I too have read many accounts of revival and have been part of a prayer team and we pray for revival. It is a wonder at times, however there are many factors as you have said, we are just too busy to really want it.
All the accounts I have read happened when a group of people decided they wouldn't let go until He blessed them.
In Duncan Campbell's account to the Lewis Revival two sisters set their heart to pray because they grieved so over the condition of the church and more specifically the yound people. They sought God day and night and then approached the preacher with the condition of the believers. They covenanted to cry out to God all night for a long length of time, and God sent Duncan Campbell to them. It wasn't until they were brought face to face with thier own dirty hands that they saw a change. They wept because they needed to change, not somebody else.
We say we want revival but we are unwilling, at least most of us, to pay the price. To be inconvenienced! We want to fill our lives with trashy tv shows and movies, we want to be ugly with cashiers, and other laborers, we want to walk by on the other side when someone is in need. We like cheating on out taxes and lying when someone calls and asks if we can come into work, or more specifically when we don't want to go into work for the day.
We want to have revival when it doesn't interrupt of favorite soap opera. We will give to the ministry with it's hand out, but feel justified keeping the rest for ipods, tvs, clothes, clothes and more clothes. How many pieces of jewelry does one need? How much food is enough? How fancy of a car or house is enough?
Am I saying these things are wrong, not necessarily, however, if we want revival wanting all these things make us work more so we have less time to seek His face, then we have to keep them up so more time. I haven't even mentioned sports, God forbid we should miss our favorite game or not allow our children to be the star player, also much, much time.
This is the reason.
[color=6600CC]Jer 24:7 And I will give them an heart to know me, that I [am] the LORD: and they shall be my people, and I will be their God: for they shall return unto me with their whole heart.[/color]
[color=6600CC]Jer 29:13 And ye shall seek me, and find [me], when ye shall search for me with all your heart.[/color]
[color=6600CC]Hsa 5:15 I will go [and] return to my place, till they acknowledge their offence, and seek my face: in their affliction they will seek me early.[/color]
Until we seek Him with an undivided heart we will not really see revival the way you are longing to see it. However all it would take is for the power grid to go down in the USA and we suddenly would have a lot more time on our hands. What would we do with that time? Would we sit around and wring our hands because we don't know what to do with it or would we seek His face? Would we cuss and fuss because we don't have our beloved hot water, microwave, etc, etc, etc. Hurricane Katrina revealed what was in peoples hearts. We saw the ugly, however there was also a group who stepped out of their ease and gave thier lives for the victims. As ye have done it unto the least of these, ye have done it unto Me.
This is why in Africa they are seeing a number of revivals. They have nothing, therefore nothing has them, except God. They don't have to worry about protecting thier precious goods, they don't have any. However, they have the eternal teasure that nobody can steal.
How much are we (me) willing to pay to see true revival? That is where it starts. It is a lifestyle. It has to consume us, our every waking moment, even our dreams. We have to have personal revival first.
God spoke to my heart that when I come into His presence and allow Him to light the fire that fire will ignite other fires. That is where I am right now, seeking to have my hands cleansed and my junk removed. Seeking to shut off the tv and stop buying stuff I don't need anyway. Seeking to have my eyes of compassion opened to the need around me and being willing to lay down lying and excess.
You asked a very good question, however the answer is why don't I have revival?