Dear Mom23,
I have heard a bit about sole ties, and even if there isn't a scripture to point to there is a principle about it.
When we have multiple partners in life we leave a little piece of ourself with each one. We lose something of ourselves that was meant to go to just one person we marry.
It also cause either a hole or a scar when the relationship disolves. These need filled and healed by Jesus.
This is why the first church I attended espoused the book " Kiss Dating Goodbye". It was taught that if you go from relationship to relationship you hurt or are hurt and it is akin to practicing marriage. It doesn't even have to be physical, just emotional attachments. Doing this leaves shipwrecks all over the place.
The point was that if we seek God and follow hard after Him He will reveal who our marriage partner should in due time. We don't have to experiment and break hearts. I think it is a good word.
I think when it goes beyond emotional into the physical is where the soul tie idea comes in. Whoever you are joined to becomes one flesh with you and a bond is forged. When coming to Christ and maybe beyond to a marriage relationship these ties need to be broken.
I feel that this can be done this minute. Ask forgiveness for sin and ask Jesus to apply His blood to your life and ask that any remaining ties be broken. There are signs if an attachment to someone remains. Can you think of that person without any ill feelings? Can you pray for them and really want the best (Jesus) for them?
The thing to be careful of is not to get all caught up into morbid introspection. When we accept Jesus and are baptised we go into that watery grave and come up to walk in newness of life. Old things are passed away and behold all things are new. At that moment ask that every tie with the past be broken. It is. Now reckon yourself to be dead to the past and it will be manifest in newness of life. Glory to God, how can it be any better than that!