The bible says you will know them by their fruit.
If I went back through every entry on this site I am sure I could find some measure of error in every contributor. We all know in part.
[color=0000CC]Jhn 7:24 Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment.[/color]
[color=0000CC]2Cr 10:7 Do ye look on things after the outward appearance? If any man trust to himself that he is Christ's, let him of himself think this again, that, as he [is] Christ's, even so [are] we Christ's.[/color]
[color=0000CC]1Pe 1:22 Seeing ye have purified your souls in obeying the truth through the Spirit unto unfeigned love of the brethren, [see that ye] love one another with a pure heart fervently: [/color]
[color=0000CC]1Pe 3:4 But [let it be] the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, [even the ornament] of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price. [/color]
[color=0000CC]1Sa 16:7 But the LORD said unto Samuel, Look not on his countenance, or on the height of his stature; because I have refused him: for [the LORD seeth] not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the LORD looketh on the heart. [/color]
I believe we need to correct error, however we need to understand that we too are liable to error. Which of us hasn't gone back and said I am sorry I said that, I spoke to hastily?
I have no problem with people addressing error but I do have a problem with someone slamming the person who it just trying to share what they feel God is showing them. Many times I am sure it is just a problem of being able to accurately state what one feels in their heart. To ax someones character it not wise. Nobody really knows what is in someones heart except God.
Is the person's sharing out of a heart to stir people to serve God more fully or are they operating out of a different motive. God might possibly be more pleased with someone who trys to share the burden of their heart and isn't scholarly enough to get it out perfectly than He is with someone who doesn't display love and kindness in dealing with that individual.
I will always err on the side of mercy because I want to be shown mercy.
[color=0000CC]1Sa 16:7 But the LORD said unto Samuel, Look not on his countenance, or on the height of his stature; because I have refused him: for [the LORD seeth] not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the LORD looketh on the heart. [/color]
[color=0000CC]Mat 5:7 Blessed [are] the merciful: for they shall obtain mercy. [/color]
[color=0000CC]1Ti 1:16 Howbeit for this cause I obtained mercy, that in me first Jesus Christ might shew forth all longsuffering, for a pattern to them which should hereafter believe on him to life everlasting. [/color]
[color=0000CC]Jam 2:13 For he shall have judgment without mercy, that hath shewed no mercy; and mercy rejoiceth against judgment. [/color]
[color=0000CC]Jam 3:17 But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, [and] easy to be intreated, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy. [/color]
I can see jumping on an error so it doesn't infect others, however we must be very careful not to malign someone's character, because their heart might be pure. We are to correct is a spirit of meekness.
[color=0000CC]Gal 6:1 Brethren, if a man be overtaken in a fault, ye which are spiritual, restore such an one in the spirit of meekness; considering thyself, lest thou also be tempted.[/color]
You tell me if a spirit of love and meekness has been used when correction has been brought. I have seen people go for the jugular vein here. It is very sad to show so little love towards another brother or sister.
I could bring a correction in the spirit of love. If I love someone it breaks my heart to have to correct them. They are a part of me and when they hurt, I hurt.
I will show you two scenarios:
#1
When correcting a brother or sister let your words be seasoned with love and respect. Carefully weigh your words to make sure that they are in keeping with gentleness and meekness, realizing you are not perfect in all your word either. Love covers a multitude of sins. When correcting a brother make sure it comes from a heart that bleeds for that individual.
#2
The yelling accusations you brought against that brothers word was mean, ugly and didn't have any love in it. If all you do is tear down you should keep your opinions to yourself.
Do you see that our words have the ability to heal or destroy? I can lovingly say brother what you said is in need of some correction without maligning your character. I can weigh my words carefully balanced with scripture to show where the error lies and pray they will see the truth. Slamming them will not further God's purpose in their lives or ours. Correct with gentleness. If we don't, we too are in error.