[b]First question:[/b] the rapture.
My answer to this is very simple. It doesn't matter. Are you prepared to stand before the face of God and give an account for the life you have lived? Are you prepared for eternity? If yes, then you are prepared for the rapture and the tribulation. If we are raptured pre-trib, rejoice and be glad; if mid-trib, rejoice and be glad; if post-trib, rejoice and be glad. Are you even certain you shall live to see that rapture or the tribulation, are you promised to live to the day? All that matters is that your name be written in the Lamb's book of Life. Try not to get distracted by all of these controversial end-time prophecies. The reason I say this is because not everything has been revealed concerning these things and yet there are a 101 commentaries that all claim to have it all figured out. It doesn't matter. One way or another, you get to heaven. In the meantime, don't worry about tomorrow, concern yourself with today and judgment day.
[b]Second question:[/b]
"what happens to the one's that never had a chance? like in the civilizations with no thought of christ and where there is people who die without ever even knowing?!?! they dont even get a chance!"
Now this is an assumption. Brother Abe has said the truth.
1) Your first assumption is that these people do not know God.
[b]Romans 1
18.[/b] For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who hold the truth in unrighteousness;
[b]19.[/b] Because that which may be known of God is manifest in them; for God hath shewed it unto them.
[b]20.[/b] For the invisible things of him from the creation of the world are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even his eternal power and Godhead; so that they are without excuse:
[b]21.[/b] Because that, when they knew God, they glorified him not as God, neither were thankful; but became vain in their imaginations, and their foolish heart was darkened.
2) Your second assumption is that they have never had the chance to hear of Christ. I assure you, the providence of God's grace upon all men has seen to it. To think that someone has not had the chance, or shall not have the chance, is to have little faith in the lovingkindness of God in Christ Jesus. [edit: Just to clarify, to have the chance of knowing Christ is obviously not the same as actually having a knowledge of Christ. Either way, if someone has not believed in the Son of God then the root of that sin first began when they hated to retain God in their knowledge. Therefore, if the unbeliever has no love for the knowledge of God then 1) they are justly condemned and, 2) there is no benefit in revealing Christ to them. If they have hated God, how shall they love the Son of God?] His Spirit is in all places, moving upon all people: through his saints, prophets and evangelists, and even through dreams and visions (believe me I have heard many testimonies). No one has escaped the gospel of Christ and this is the very reason they shall be condemned to eternal hell. For the Holy Evangelist Himself has testified
[b]John 3
14.[/b] as Moses lifted up the serpent in the wilderness, even so must the Son of man be lifted up:
[b]15.[/b] That whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have eternal life.
[b]16.[/b] For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
[b]17.[/b] For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved.
[b]18.[/b] He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
[b]19.[/b] And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil.
Therefore, no one is judged according to darkness or ignorance. But every man is judged according to the light -- according to the truth they have suppressed in unrighteousness. (It is quite impossible to suppress truth unless you have it first revealed to you.) For "the times of this ignorance God winked at; but now commands all men every where to repent." Therefore, do not consider so impotently the witness of the Holy Spirit and of the body of Christ in this world. Be confident in this: Shall not the Judge of all the earth do right?