First, my name is always a source of confusion for people. I am a sister in the Lord, married with 3 children, and I am the mother of those children, not the father.
Speaking about the fear of the Lord, the word of God tells us in 2 Cor 5v11 that knowing therefore the terror of the Lord we persuade men etc.
Why is that? The verse before tells us. We must all, that is all, appear before the judgment seat of Christ.
As it is, I see and hear in the churches, things that show not only no fear of God, but a rejection on Him and His word.
I hear 'Christians' swearing, using the Lord's name in vain, disrespecting parents, being involved with the world, the list could go on.
Your perspective is pretty up, mine is almost ascetism, but not quite, so there is hope!
However, I do wonder how God views all He sees taking place in both the Church and the world.
I do continue to pray, because I know God does hear and answer our prayers, and tells us in Luke 18v1 to always pray and not lose heart.
God is to be worshipped and glorified because He is worthy.
God bless.