Dear brothers and sisters,
it's been for a while now that I wanted to share this with you and ask for your advices and prayer. I know there've been some threads here for witnessing to JW etc. but I need a more specific advice since this is happening in my home.. I will try to describe the situation to you giving you some spiritual history about my dad because it's essential to your understanding of the situation:
My father and mother come from eastern-orthodox background, i.e. they had no true knowledge of the gospel. In his late 20s my father realized that his health was not very good and he's been diagnozed with some sort of arthritis. Since then he was desperatly looking for solution in doctors, medicines, inventions.. These didn't help him too much so he was mainly left to help himself. He then also looked for help in the orthodox religion by observing the orthodox holidays, celebrations and traditions. Finally in his late 30s he came in touch with a protestant Christian (while staying in the hospital due to his illness) who explained him the gospel and took him to several protestant services. He liked what he saw and was told, he believed that was the right way to worship God, accepted the way of salvation presented to him and brought the new teaching at our home.
None of us had read the Bible before and we were sceptic of this 'new doctrine'. But soon he found protestant church in a nearby town and he invited the pastor of the church to come to our home to preach the gospel to us. I will cut the details here and I will tell you that soon our whole family got converted and was baptized and started going to this protestant church. There was sheer opposition from everybody around (and we have an orthodox priest for a neighbor); there've been terrible lies going around (not less made up by the orthodox church itself) for us being a sect etc. but my dad stood firm at all these attacks, boldly defending the gospel and witnessing. In fact he was so much 'on fire' for his new-found faith that he spoke about Christ and salvation in every possible occation, always carrying with himself gospel tracts and New Testament to give away. By his testimony people got better impression of protestant christians and realized we were not dangerous, demonic or similar, and a few also came to Christ.
Now I will cut here the in-between part, which is ~10 years, and come to the recent time.
My father became more and more dissatisfied with the church we attended and apparently this grew to a rebellion in his heart. (I was in Germany for 4 years until 09/06, so I wasn't direct witness of the process of 'cooling' and 'inward rebellion'). A few weeks after my coming back from Germany, my dad invited JWs into our home who were going from door to door in the building we live. Now this wasn't accidental, that he just opened the door to them. It was actually purposeful. His rebellion caused him probably to 'look for other ways' and there they were, the witnesses knocking on our neighbors doors, and he especially invited them in, before they even came to our door. While he was 'active' at the protestant church he didn't approve the JWs (that was what our pastor was teaching) and even though he had met them before in our home, he told them that he has his knowledge of the Bible and if they came to bring another doctrine they should stop comming to our home, which they actually did. But now he was really interested in their teaching and wondered why the pastor had told him to shun them, perhaps because they were right and had even better doctrine and the protestant pastor was being now what the orthodox priest had been before when he came to the protestant church?? So he invited them to come again, and so they started coming every week, explaining him their doctrine.
I didn't like them coming to our home and neither did my mom, so she insisted when they came again that they must not come again and somehow made them not to come to our home. Well this didn't stop my dad to meet them at another place and to continue "fellowshipping" with them. What started seemingly as "trying to see what they're teaching" became soaking of their doctrine like a sponge. They got him on the Trinity and he surrendered to them for everything else afterwards. His heart was so open to their doctrine that he was ready to forsake all that he had heard and learned from the Bible, the protestant church and other Christian books, for the sake of this new doctrine. This was a total shock to me, my pastor and all believers who knew my dad. They all knew him as a very zealous Christian and now he left our church for the Watchtower..
I was not ready for this. I immediately started searching for verses that were proving my previous learned doctrine, to prove firstly to myself that I wasn't believing lies before and things that weren't in the Bible and at the same time I was sharing them with my dad. Now this sharing was more like giving my arguments from here and there as I was finding them, that our prevous knowledge was right and JWs were wrong rather than calmly and humbly speaking the truth in love. There were other believers who came to expose him the right Bible teachings esp. concerning the Trinity, but that didn't help. He is convinced that the Trinity doctrine is wrong and therefore all the confusion and divisions in the trinitarian churches, and therefore all the sin in the church reaching to the leadership positions of the churches (homosexuals, adulterers, criminals etc.) He believes that the JWs in fact have the true fruits by which "we know they are Christians", in the fact that they don't mix with politics, they have strict order by which everything functions properly and godly.
As he is progressing more and more into this new doctrine I am becoming more and more aware that this is utterly serious and is not playing games. My personal conclusion is that my father had never really been trully saved, and that's my impression the more he tries to "witness" to me. I couldn't understand this, (I think you can understand me now that you've read a bit of his spiritual history), but this has helped me tremendously in the way I need to 'treat' my father. He is actually "natural man" who "receiveth not the things of the Spirit of God: for they are foolishness unto him: neither can he know them, because they are spiritually discerned." And I was trying all this time to show him the truth through scripture. Not that this was necessarily wrong, but I was just expecting him to see what he was not seeing and I was getting frustrated with that. Many times I was not aware that I am not fighting against flesh and blood, and was getting emotional in my conversations instead of representing Christ. Recently I try to avoid discussing Scripture as it has shown in vain, but now he is provoking, and he starts "teaching" at home, at which I (sometimes) have to reply back. On one hand I feel I can do nothing by talking, on the other hand I just can't sit and watch how my dad is slowly but surely getting entrapped in the mighty tentacles of the Watchtower Society.
Please brethren pray for me that God will give me wisdom how to behave towards my dad. He thinks I'm hardened in heart in religion and I'm blindly following men's doctrine and I'm against him.
If anyone has any advice, please share.
I know the verses in Heb.6:4-6 and 1Joh.5:16, but I don't know what they mean. I am still praying for my father and hoping that God has better plan for him and our family than what the devil has deviced. I hope that this will all turn for the glory of the Lord by my dad's genuine repentance and conversion and so I pray. Please join me in prayer if you feel led to.
Thank you for reading.
Your sister in our Lord Jesus Christ,
Milica
