reformer, you hit a main feature of "Personality Cults". The Leaders are "mean".
That's the first thing that should be watched for.
They demand submission, gentleness and so forth from their followers, but in turn they can be very heartless and mean toward anyone that doesn't tote their own invisible line.
That's a means of control - to keep the people frightened of them and under submission.
Confusing people by "what is alright and what isn't" is the constant "tension" they hold over the people.
Their "rebukes" are very unkind and that is classic of Personality Cults.
I read just one critique just now that this man did on the Bobgan's, who I happen to respect and found he was grasping for straws and splitting hairs.
These type men have nothing much going for them except that they can rip others apart to make something out of and a name for themselves.
I call them the little Napoleons. Power hungry.
If his ministry was there to "heal" broken people - he wouldn't be "mean" himself.
It's men like that that make the good Heresy exposers look bad.
Also if the attention is not toward Christ alone and more toward the authors themseves - No Good.
Kingdom builders they're called. Their Ministries are not pointing to Jesus alone but toward themselves and their own name.
"Mean" equals Not Good/Control freaks.
Thanks reformer.