The Patriarchs had no organisation; they had a family. Their relationships were sufficient to maintain order and unity.Ron, I agree 100%. That is one of the things that should mark a NT church. To maintain a sense of family, where…44All the believers were together and had everything in common. 45Selling their possessions and goods, they gave to anyone as he had need. 46Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts. They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts, 47praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people. And the Lord added to their number daily those who were being saved.Acts 2:44-47One of the hardest things I believe is to maintain that sense of family within a congregation of believers. We are going through a Church expansion here, and the Eldership team has been emphasising family. Without it we miss the true environment, where God the Father can manifest his care amongst the people. Maintaining that where you have a 1000 members takes effort, my mind boggles at 5000, 10 000. Phew. There are so many challenges when the lost are brought into our Churches, but one of them is restoring trust in the family model. Broken marriages, cause many folk to grow up with a tainted sense of family, from personal experience, relating to authority figures in this way can seem rather vulnerable.There is a teaching by Bob Mumford on the Hebrew and Greek model of governance, which I found helpful in understanding Hebrew thought. I don’t have any information on that particular teaching, but seeing as the Jews were the ones who wrote most of the NT it is helpful in understanding what they wrote and why they wrote it. What I can remember is that the Jews thought in the concept of a Father exercising authority over his family, not as government exercising control over subjects.It is puzzling for me to see the board of elders, for example, kicking out a pastor from the church.Accountability for those decisions is important to maintain credibility, I don’t know if those elders where making that decision on there own, or in relation to an external group. From reading the NT I see that Paul’s relationship to ‘his’ churches was one of relationship, and whatever happened in those Churches was based upon a trust that what Paul said must be true. 17Join with others in following my example, brothers, and take note of those who live according to the pattern we gave you. Phil 3:17 Talking to the church in Philippi.13What you heard from me, keep as the pattern of sound teaching, with faith and love in Christ Jesus. 2 Tim 1:13Paul with his team elected elders in those Churches. Not the board of elders within that church.Then they returned to Lystra, Iconium and Antioch, 22strengthening the disciples and encouraging them to remain true to the faith. "We must go through many hardships to enter the kingdom of God," they said. 23Paul and Barnabas appointed elders for them in each church. Acts 14:21-235The reason I left you in Crete was that you might straighten out what was left unfinished and appoint elders in every town, as I directed you. Titus 1:5So Paul spoke very directly into the lives of those churches, but in the local congregation the elders are they highest authority,17The elders who direct the affairs of the church well are worthy of double honor…1 Tim 5:17So what happens in that Church is up to them. It may seem contradictory, but friendship and love is what under girds it all. The elder, To my dear friend Gaius, whom I love in the truth. 3 John: 1These are not concrete stones, that are immovable, but are frameworks of relationship. It certainly highlights the need for open, honest and transparent communication within the body and with those that our churches relate to.