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How long should a worship service last?

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LoveGodsWay2 Oct 23, 2008

[b]How long should a worship service last?[/b]

Our worship service is generally about 2-1/2 hours long. We worship for about 1-1/2 hours including communion & offering. Then 1 hour for preaching & ending ministry time. Sometimes we can go over 3 hours.

Our leadership is considering changes to shorten the service. The reason: the new people (visitors) don't like the long services.

Now before you throw stones at our leadership, please consider the following:

[i]1) The average American Christian wants a 1 hour service. That isn't the fault of our leadership.

2) Our leadership wants the longer services, but they also want to minister to people where they are at. They understand that all Christians are at different maturity in the faith. They (the leadership) may the desire and can handle longer services, but they can't minister to people when they leave.

3) Even though we have longer services, I would guess that less than 50% of our people appear to really worship. The rest mostly watch. (Now, I don’t know people hearts and I’m not judging them in a condemning matter. So I am just going based on their body language which appears to say, “I am only watching. How long are we going today?”) So do we keep going long when less than 50% want to?

4) How long do people need to minister to God? 1 hour, 2 hours, 4 hours, 10 hours? I believe it was A.W. Tozer said that quality is better than quantity.

5) How long does God need to touch His people?[/i]

So back to the question: How long should a worship service last?

sermonindex Oct 23, 2008

Wow... good question. I think the best way to handle this situation is to make it clear to everyone that if they need to leave... or even if they just "want" to leave that they are free to do so without any judgement. But I would not want to put a cap on the Holy Spirit if He is truly working and moving among His people.

For instance... I'm a diabetic. Usually if we visit a church that has a 3 hour service it runs right thru lunch and into the afternoon. I simply cant do that, I need to eat. It's not a matter of being hungry, it's a matter of my medication causing a sugar low and me ending up face down... and not because of the Holy Spirit. Me personally I plan ahead and usually have something with me. My wife will have a sandwich or something in her purse for me.

But you may get a visitor in a similar situation who didnt know it would go that long... they need to know they are free to leave without people looking at them... otherwise you might have a medical situation on your hands.

Also, some elderly people may not be able to sit that long.

I think you need to strike a balance. Make sure people know they can leave without having all eyes on them as they exit.

I wont flame your leaders over this, this is a legitimate issue. Sounds to me like y'all need to have a church wide meeting to discuss it and lay it all out. But freedom is the answer. Freedom to come in late, freedom to leave early if need be. Punctuality in church is not disussed in the Bible... it's a man made law. I've actually heard sermons (in fundamental Baptist churches) where the preacher railed against people not being on time for church services... thats a crock. There's nothing in scripture about that.

We all need to lighten up. :-)

Krispy

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LoveGodsWay2 Oct 23, 2008

Krispy,

Thank you for your thoughts.

One idea that they are considering is to do most of worship at the end instead of the beginning. What I mean, have a short time of worship, have the communion & offering, preaching and then an optional extended worship time.

I love God's way!

sermonindex Oct 23, 2008

Yea... that would work. I definately think a time of praise and worship before the Word is good because it does help us get focussed on the Lord. But nothing says we cant have even more worship later. Usually after hearing a good message from the Word I am in a great mood to worship and just be in His presence... but in most churches... thats when everyone heads to the door.

Thats what is so nice about house churching. We just go with the flow. No schedule, no program.

Krispy

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ccchhhrrriiisss Oct 23, 2008

If you mean "service" as in the congregated meeting -- then I think that it depends.

I have been in 4 hour meetings that just seemed too short...and 20 minute meetings that just seemed too long. I guess that we have so many congregations that are so concerned about "decency and order" that they follow the same sort of schedule that has been handed down for centuries...all the way from the pagans in Rome.

There are few requirements for a meeting listed in the Word of God. The early Church did not meet in ornate buildings with stained glass windows, fancy instruments, lovely pews and gifted choirs. They met from home to home. They broke two types of bread (physical food and the Word).

But what was the purpose of their meeting? To learn? Peter said to some that by that time that they should be teachers. To sing? We worship always. To pray? We pray always. To fellowship with others who share similar doctrinal views? But there is only one Gospel. So why are we encouraged to meet together -- and all the more as we see that day approaching (Hebrews 10:25)? "...but [u]exhorting one another[/u]: and so much the more, as ye see the day approaching." One of the great purposes for meeting together as the days grow dark, I believe, is to encourage one another. That can take minutes...or hours. Yet we can encourage one another outside of a building...or home...or cathedral. We can exhort one another here at SermonIndex. But in my opinion, there is holy intimacy when we exhort one another in person.

I have always lamented the fact that it is difficult for the Body of Christ to truly be in one accord. We are so aware of those around us. We don't pray or cry aloud when we feel urgency for fear of offending others. We don't share what is on our hearts for fear of disturbing "the order of the service." Most of the time, we attend to hear what the pastor (or guest speaker) has to say -- even when they often have little to say (but say it anyway).

I thought about something the other day. There are messages here on SI that I can hear 100 times -- and feel encouraged...and challenged...and broken...and impassioned...every single time. Yet I have sat in congregations where I didn't get anything (as far as revelation or spiritual challenge) for over 100 services! Sure, the pastor "preached." Sure, the congregation sang and gave offerings. But people arrive, sit through the meeting, go through the motions, pray at the end, and then leave. Where is the "exhortation" or "encouragement" of ONE ANOTHER as we see that day approaching? From songs? From an impersonal sermon? From the feeling of sitting in a "holy place?"

I guess I should try to give my 2 cents to your question. How long is the right time?

We should meet with one another until we have attempted to encourage and exhort -- or have received such encouragement and exhortation. If we can't meet in a public place (building, home, campground, or whatever) then we should meet and encourage one another wherever we can. Some of the most meaningful "meetings" that I have been in were in caves, log cabins, campgrounds, home fellowships, and even my college dorm! It wasn't that I couldn't pray, sing, worship, or hear the Word of God any differently. I do those things when I am alone. It is just that there was a real type of encouragement with one another. Sometimes, it was simple fellowship with just one other brother in my dorm. Sometimes, it was just speaking with friends in a meeting as we spoke about the things of God.

So how much time is the proper amount of time? As much as it takes. I just pray that we would stop trying to "force" a move of God (which probably would not be a real move of God since it is forced) by trying to make things happen. I pray that we also wouldn't try to hurry up either. We should not feel bound. We have liberty. We should have the liberty to trust Him and walk with the freedom that He gives to encourage and be encouraged. We should not fear leaving early and being judged as "less spiritual" simply because you have things to do or need your rest.

:-)

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LoveGodsWay2 Oct 23, 2008

We should meet with one another until we have attempted to encourage and exhort -- or have received such encouragement and exhortation. If we can't meet in a public place (building, home, campground, or whatever) then we should meet and encourage one another wherever we can. Some of the most meaningful "meetings" that I have been in were in caves, log cabins, campgrounds, home fellowships, and even my college dorm! It wasn't that I couldn't pray, sing, worship, or hear the Word of God any differently. I do those things when I am alone. It is just that there was a real type of encouragement with one another. Sometimes, it was simple fellowship with just one other brother in my dorm. Sometimes, it was just speaking with friends in a meeting as we spoke about the things of God.

I agree with you totally. Recently, my wife & I had fellowship with another couple around a fire in my back yard. I was awesome because we were all in unity & the Holy Spirit was there.

We should not fear leaving early and being judged as "less spiritual" simply because you have things to do or need your rest.

I also agree with you there. However, no matter how you say it or how often you says, people still feel bad about leaving early.

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iansmith Oct 23, 2008

Here's a fresh idea that would 'shorten' your service without reducing the content. Instead of having a traditional communion where people stand in lines for as much as 20 minutes to get a waffer and a bit of grape juice. Why not wrap up the preaching a little early (Christmas Evans and many other preachers said that great truths can be spoken in short sermons) and enjoy a meal together.

Have the pastor stand up and pray over the meal, have him give the run-down of what it means for believers to eat a meal together, observing the last supper. Then enjoy the fellowship of Christ over food.

This would be a great way to 'shorten' your service without removing content, and maybe adding some value. What seeker would be put off by a free meal.

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KingJimmy Oct 24, 2008

I think "How long should a worship service last?" is the wrong question. Can you show me anywhere in the New Testament where we see the church coming together for a "worship service?"

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