I have a friend who attends a church here locally. A Baptist church. The preaching is generally on target.
But here is the situation. In the church is a couple who live together. Both have been previously married. The man is a widower, the woman is divorced from a man who was sexually abusive to her daughter. The man has a teenage son, the woman a teenage daughter and another daughter about the age of 9-10.
Never the less, they are living together, and they apparently see nothing wrong with it.
One of the older men in the church confronted them about this, and the couple got mad and didn’t attend for a while, but returned. The leadership in the church doesn’t want to address the situation because they are afraid the couple will leave for good. They seem to believe that if the couple is in the church then perhaps at some time or another they will be convicted of their sin and repent. Add to the mix that this is a church of 200 max, and everyone is blood related 1st, 2nd and 3rd cousin twice removed sorta thing.
In the meantime, this man who is living with his girlfriend is involved in the decision making in the church, has no problem quoting scriptures and voicing his opinion in business meetings, and other meetings that deal with the direction and operation of the church.
My friend doesn’t know what to do.
All y’all should know what my suggestions were. But I thought this would be an interesting topic for discussion. If you had been in this church for a long time, and everyone is related… how would you handle this situation?
Krispy
