I've been involved in churches that were contemporary entertainment oriented. Many times I've heard "this is the way to reach this generation!"...
I have an almost 4 yr old son, and two older sons who were once almost 4 (and another son who will be almost four in another year). Here is a fact: if you put a plate of gummy bears and a plate of meat and veggies in front of him... which will he eat? Gummy bears.
As a parent, what do you do? Let him live on gummy bears? No way! You make that child eat his meat and veggies! Why? Because it's the only way he can grow and be healthy.
So what does the church do? If offers gummy bears thinking once they eat the gummy bears they'll want meat and veggies. Wrong! He wont want meat and veggies because his immediate hunger is met by the gummy bears... but not his nutritional (spiritual) needs.
I like rock music stylistically. It's what I grew up on, however the older I get the easier it is to not be so consumed by it. Lets not debate the merits of musical styles... the issue is the church's attitude that this, and other forms of "entertainment" are the only way to reach this generation of young people. I personally dont think this generation is all that shallow. I think they are looking for truth just as any other generation since Adam has.
If we take the gospel to the streets, and the kids reject it... you know what? We shouldn't be surprised. And on top of that, scripture tells us to dust off our sandels and move on. The world rejected Him, and it will reject us. In the meantime, a few along the way will be prompted by the Holy Spirit to respond.
Scripture says we should compel them to come in... not beg them to come in. Not seduce (entertain) them to come in. It said compel. To me, this means make the offer. Tell them about such a great salvation... but if they slap your hand back, move on. Pray for them, but move on.
Once they do come in, forget the entertainment in order to keep them there. Get the Word of God into them. The Word of God is power, and it is what brings salvation. Not music. Not skits. Not retreats. Not trips to Dollywood.
It's all about the Word of God, and the working of the Holy Spirit thru that Word.
And yes, people like us here on this forum are looked down upon because we oppose this foolishness. So what? One thing coaching has taught me... dont be concerned with what others think. Do whats right.
"oh... you're uncaring, Krispy, because you say we should just walk away from people who reject the gospel!"
No. I just believe in being obedient to God. Jesus said "Give not that which is holy unto the dogs, neither cast ye your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn again and rend you." (Matthew 7:6)
Jesus said that... not me.
The entertainment minded church does just the opposite.
Krispy