Hi JamesBless you brother for this thought provoking question.One thing that has been discouraging however is the apparent taboo of talking about one’s religion, especially if that religion happens to be Christianity. It is sad that we have to be “tactful” when speaking of spiritual things when, it is so easy to speak blatant profanities in front of anyone. Surely these things ought not so to be. Is there a reason why Christian in particular are constrained so much more by social norms than any other groups or is this a sign of a lack of spiritual growth in our own lives? You say I am pessimistic. Surely in a country like the United States where more than half the nation (statistically of course) profess to be Christians there should be more evidence of the light of Jesus. How can we remedy this situation?There is a related thread here:EvangelismYes, there is a sinister undermining of a word that is prevalent in this country;Tolerance.Found this interesting;From ye old Websters Dictionary of 1828ToleranceTOL'ERANCE, n. [L. tolerantia, from tolero, to bear.] The power or capacity of enduring; or the act of enduring.Diogenes one frosty morning came to the market place shaking, to show his tolerance.[Little used. But intolerance is in common use.]________________________________________________Yes, that last part is from the definition!But of course this is stemming from the unregenerate side of things, or should I say, should be because the term has been redefined to mean something entirely different these days and has also crept into the church as well.What that new definition is, well maybe somebody can come along and bail me out here, I am not sure just what it is supposed to mean anymore.It seems to be a catch word for escaping or dealing with truth. Married to that is another cleverly used pair of words; Moral Relativism*, at least as how it is also being used to defy the responsibility of us human creatures to our Creator who is God.*Moral relativism is the view that ethical standards, morality, and positions of right or wrong are culturally based and therefore subject to a person's individual choice. We can all decide what is right for ourselves. You decide what's right for you, and I'll decide what's right for me. Moral relativism says, "It's true for me, if I believe it." http://www.moral-relativism.com/Don't get the wrong idea here, I hardly have a true grasp on all of this, a lot these things are to 'heady' for me.But none of this should have a bearing on us as Christians, yet if we are honest it does.It is something I have been wrestling with somewhat of late and it really comes down to some basic, gut level issues.Do I believe God? Truly?Do I fear 'man'? Do I?If the first is true and the second false then it should make absolutely no difference at all what I think or others think. That's not to say we are to be without compassion toward others nor is it to compromise was is true. If we truly love we will tell the truth even if it causes us injury to do so. Easy to say, harder to preform.What's the solution?Jesus.True heart conversion.True dying to self, self-interest, self-gratification, self-exaltation. It's been touched on before here in many ways, but I am slowly beginning to see that it is a glorious thing because though it seems you are losing so much of 'you', you really are gaining;Luk 9:24-26 "For whosoever will save his life shall lose it: but whosoever will lose his life for my sake, the same shall save it. For what is a man advantaged, if he gain the whole world, and lose himself, or be cast away? For whosoever shall be ashamed of me and of my words, of him shall the Son of man be ashamed, when he shall come in his own glory, and in his Father's, and of the holy angels." I believe this applies also to the here and now.To borrow again a loose paraphrase from Zac Poonen, "If you're 'dead', what can harm you?, What can a dead corpse do? You can kick it, hurl insults at it, spit on it and it just lies there."'You' are unaffected, 'you' are not easily offended...because it's not about 'you', it's about Him. It is so freeing in so many ways, I can only hope to die more today and that the Lord would truly become Lord over every aspect of my life.2Co 4:10,11 "Always bearing about in the body the dying of the Lord Jesus, that the life also of Jesus might be made manifest in our body. For we which live are alway delivered unto death for Jesus' sake, that the life also of Jesus might be made manifest in our mortal flesh."A book that I have been reading and cannot recommend highly enough is:The Spirit of Truth by Arthur Katz & Paul Volk.The link will take you to an online version.Here is a snippet:" There are many of us who have been crippled for as long or longer, sitting in our "correct" understanding, but unable to walk in truth. In order to be able to walk in the Spirit of Truth, one must be made whole. Do we want to be made whole? When God comes and asks that question, He is asking about something far more than our health or our bank account; He is asking about our whole life. Do we want truth to drop like a plumb line into every area of our lives, revealing as well as righting every inconsistency? Do we want every false and deceptive thing removed so that we might speak truly, deal truly, and live truly? We all want to walk, but do we want to walk in the way and in the life? Jesus said, "I am the way, and the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father, but by Me." (Jn 14:6 NAS). To be made whole, to be able to walk in this way, we need to cry out, not, "God, give me more truth," but, "God, make me true!* Teach my heart to fear your name!"(*My emphasis)Sorry for the lengthEdit: Also, if you are able you might check out the featured video:The Love of the Truth (video)