is 5 years old, old enough for a convicting message about hell and all that stuff that brings a grown man to his knees. you know, repentance, and sin seperates us from god and we become enemies, but that god loved us so much he died for us? is talking about hell too much for a 5 year old...if its not then i would like to start really praying about how i can help with the children.
"...Verily I say unto you, Except ye be converted, and become as little children, ye shall not enter into the kingdom of heaven." (MAT 18:3)
luckyd, if you're asking whether or not children as young as five can grasp the concepts of Jesus' Passion (scourged, beaten, humiliated, and hung to die on a tree), sin, and everlasting torments in the uttermost bowels of Hell... I think they might understand, but you may do irrepairable damage.
I recently lived with a gentleman who heard this kind of thing from his mother from early childhood into his teenage years. The result? Psychological trauma, neurosis, intense feelings of guilt, shame, and fear. The poor guy could barely socialize let alone talk to a girl...
I've met too many people that have been "guilted" into Christianity (if you want to call it that) when they were mere children - and it nearly always ends in rebellion and disaster.
Children were (are) at ease with Jesus because they were (are) more like him than adults.
"...Jesus said, Suffer little children, and forbid them not, to come unto me: for of such is the kingdom of heaven." (MAT 19:14)
They aren't mired in a multitude of sins like adults. They are innocents. They are defenceless. This is why the Lord appoints an angel to watch over each and every child:
"Take heed that ye despise not one of these little ones; for I say unto you, That in heaven their angels do always behold the face of my Father which is in heaven." (MAT 18:10)
This is why he defends and avenges them:
"But [b]whoso shall offend one of these little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea.[/b]" (MAT 18:6)
I say let the children enjoy their childhood while they can and maybe teach them some of the "lighter" stories of the Bible. Save the darker elements, like sin, hell, the incestuous rape of Tamar, the rape of David's concubines, etc... for when they are adults - when they've known and have participated in evil and can acknowledge their personal need for salvation.
Do not force them.
"When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things." (I COR 13:11)