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Sharing Christ b/c We Don't Celebrate Christmas

sermonindex Dec 25, 2008

I just wanted to give a brief testimony of how God is using the fact that we don't celebrate Christmas as a means to share Christ. Every year many people mostly in the check out lanes at the grocery store ect.. wish us a Merry Christmas and we in turn tell them why we don't celebrate it and of course they always ask "Why?" We explain why and tell them the reason Christ came. It has been a valuable tool to share Christ and I praise God for it!

Also my manager at work gave me a gift card enclosed in a Christmas card to all his associates in our dept. I gave it back, thanked him for the generous thought and explained to him why I can't take the gift. He lit up!!! He couldn't believe what he was hearing. I'm not bragging but it actually breaks my heart to think how so many lost people rarely see a real christian anymore. I just mean someone who stands for their convictions.My mangager's demeaner has changed towards me. He respects me more now and I get more respect from him in this regard than most christians. Amazing! They know we are gaining nothing from it for ourselves obviously so they know their is more to it than just not celebrating it.

Every year now when this day comes around it's harvest time for this family! God has used this occasion to strengthen and equip us,helping us focus our eyes on Him and not on this world. God bless you today! :-)

sermonindex Dec 25, 2008

Thank you for sharing Rebecca.

Could you elaborate more when you have a chance, on just what words came to you to say to this cashier and your boss.

Our and many others have had the meaning of Christmas turned on it's head, because of this financial situation in this country.
Even those in our family who never thought they'd ever be affectd - especially our long time retired Dad - who worked over 70 yr.s and in this, his is 90th year, has lost all but all that he had worked 2 to 3 jobs for all of his life.
We as a family - have made this our first "no gift" Christmas for his sake and for ours who have found ourselves un-employed in what was once a family of mostly "comfortable living" folks.

I love it personally. I didn't even decorate and yet even at my age, AARP age - I'm loving this difference. I'm seeing Christmas now more as, looking forward to HIS '2nd' Advent and finding myself saying "GLORY" much more.

It's all HIM focused now - and has been a very revelatory experience.
I feel badly that it took my Dad's financial crash to finally get my family to stop the excess gift exchange - but I pray they'll see that Eternity is all that matters because none are saved but me and one niece.

Big family for HIM to draw - and at this late hour - yet I'm praying that this giftless Christmas will open a new door with them.

Thank you for sharing and I look forward to anymore that you can tell of your explanation to these folks.

LORD Bless You. Looking forward to seeing you and all, at HIS 2nd Advent.
Praise GOD !

W
White_Stone Dec 25, 2008

Dear Rebecca,

Thank you for sharing this testimony. I especially appreciate how you make this statement with only a few words. If the cashiers are 'drawn' they will ask for more. They will remember you and the next time they see you maybe they will be eager for more.

Since I plant a garden each year, it is clear to me that the ground must be prepared [b]before the seed is sown[/b].

I remind myself -- sometimes I am the plow, sometimes the planter, sometimes I must hoe the weeds and cultivate the young plants.

Best regards,
white stone

P.S. No mention of your husband suffering ill effects from the work on the hot water line And the job must be holding. Praise the Lord.

sermonindex Dec 25, 2008

I'm not bragging but it actually breaks my heart to think how so many lost people rarely see a real christian anymore. I just mean someone who stands for their convictions.My mangager's demeaner has changed towards me. He respects me more now and I get more respect from him in this regard than most christians.

Curious to know...how do you know if he respects you?

F
fuehrerbe21 Dec 25, 2008

it actually breaks my heart to think how so many lost people rarely see a real christian anymore.

Does this imply that Christians who do celebrate Christmas are not "real" Christians?

Don't forget that Jehovah's Witnesses don't celebrate Christmas either, but I wouldn't say they are Christian at all.

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fuehrerbe21 wrote:
it actually breaks my heart to think how so many lost people rarely see a real christian anymore.

Does this imply that Christians who do celebrate Christmas are not "real" Christians?

Don't forget that Jehovah's Witnesses don't celebrate Christmas either, but I wouldn't say they are Christian at all.


Great point fuehrerbe21. I don't think it makes me any less a christian than anyone else. We exchange presents, "santa" comes in the morning and we have a wonderful time.

Personally I think many are way to Pharisaical about certain subjects. We get in such an up roar about holidays, we forget about the 364 days in the year we seem to ignore.


:-)

sermonindex Dec 25, 2008

Thanks for the input. I appreciate and respect your convictions either way. I don't feel free to teach any longer on Sermon Index as a woman--another of my own personal convictions not held by everyone. I enjoy testifying and posting articles, videos ect..but that's all and it's not easy for me because I like to comment sometimes but don't feel it's my place to. I am reading your posts though and appreciate each and every one of you greatly! :-)

(Thanks for the pm's and visiting my blog)

T
theopenlife Dec 25, 2008

Since RebeccaF is not further articulating her thoughts (though she could have her husband read and approve messages prior to posting them, as Priscilla and Aquila did) I will attempt to suggest what she may have meant by certain statements. Perhaps she will reply with, "yes, that's what I meant," or, "no, I meant something else."

By "a real Christian", I'm sure she did not mean everyone who celebrates Christ's birth on Dec. 25 is not a believer. After all, many people sincerely think that's when he was born, and have no idea what the "Mas" in "Christmas" means.

I suppose she explained to her manager her reasoning for not joining in Christmas, namely because there is no Mass of Christ to be continually offered for sin, again and again. She might have said, "He died once and for all time, and my faith is in His perfect sacrifice for forgiveness."

Obviously every true Christian believes this, but not everyone tells it point-blank to their manager. So, I imagine the manager went away thinking, "wow, she has sincere religious convictions. I don't meet many people with real attachment to that Jesus figure, or to this idea of forgiveness based on faith alone in His death and resurrection." Perhaps he respects her more for having seen her integrity to hold firm with her personal convictions, and this may be shown in his confiding in her or trusting her to other tasks, or simply to a more sober aspect with which he relates to her.

Let's be generous in our estimation of one another.

sermonindex Dec 25, 2008


theopenlife wrote:
Since RebeccaF is not further articulating her thoughts (though she could have her husband read and approve messages prior to posting them, as Priscilla and Aquila did) I will attempt to suggest what she may have meant by certain statements. Perhaps she will reply with, "yes, that's what I meant," or, "no, I meant something else."

By "a real Christian", I'm sure she did not mean everyone who celebrates Christ's birth on Dec. 25 is not a believer. After all, many people sincerely think that's when he was born, and have no idea what the "Mas" in "Christmas" means.

I suppose she explained to her manager her reasoning for not joining in Christmas, namely because there is no Mass of Christ to be continually offered for sin, again and again. She might have said, "He died once and for all time, and my faith is in His perfect sacrifice for forgiveness."

Obviously every true Christian believes this, but not everyone tells it point-blank to their manager. So, I imagine the manager went away thinking, "wow, she has sincere religious convictions. I don't meet many people with real attachment to that Jesus figure, or to this idea of forgiveness based on faith alone in His death and resurrection." Perhaps he respects her more for having seen her integrity to hold firm with her personal convictions, and this may be shown in his confiding in her or trusting her to other tasks, or simply to a more sober aspect with which he relates to her.

Let's be generous in our estimation of one another.

:-)

T
theopenlife Dec 25, 2008

*Edited, made longer*

This year I was asked to wear a Merry Christmas button at work. I politely asked to be excused from the obligation, stating that if it said, "Merry Advent," I would wear it happily; but that given the strong Roman Catholic presence in Southern California, I did not wish to communicate and encourage something contrary to my beliefs.

Certainly there are many true believers who have no qualms with the word or celebration of Christmas. After all, many people innocently believe December 25th is when the Lord was born, and have no idea what the "Mas" in "Christmas" means.

My primary reason for objecting to the term is that an estimated one-billion Roman Catholics presently use that title and day to celebrate the supposed Eucharistic sacrifice of Christ. The reality is that there is no Mass of Christ to be continually offered for sin, again and again. Rather, He died once and for all time, and my faith is in His perfect sacrifice for forgiveness.

"We are sanctified [made righteous] through the offering of the body of Jesus Christ once for all. And every priest standeth daily ministering and offering oftentimes the same sacrifices, which can never take away sins: But this man [Christ Jesus], after he had offered one sacrifice for sins for ever, sat down on the right hand of God."
- Hebrews 10:10-12

Obviously every true Christian believes this, but not everyone tells it plainly to their managers, coworkers, and family. Though this may not be the case, my hope is that my manager went away thinking, "Wow, he has sincere religious convictions. I don't meet many people with real attachment to that Jesus figure, or to the idea of forgiveness based on faith alone in His death and resurrection." Maybe he just feels annoyed.

I would love a button that says,

"December 25th is the day when most people covet gifts and food, but a few remember that God became a man, most likely in the summer. Thank God on that day for your gifts and food, and for Jesus who is the Savior of all who believe on Him."

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theopenlife wrote:
Since RebeccaF is not further articulating her thoughts (though she could have her husband read and approve messages prior to posting them, as Priscilla and Aquila did) I will attempt to suggest what she may have meant by certain statements. Perhaps she will reply with, "yes, that's what I meant," or, "no, I meant something else."

By "a real Christian", I'm sure she did not mean everyone who celebrates Christ's birth on Dec. 25 is not a believer. After all, many people sincerely think that's when he was born, and have no idea what the "Mas" in "Christmas" means.

I suppose she explained to her manager her reasoning for not joining in Christmas, namely because there is no Mass of Christ to be continually offered for sin, again and again. She might have said, "He died once and for all time, and my faith is in His perfect sacrifice for forgiveness."

Obviously every true Christian believes this, but not everyone tells it point-blank to their manager. So, I imagine the manager went away thinking, "wow, she has sincere religious convictions. I don't meet many people with real attachment to that Jesus figure, or to this idea of forgiveness based on faith alone in His death and resurrection." Perhaps he respects her more for having seen her integrity to hold firm with her personal convictions, and this may be shown in his confiding in her or trusting her to other tasks, or simply to a more sober aspect with which he relates to her.

Let's be generous in our estimation of one another.

I think we all are fair in our estimations on one another based on the information that we have at hand. We base our thoughts based on what we read and interpret in our own personal convictions.

There have been many people on SI that have been much more ungenerous to those who may believe KJV only, tongues, and much more debatable issues. Not saying that all is justified, but we deal with "people" articulating there thoughts through a keyboard! Its nearly impossible to get true emotions through this forum.

I am sorry she feels like she doesn't want to be on SI now. But, we must all take everything with a grain of salt.

:-)

W
White_Stone Dec 25, 2008

Hello reformer,

Re-read rebecca's comment:

I don't feel free to [b]teach any longer on Sermon Index as a woman[/b]--another of my own personal convictions not held by everyone. [b]I enjoy testifying and posting articles, videos ect..but that's all and it's not easy for me because I like to comment sometimes but don't feel it's my place to[/b]. . .

Rebecca is still a presence on SI and does she post. It seems she simply does not feel it is her place to instruct men.

I would ask you to clarify your comment

. . . . But, we must all take everything with a grain of salt.
Both posts you have made on this thread have an uncharitable sound to them. This one directly after a correction on the fact. I know we are all typing and not speaking face to face but when you type, try to consider how you might feel [b]if/when[/b] you meet this kind soul in heaven. By her every post or comment she has proven herself to me to be a child of God. I will follow:
John 7:24 Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment.
and reserve that on your posts/comments until I read more. If you come up a little short in this judgment, I will be praying for you to grow and excel in faith and charity.

white stone

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White_Stone wrote:
Hello reformer,

Re-read rebecca's comment:

I don't feel free to [b]teach any longer on Sermon Index as a woman[/b]--another of my own personal convictions not held by everyone. [b]I enjoy testifying and posting articles, videos ect..but that's all and it's not easy for me because I like to comment sometimes but don't feel it's my place to[/b]. . .

Rebecca is still a presence on SI and does she post. It seems she simply does not feel it is her place to instruct men.

I would ask you to clarify your comment

. . . . But, we must all take everything with a grain of salt.
Both posts you have made on this thread have an uncharitable sound to them. This one directly after a correction on the fact. I know we are all typing and not speaking face to face but when you type, try to consider how you might feel [b]if/when[/b] you meet this kind soul in heaven. By her every post or comment she has proven herself to me to be a child of God. I will follow:
John 7:24 Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment.
and reserve that on your posts/comments until I read more. If you come up a little short in this judgment, I will be praying for you to grow and excel in faith and charity.

white stone

White Stone I was not commenting on rebecca's last post, it was based on what Openlife stated.... I replied to his post by using the quote button, hence showing his post on my post.

I disagree my post have not been uncharitable at all. how is this unkind :

"Curious to know...how do you know if he respects you?"

"Great point fuehrerbe21. I don't think it makes me any less a christian than anyone else. We exchange presents, "santa" comes in the morning and we have a wonderful time.

"Personally I think many are way to Pharisaical about certain subjects. We get in such an up roar about holidays, we forget about the 364 days in the year we seem to ignore."

How is that unkind. Personally I get agitated when certain holiday's role around or events that have Christian beliefs and everyone seems to have such strong opinions on those days. "for the anger of a man does not achieve the righteousness of God." James 1:20

what happens on the 364 days of the year? What do we say to those around us that curse? Or steal and lie? Are principles and morals seem to apply on one or two days a year, we stand opposed against non believers or believers on those days. But don't care much about the other days. Thats all I am saying.

"By her every post or comment she has proven herself to me to be a child of God. "

Never assumed she wasn't a child of God. :-(



If you come up a little short in this judgment, I will be praying for you to grow and excel in faith and charity.

I won't reply to this comment on this thread. I will gladly PM you if you are willing to further discuss this, I would rather not, but I would be happy to engage in a private discussion.


:-)

edit: What I meant about a grain of salt...is not take everything so personal.

W
White_Stone Dec 25, 2008

Hello reformer,

Glad that is straightened out.

Now, you said

. . . . what happens on the 364 days of the year? What do we say to those around us that curse? Or steal and lie? Are principles and morals seem to apply on one or two days a year, we stand opposed against non believers or believers on those days. [b]But don't care much about the other days. Thats all I am saying.[/b]

The very same Rock supports me all the days of the year and I believe we follow the same Lord. Lord willing you will get to know me better and will find that we actually do see eye to eye, just have different approaches to voicing our opinion.

Kindest regards,
white stone

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White_Stone wrote:
Hello reformer,

Glad that is straightened out.

Now, you said

. . . . what happens on the 364 days of the year? What do we say to those around us that curse? Or steal and lie? Are principles and morals seem to apply on one or two days a year, we stand opposed against non believers or believers on those days. [b]But don't care much about the other days. Thats all I am saying.[/b]

The very same Rock supports me all the days of the year and I believe we follow the same Lord. Lord willing you will get to know me better and will find that we actually do see eye to eye, just have different approaches to voicing our opinion.

Kindest regards,
white stone

Amen, I'm thankful to meet likeminded believers through the internet but at the same time I would love to meet some of you in person some day. :-) It's hard to communicate via computer. It's always been a challenge for me.

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White_Stone wrote:
Hello reformer,

Glad that is straightened out.

Now, you said

. . . . what happens on the 364 days of the year? What do we say to those around us that curse? Or steal and lie? Are principles and morals seem to apply on one or two days a year, we stand opposed against non believers or believers on those days. [b]But don't care much about the other days. Thats all I am saying.[/b]

The very same Rock supports me all the days of the year and I believe we follow the same Lord. Lord willing you will get to know me better and will find that we actually do see eye to eye, just have different approaches to voicing our opinion.

Kindest regards,
white stone

I do look forward to getting to know you and many others as well. I do believe we share the same Lord, and sounds like with passion from both of us. I get sharpened and equipped through this thread and others. Our discussion has been encouraging and correcting to me...so I see no loss but only gain. So to me, it is healthy for me to get challenged...it causing me to check myself and I learn more about myself and others.

A little about me originally from Michigan...so I am a yankee, Italian and German descent...so that is where my roughness comes from!:-) You should talk to my mom! talk about opinionated!! She scares me! :-P

Regards and blessings
refomer

S
savannah Dec 26, 2008

2 Cor. 5:16 "Though we have known Christ after the flesh, now henceforth know we him so no more.”

Therefore, from now on, we regard no one according to the flesh. Even though we have known Christ according to the flesh, yet now we know Him thus no longer. (Tyndale)

Paul here places emphasis upon the resurrected Christ, as verse 15 ends with 'and rose again' to which the 'therefore' in this verse refers.

We regard no one according to the flesh: Why? Because we do not look at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen (2 Cor. 4:18). Because our earthly tent will be destroyed, but we will have a new body, eternal in the heavens (2 Cor. 5:1). Because we walk by faith, not by sight (2 Cor. 5:7). Because we do not glory in appearance, but we glory in heart (2 Cor. 5:12). For all these reasons, we don't look to the image and appearance of the flesh, but to the substance of the heart.

Even though we have known Christ according to the flesh, yet we know Him thus no longer: Even those who knew Jesus in the flesh found their new relationship with Him through the Holy Spirit far more rewarding.

When he knew Christ after the flesh he considered Him as the leader of a new sect, the leader of a new party, a menace to holy religion. He says we do not see Him like that any more. We know Him now in the Spirit, by the Spirit." (Morgan)

Even the disciples were poor followers of Jesus until they knew Him by the Spirit on the day of Pentecost.

We know Him thus no longer: Some think that it would be better if Jesus were present with us according to the flesh. But it would not be, and Jesus knew this. This is why Jesus told His disciples It is to your advantage that I go away; for if I do not go away, the Helper will not come to you; but if I depart, I will send Him to you (John 16:7). (David Guzik)

Our search is not for the earthly Christ or the Jesus of the flesh. Our search is for the risen Savior. (Read John 20)

Most professing christians are still living only in that which at best is a shadow and not reality. All traditions, ceremonies, rituals, symbols, etc., are merely shadows of reality!

Though we have known Christ after the flesh, yet now henceforth know we him no more(2 Cor 5:16).

We understand Paul to mean that we are to know Christ spiritually and not according to the letter, or after the flesh, or as an infant, for this is of no value to our spiritual life.

We are commanded to remember Him in his death, and no special day of the year is specified for this. He said: Take eat, this is my body which is broken for you, this DO in remembrance of me (Luke 22:19; 1 Cor. 11:24).

This ought to be considered in light of Christ's command in Mat 28:20, "...teaching them to observe all, whatever I did command you, and lo, I am with you all the days--till the full end of the age.'"

And His rebuke in Mark 7:7-9, "Howbeit in vain do they worship me, teaching for doctrines the commandments of men. For laying aside the commandment of God, ye hold the tradition of men, as the washing of pots and cups: and many other such like things ye do. And he said unto them, Full well ye reject the commandment of God, that ye may keep your own tradition."

To commemorate His death is scriptural,to commemorate his birth is non-scriptural whether you choose any day or the day December 25th.

In 1 Kings 12:6-33 we find King Rehoboam at the beginning of his reign involved in will-worship and going the way of Cain.

The biblical record shows that many of the Kings who reigned afterward were punished for reverting back to the sins of Rehoboam.

Some of the more notable verses which jump out at me in this chapter are:

And King Rehoboam consulted with the elders who had been standing before the face of his father Solomon while he was alive, saying, How do you advise in order to answer this people?
And they spoke to him, saying, If you are servant to this people today, and will serve them, and answer them and speak to them good words, then they will be servants to you forever.
But he forsook the counsel of the elders which they advised him, and consulted with the young men who had grown up with him, who were standing before him.
And he said to them, What do you advise, and we shall answer the people who have spoken to me, saying, Lighten some of the yoke that your father put upon us?
And they spoke to him, the young men who had grown up with him, saying, So you shall say to this people who have spoken to you, saying, Your father made our yoke heavy, and you make it light on us; so you shall speak to them, My little finger is thicker than the loins of my father,
and now my father laid a heavy yoke on you, and I will add to your yoke; my father chastised you with whips, and I will surely chastise you with scorpions.
And they came, Jeroboam and all the people, to Rehoboam on the third day, as the king had spoken, saying, Come back to me on the third day.
And the king replied to the people harshly, and forsook the counsel of the elders which they advised him, and spoke to them according to the counsel of the young men... And the king did not listen to the people, for the turn of events was from Jehovah, in order to lift up His Word that Jehovah spoke by the hand of Ahijah the Shilonite to Jeroboam the son of Nebat...And Israel rebelled against the house of David to this day.

And Jeroboam said in his heart, Now the kingdom shall turn back to the house of David; if this people go up to do sacrifice in the house of Jehovah at Jerusalem, then the heart of this people shall turn again to their lord, to Rehoboam the king of Judah, and they will kill me and go again to Rehoboam the king of Judah.
And the king took counsel and made two calves of gold. And he said to them, It is too much for you to go up to Jerusalem. Behold your gods, O Israel, which brought you up out of the land of Egypt! And he set the one in Bethel, and the other he put in Dan. And this thing became a sin, for the people went before the one, to Dan.
And he made a house of high places, and made priests of the lowest of people, who were not of the sons of Levi. And Jeroboam made a feast in the eighth month, in the fifteenth day of the month, like the feast that is in Judah; and he offered on the altar, so he did in Bethel, to sacrifice to the calves which he made; and he made stand in Bethel the priests of the high places that he made. And he offered up on the altar that he made in Bethel, on the fifteenth day of the eighth month, in the month that he devised out of his own heart; and he made a feast for the sons of Israel, and offered on the altar, to burn incense.

First, "he forsook the counsel of the elders which they advised him, and consulted with the young men who had grown up with him..."

Second, "he devised out of his own heart" and took liberty where none had been given "And he made a house of high places, and made priests of the lowest of people, who were not of the sons of Levi. And Jeroboam made a feast in the eighth month, in the fifteenth day of the month, like the feast that is in Judah...for the sons of Israel..."

I pray the Word of God alone,by His Spirit, would accomplish that which He pleases and prosper it thereto in His people.

In Rom 1:25 we read of those 'who changed the truth of God into the lie'.

With christmas the attempt is to change 'the lie' into 'the truth of God'.

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