Hi Josh... obviously you're not a Calvinist! lol
I do believe God brings the right person into your life... if you let Him.
My wife and I met before either of us were Christians. Lived together for awhile, got married, and then got saved. Not the ideal way to do it, but God had His hand in it even before we were saved. Neither of us are the same as we were back then, and even better suited for each other now than back then.
She is one of the sweetest, most loving and effectionate women you could ever dream of meeting. She is absolutely gorgeous to look at, but better than that... her true inner beauty outshines her outer beauty because of her childlike love for the Father.
When we were 22 years old we were both unregenerate sinners. How could I have ever seen what I see in her now back then? I couldn't, but God could... and He knew she was just what I needed.
(I hope she reads this! lol! ...hi Darlin'!)
But it's all absolutely true!!
Krispy