not already see your denials? Who better to meet and be made whole by Him? Nothing is more effective, or more private.

Let me comment that your suggestion of taking a person with you to pray, does pre-suppose their [i]trust[/i] faculty is in good working order.

I have more to say, but time defeats me. I hear your cry though, and your calling, and say AMEN! We need many more with this heart and this understanding, that God's people may be ABLE to suffer for Him.

J
John173 Feb 25, 2007

PT,

I actually agree with you. I made mention that I believe psychology to have demonic roots. What I was refering to is the man most call the father of modern psychology, Sigmund Freud. This man had an extreme hatred for God and the church. I have no proof that he was possessed, but I have my suspicions.

Regardless, it remains true that going to a psychiatrist, psychologist or even what passes for Christian counseling seems to have no real value. I am speaking in terms here of the Christian and true improvement in maturity or faith etc.

In the church I have seen two camps. One attempts to use psychology and apply it to believers. These churches may even have a counceling department or an offshoot para-church ministry. The other tends to reject psychology and as a result ignore the fact that many people do have internal damage and make no effort toward ministering to their pain. This is a classic example of throwing the baby out with the bathwater.

Somewhere there must be a balance. I do not believe it is possible to exist in this world and not have some degree of emotional damage. Certainly, many of us find that reading the word of God, prayer, worship etc. ministers to this pain and normal growth results. But some damage is severe enough that in spite of a salvation experience the emotional baggage makes growth slow to near impossible. Severe pain causes insecurity, fear, a lack of trust and an inability to have close relationships. This means that these believers in turn are incapable of using their gifts to further the kingdom.

It is my hearts desire to minister to this segment of the body. I believe there is a great need in this arena. I also have a deep desire to teach others to minister in the same capacity.

In His Love,

Doug

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John173 Feb 25, 2007

Just one brief comment. I struggle with the terminology in this discussion. Psychology as a word when mentioned in the church often elicits a knee jerk reaction because the hearer makes an association with secular psychiatry and has rejected such. What I want to communicate is simply the internal working of the mind. Unfortunately the english language doesn't have a word that makes this distinction clear.

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ginnyrose Feb 25, 2007

Doug,

You have expressed my thoughts on this issue...and I agree. Some where there must be a balance.

When I worked at CPC we were taught methods on how to confront clients about their lifestyles: how to do it without creating any hostility, getting them to agree with you. Sounds good and for the most part it is. However, I soon realized we were appealing to the selfish mind of humans: what do you feel? how can it best serve MY interests? In time, the Holy Spirit convicted me that I should emphasize the Holiness of God as being the motivator to change. I did and the results were not impressive: what I said seemed to fall on hard soil. It was a concept too foreign to them: Me change just because God is holy and I am not? (Of course, it took some time to get to this point - I was not as blunt as this writing makes it appear.) So I decided the LORD wanted me to plant the seed and this is what was done..the results are up to God. But I promise to use psychology seems to get a more favorable hearing but no lasting results in the long run.

This has been my experience...

ginnyrose

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tjservant Feb 25, 2007

Does the Bible contain the truth?

Does the Bible have all the answers?


Is there an area in which the Bible is insufficient?

how did the world get along for 1,900 years without it?

Is it a new truth?

just my 2 cents

TJ

sermonindex Feb 25, 2007


John173 wrote:

[color=330066]"The Spirit of the Lord God is upon Me
Because the Lord has anointed Me
To preach good tidings to the poor;[/color]
[color=0000CC]He has sent Me to heal the brokenhearted,
To proclaim liberty to the captives,
And the opening of the prison to those who are bound;[/color]
[color=330066]To proclaim the acceptable year of the Lord,
And the day of vengeance of our God;[/color]
[color=0000CC]To comfort all who mourn,
To console those who mourn in Zion,
To give them beauty for ashes,
The oil of joy for mourning,
The garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness;[/color]
[color=330066]That they may be called trees of righteousness,
The planting of the Lord, that He may be glorified."[/color]

I believe that the true method of healing from the Lord is nothing less than He Himself. Healing occurs as we enter in beyond the veil into his presence. I was mulling over this the other day and had an image come to mind of sitting on some sandstone steps looking down on the temple in Jerusalem with a young man to whom I was ministering. I put my arm around his shoulder and said "Let's go to the temple together." By this I meant let us go on into the holy of holies where healing is found.

I guess my point is that when we are hurting going into the holy place is not natural. It usually takes someone to lovingly and compassionately come along side them and gently speak the words of truth to them. God loves you! Come on, let's go together, shall we pray?

Oh Lord, help us to be aware of the brokenhearted amongst us. Let us be agents of Your love and concern. Teach us how to take them by the hand and lead them to Your throne of grace.

Amen,

In His Love,

Doug

Doug, that is [i]beautiful![/i]. That image of going into the Holy of Holies to find healing, WOW! Its surely a true vision from God.

I'm sure I read somewhere that both Freud and Jung (especially Jung perhaps) were deeply involved in the occult and even (I think) used "spirit guides" to help them in their treatments.

And, of course, human psychological methods are usually man-centred, as someone already spoke of. How many Christian counsellors, and those who make it their business to pray for emotional healing, tell people "your problem is low self esteem"?!!!

I wonder if there [i]is[/i] however a place for counselling, if done rightly, even by a non-Christian. Not to heal (only the Lord can heal), but to give emotional support, a listening ear, in a non-condemnational way; and maybe help identify more clearly the issues and the hurts involved.

I'm thinking of a friend of a friend. She and her husbands are both ministers of a particular church, but her husband is extremely controlling, manipulative and emotionally abusive towards her. He has also joined the Freemasons!

She sought help from her superiors in the denomination they work for and they were the opposite of helpful, demanding that she continue to work, obey her husband and do nothing to ruin [i]his[/i] career!

Yet this man, or rather what is in him (it seems clear that he's demonised) is destroying her emotionally and spiritually! He has such a hold on her that she's unable to leave, though she needs to escape (the word we had for her was "flee for your life!"). He controls the money, what she wears, where she goes, and watches her constantly - even moniters her emails and listens to her phone conversations.

Counselling and support from someone who can be more objective, outside the situation, even from non-Christian professionals, could make a huge difference in such a case.

Thank you for this thread

jeannette

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tjservant Feb 25, 2007

Counselling and support from someone who can be more objective, outside the situation, even from non-Christian professionals, could make a huge difference in such a case.

God can use the devil to save someone, he can use anything. This does not mean we should look for answers outside of Him.

Only God can see into the heart. He is sufficient in all things. We must have faith in Him and Him alone.

TJ

sermonindex Feb 25, 2007


tjservant wrote:
Counselling and support from someone who can be more objective, outside the situation, even from non-Christian professionals, could make a huge difference in such a case.

God can use the devil to save someone, he can use anything. This does not mean we should look for answers outside of Him.

Only God can see into the heart. He is sufficient in all things. We must have faith in Him and Him alone.

TJ

In general I agree TJ, but we are given others sometimes, as gifts from Him, to minister to our need.

This lady I spoke of has no strength left to seek the Lord, and feels so far away from Him because of the emotional and spiritual oppression. Her husband constantly weighs her down with guilt and warns her that "a wife should obey her husband" etc. She cannot even, as it were, lift her head to cry out to God.

Another example: I had a very strange experience when working in a psychiatric nursing home. One of the patients thumped me, (because I wouldn't give him a cigarette, NOW!)and I was very upset. Not physically hurt - he was only treating me as one might a slot machine that wouldn't cough up the goods! - but I was in tears with the shock, (he'd never done that before and I felt that we were friends, as well as carer and patient).

Another patient who was [i]really[/i] crazy, (and very obviously, in her case, the trouble was demonic), came and put her arm around me to comfort me.

For an instant I recoiled. Then I thought what a wonderful thing that she could, in the midst of her own torment, reach out to another. So I said in my heart, "Lord, I accept this human comfort as from You!"

Yes, healing and all good things [i]are[/i] from the Lord , and we have to seek Him alone, yet He can send the most unexpected people to minister to us. Why shouldn't He sometimes send non-Christian counsellors, or even a mentally ill woman, full of demons (it was the woman, not the demons who offered the comfort)!

And didn't God send ravens to feed Elijah, then a woman from a pagan village; and a donkey to rebuke Balaam?


Jeannette

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roadsign Feb 25, 2007

I appreciate many of the points here. Certainly there are many angles to explore.

When I think of the horrendous ways that mentally ill victims used to be treated - I am deeply grateful for the research done in the field of psychology. Ignorance is certainly not a better option. Truth is truth, and it so happens that sometimes non-Christians discover it before the Christians do.

God can use the devil to save someone, he can use anything. This does not mean we should look for answers outside of Him.

Brother, I’m sure that you wouldn’t hesitate to go to a doctor if you had appendicitis. In fact refusing to do so could cost you your life. And, of course, you’d accept the fact that some of the health care workers overseeing you could be atheists.

Yet, I wonder why you would discourage one who is suffering from a psychiatric disorder or relational abuse this same privilege – that is, seeing healthcare providers in that area of expertise.

I suspect that those Christians who are strongly opposed to any kind of psychology/psychiatry have not had the opportunity to witness the suffering of the mind of those admitted to a psych ward - watched them agonize night and day, moaning and groaning in a corner, or washing their hands obsessively till they bleed, or starving themselves to death, or trying to kill themselves etc, etc. Objectors maybe never have worked in a mental health institution, - or even dealt closely with afflicted ones in church or family, or in themselves.

While I was in nurses training I worked in psychiatry, and I was absolutely overwhelmed by the degree of mental suffering that exists in our society. I had lived a sheltered life. After that rotation I wanted nothing more than to spend my life working with those who have sicknesses of the mind,and show them Christ's love. I wanted to be a psychiatric nurse. Of course, it didn’t happen officially, but in many ways God has brought various people into my life who suffer emotional distress. And I am thankful for the psychology and psychiatry that I have studied – as little as it is. In fact, when I was studying these courses I was amazed at how much better this discipline (in it’s ideal) seemed to be than the church at understanding the sin nature(maladaptive thinking, or whatever). The deeper awareness of their sin condition can help Christian move towards healing and repentance. (The church, in my experience, tends to view sin in terms of outer behavior, and this is very limiting) I am reluctant to change my view on that now, even though I am aware that psychology has been grossly abused, even by Christian practitioners and writers.

A caution: Before we denounce an entire field of science and medicine, we first need to consider reality: We live in a very sick world. Many people today come out of families that simply could not provide the environment needed to develop emotionally healthy adults. For various reasons we are seeing a lot of mental illness. That will be growing.

True, those troubles are a consequence of a society that rejects God, just as are the other ailments, ex cancer, etc… But, to the extent that we aren’t helping or can’t help, we should be extremely careful about denouncing those who are trying. After all, we could find ourselves some day at the receiving end.

This is a classic example of throwing the baby out with the bathwater.

Thank you for the caution.

Here’s another consideration: While we may not like this notion of “psychology”, we may actually be practicing it ourselves more than we realize. In fact, we Christians can all to easily designate ourselves as experts of other people’s “mind problems“ That is just what the Pharisees were doing, wasn’t it? They merely did a lot of “non-professional” judging, because of their ignorance – regarding themselves, regarding human nature, and regarding the value of mercy.

Diane

sermonindex Feb 25, 2007

John173 said

In the church I have seen two camps. One attempts to use psychology and apply it to believers. These churches may even have a counceling department or an offshoot para-church ministry. The other tends to reject psychology and as a result ignore the fact that many people do have internal damage and make no effort toward ministering to their pain. [b]This is a classic example of throwing the baby out with the bathwater.[/b]
Exactly!

I struggle with the terminology in this discussion. Psychology as a word when mentioned in the church often elicits a knee jerk reaction because the hearer makes an association with secular psychiatry and has rejected such. What I want to communicate is simply the internal working of the mind. Unfortunately the english language doesn't have a word that makes this distinction clear.
Let me help you with the distinction.....

The difference between Christ and psychology is that: psychology is a system of observations or, the systematising of observations about how the human mind works, which, if respected, and the 'client' is respected, can be helpful to both the 'psychologist' and the 'client' in the bringing about of change; how respectful of the process the psychologist is, will have a huge bearing on any possible benefit to the client. How serious about change the client is, will have a huge bearing on any possible benefit which he or she can reap from their new understanding of how to define their need, and how to appropriate any benefit; whereas Christ is the Answer to all searching. Psychology does not deal with Sin or sins. Christ deals with both. He is exquisitely able to heal the most exquisite pains, if they can be brought into His presence. Psychology can also bring about healing, by the simple matter of a person being bothered with, and their inner pain being taken seriously.

This is a work which Christians ought to be doing for each other all the time. But in general, we lack the patience of Christ, and most Christians who are not hurting, think the hurting ones should either buck up their ideas and stop needing help, or, should appropriate their healing from God without causing so much work for others in the process. Sigh.

Lastly, (one of the strings I regularly pluck in this kind of discussion), is that there needs to be a simple understanding amongst members of the Body of Christ, that a person who has been wounded, needs to be healed. They do not need to [i]repent[/i] of hurting. It was not their fault. They may, on the other hand, need to repent of holding on to the guilt of the offender, of holding on to the pain rather than rolling it on to Jesus, but not of being in pain per se. The 'sin' in this case, is the sin of the person who [i]caused[/i] the pain.

Perhaps there is a kind of pride amongst Christians which says, when offended by someone also a Christian, that 'I'm ok'.... 'I don't need to go to my brother and tell him I was offended' .... 'it's more spiritual to say nothing'.... I wonder if it really is 'more spiritual', especially since Jesus gave specific instructions for just this circumstance.....?

sermonindex Feb 25, 2007

LittleGift,

I recognise the scenario you're discussing here, and agree with your concerns to help this woman, but, she has to make her own decisions, in the light of healthier alternatives.

He has also joined the Freemasons!
This is very telling, since he cannot be submitted to Christ and a Freemason.

I searched the scripture for a long time [i]after[/i] I'd left my husband, to find that a Christian woman is not bound to stay with a non-Christian man. I recognise that there can be a very happy marriage where there is love, but this man is not nurturing and cherishing her like a part of his own body any more (Eph 5).

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tjservant Feb 25, 2007

Jeannette


I agree very much. I was not trying to say we shouldn’t accept help from outside sources, I was just wanting to emphasize that we should not seek sources outside of him.

I have also been ministered to by some very unlikely people, places, and things. It is important to realize God’s ways are not our ways.

Why shouldn't He sometimes send non-Christian counsellors, or even a mentally ill woman, full of demons

I know he can and has used non-Christian counselors, but should we be looking to them for answers in the first place?

My concern is not with what he sends or in his abilities, but with where we seek.

God bless

TJ

sermonindex Feb 25, 2007


tjservant wrote:
Jeannette

I agree very much. I was not trying to say we shouldn’t accept help from outside sources, I was just wanting to emphasize that we should not seek sources outside of him.

I have also been ministered to by some very unlikely people, places, and things. It is important to realize God’s ways are not our ways.

Why shouldn't He sometimes send non-Christian counsellors, or even a mentally ill woman, full of demons

I know he can and has used non-Christian counselors, but should we be looking to them for answers in the first place?

My concern is not with what he sends or in his abilities, but with where we seek.

God bless

TJ


Thanks for making your views on this plain Brother. I think we agree :-D

sermonindex Feb 25, 2007


dorcas wrote:
LittleGift,

I recognise the scenario you're discussing here, and agree with your concerns to help this woman, but, she has to make her own decisions, in the light of healthier alternatives.

That's just the problem apparently. She has become so oppressed that she is unable to break free.

Basically we can only pray for her as she lives many miles away. I only met her about twice, some years ago, so don't really know her. The Lord has shown certain things about her situation, but we can only trust Him to somehow get her out.

It's very much a case of "Let my people go!" ..."Pharaoh" has such a hold on her that it will truly take a miracle, but there is also practical help available(such as in a woman's refuge) if she could only come to the point of being [i]able[/i] to try to get away (She isn't allowed any money even for a bus fare, and has to account for every penny of the housekeeping).

He has also joined the Freemasons!
This is very telling, since he cannot be submitted to Christ and a Freemason.

I searched the scripture for a long time [i]after[/i] I'd left my husband, to find that a Christian woman is not bound to stay with a non-Christian man. I recognise that there can be a very happy marriage where there is love, but this man is not nurturing and cherishing her like a part of his own body any more (Eph 5).


He certainly isn't! I fear for this man's soul, I really do.

Jeannette

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John173 Feb 26, 2007

Does the Bible contain the truth?

Does the Bible have all the answers?


Is there an area in which the Bible is insufficient?

how did the world get along for 1,900 years without it?

Is it a new truth?

I'm not sure what your point is here TJ. The point I am trying to make is precisely that the only means of ministering healing to the broken and shattered lives IS the truth. His word and more importantly He Himself. The problem is that few in the church are capable of even acknowledging the need for "psychological" healing. By this I mean that when someone dares to expose their pain to most Christians they often get some pat answer. This is not doing them any good and many times just adds another layer of pain. How many people have turned away from the church because they were rejected for lacking maturity when the reason behind it was a broken heart? Where is our heart? Are we not commanded to love each other?

May God have mercy on us all,

Doug

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tjservant Feb 26, 2007

Diane

I will try to explain.

First of all psychology and psychiatry are 100% completely different.


Brother, I’m sure that you wouldn’t hesitate to go to a doctor if you had appendicitis. In fact refusing to do so could cost you your life.

Yet, I wonder why you would discourage one who is suffering from a psychiatric disorder or relational abuse this same privilege

I support psychiatry with all my heart. This thread was about psychology.

I suspect that those Christians who are strongly opposed to any kind of psychology/psychiatry have not had the opportunity to witness the suffering of the mind of those admitted to a psych ward

(1) Once again psychology and psychiatry are 100% completely different. You can not lump them together.

(2) I was placed in a psych ward for two weeks during high school.

Objectors maybe never have worked in a mental health institution, - or even dealt closely with afflicted ones in church or family, or in themselves.

(1) I work in the health field

(2) I have taken many psych patient transfers. Just me and the patient in the back of an ambulance…many lasting over two hours.

those who have sicknesses of the mind

This has never been proven by anyone…ever. The mind is not something that can have sickness. That’s like saying someone has a sick soul. We can have a sick brain, and brain illness and disease. This is where psychiatry comes in.

And I am thankful for the psychology and psychiatry that I have studied – as little as it is.

Me too. Before I was saved I went to five different psychologist and two psychiatrists.
I took high school psychology and two psychology courses in college. My sister is five credits away from having a degree in psychology.

A caution: Before we denounce an entire field of science and medicine, we first need to consider reality:

The reality is that psychology has never been and never will be a science. This has been proven. Psychiatry is a science, and has been proven to be such.

Many people today come out of families that simply could not provide the environment needed to develop emotionally healthy adults

This is nothing new. It didn’t just start happening. There is nothing new under the sun. How did Christians get along for 1,900 years without psychology?

True, those troubles are a consequence of a society that rejects God, just as are the other ailments, ex cancer, etc…

I agree.

we should be extremely careful about denouncing those who are trying

I have no problem if they are using the Bible.

Is God sufficient?

Does the Bible have all the answers or is it insufficient?


we could find ourselves some day at the receiving end.

I did, and that's why I've posted what I have.

I only have issues with psycho-therapy. That is what over 90% of today’s psychologists use and practice. Psycho-therapy is what is commonly thought of when someone mentions psychology.

I hope I have been clear. I have no issues or problems with people that like and use psychology. I just want to expose it for what it is.

TJ


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roadsign Feb 26, 2007

It's very much a case of "Let my people go!" ..."Pharaoh" has such a hold on her that it will truly take a miracle, but there is also practical help available(such as in a woman's refuge) if she could only come to the point of being able to try to get away (She isn't allowed any money even for a bus fare, and has to account for every penny of the housekeeping).

Jeanette, I am familiar with a very similar situation. Only this couple belonged to the Brethren church and he was one of the leaders there. She was trapped, with not a penny to her name. God miraculously stirred different Christians to provide an escape for her. One person GAVE her a car. Someone else gave her a home and even a job all in another town. My friend (that’s how I heard about it) felt exercised to give her a cash donation one day. It was just what the woman needed for gas and some immediate needs.

May your friend experiences God's merciful intervention.

This is a work which Christians ought to be doing for each other all the time. But in general, we lack the patience of Christ, and most Christians who are not hurting, think the hurting ones should either buck up their ideas and stop needing help, or, should appropriate their healing from God without causing so much work for others in the process. Sigh.

I sigh too, Dorcas! If our churches functioned as hospitals for sick sinners and could facilitate healing, repentance, and victory, people would not need to turn as much to the secular professionals.

The Biblical teachings on love, one-anothering, family relationships etc are conducive to good emotional health. However, where unhealthy patterns become set in, it’s hard to reverse them. Hypocrisy tends to mask them.

As Doug points out:

The problem is that few in the church are capable of even acknowledging the need for "psychological" healing. By this I mean that when someone dares to expose their pain to most Christians they often get some pat answer. This is not doing them any good and many times just adds another layer of pain. How many people have turned away from the church because they were rejected for lacking maturity when the reason behind it was a broken heart? Where is our heart? Are we not commanded to love each other?

A psychologist once told me: "The churches keep them in business (esp RC and JW in her experience)." Doesn’t this reality make you realize that we, the church, really have little right to criticize the secular fields when we have contributed to the need for them?

Diane

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tjservant Feb 26, 2007

I'm not sure what your point is here TJ.

I was just pointing out that we, Christians, do have the means to get the answers and help for these people you speak of. We need not go to outside sources like psychology.

Are we doing it…NO! We are not helping like we should, and I don’t have all the answers, but I know where they are.

I just wanted to point out the fact that we Christians have the right manual, not psychology. It is a sad day and times, but I see that some are abandoning the Bible and looking else where for cures that only come from the Lord.


TJ

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