Thank you all for patience while I prepared a response. May it be used of God.
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A number of retorts have come up which I felt worthwhile to confront.
I will begin with the statements of 123, who said,
So you are saying that God hates all who are not chosen (which is most people) and that they are dammed to hell to be tormented and punished for eternity and they never even have a chance to be saved? why create them?
The situation is more nuanced than that. I have answered this question thoroughly in a post for September 1st, 2008, entitled [url=http://theopenlife.blogspot.com/2008/09/does-god-love-all-people-equally.html]Does God love all people equally?[/url]
And now if I may reply to the comments of SimonB, that I appreciate your irenic spirit, however I must confront an error. Are you aware that your statement, "neither a Calvinist, nor an Arminian," is untenable because of the mutually exclusive beliefs of both sets? There is no valid middle ground. You may plead ignorance, or admit a total deviation from even the bare semblance of historic Christian faith, but there is no place for so-called Calminianism. For those interested, I offer an explanation of this in a post for January 14th, 2008, [url=http://theopenlife.blogspot.com/2008/01/neither-calvinism-nor-arminianism.html]"Neither Calvinism nor Arminianism."[/url]
Simon also said,
As for why some receive the free gift and some don´t, I believe is beyond anyone's understanding. As for predestination etc, God is omniscient and can see the response everyone will or wont make and you could say predestinates us accordingly. Could a just and righteous holy loving God draw some and not others? put the desire to respond in some and not others?
You are right that the exact motive for why God determined to save a particular person and not another is something He alone knows, but the facts about why the Elect receive saving grace and why reprobates are passed by, is not a mystery to anyone who reads Romans 9 or Ephesians 1 & 2 without a world-imposed sense of self-entitlement. No one "deserves" to hear the gospel, whether or not anyone else gets to. Have you not heard, the Jews alone were given the oracles of God and made sole custodians of His Old Covenant for thousands of years? Meanwhile rest of the world chased idols to hell, unaware. All along God was just.
The argument that God's election is based on foreknowledge of who would, decisively of themselves, place faith in Christ, is not sound. A full choir of biblical texts sing the sobering notes: natural man does not seek God in any saving sense. Therefore, God could not have "looked ahead" to see men doing what they will not do!
Romans 8:7-8 says of unsaved persons, "the carnal mind is enmity against God: for it is not subject to the law of God, neither indeed can be. So then they that are in the flesh cannot please God."
Colossians 1:21 describes the lives of believers before they were born again. "You were formerly alienated and enemies in your mind, engaged in evil deeds."
Paul teaches that "whatsoever is not of faith, is sin." No unbeliever has true faith in Christ, and for this reason even his otherwise good works are made sinful. His every action is committed upon a usurped throne, like a treacherous despot using his false powers to mask villainy by acts of charity. This continual doing of evil, characteristic of the unbeliever, is what John eludes to when he writes, "Everyone who does evil hates the Light, and does not come to the Light for fear that his deeds will be exposed." [John 3:20] Those who do evil, that is all faithless sinners, do not come to the light.
The heart which seeks God rightly, does so only because God has permitted him an allowance of grace not before enjoyed. Isaiah 65:1 says, "I [the Lord] permitted Myself to be sought by those who did not ask for Me; I permitted Myself to be found by those who did not seek Me." This was necessary because, as Isaiah writes previously, "There is no one who calls on Your name, who arouses himself to take hold of You; for You have hidden Your face from us and have delivered us into the power of our iniquities." [Isaiah 64:7] For his sin, man has been delivered wholesale into the power of iniquity. "When they knew God, they glorified him not as God, neither were thankful; but became vain in their imaginations, and their foolish heart was darkened." [Romans 1:21]
This darkness and captivity to sin and the devil is so complete that we must pray for a sovereign work of God to undo it. 2 Timothy 2:25-26 instructs believers, "In meekness instructing those that oppose themselves; if God peradventure will give them repentance to the acknowledging of the truth, And that they may recover themselves out of the snare of the devil, who are taken captive by him at his will." Here we see clearly that the will of natural man is subservient to the will of their captor, the devil, who in turn may be foiled by God's almighty will. If God wants them to repent, He grants them repentance and they are instantly freed from their willful enslavement to sin and Satan.
Some persons read Romans 3:10-12, which says "there is none who seeks for God", and interpret the passage to mean that no one would have sought God unless He first revealed Himself through nature, philosophy, or the gospel itself. But after He reveals Himself, lost people change their minds and decide to believe. Such persons seem to think that God comes to us and presents a choice, to have faith or remain in disbelief, but does nothing more internal or effectual. The trouble with this view is that natural man will not place faith in Christ, even if the information is served to him on John's platter. Let us reason about this.
The scriptures divide men uniformly into two categories, natural and spiritual. (1 Cor 2:14, Romans 8:7-8) Natural men are not yet saved. Spiritual men are those who have been born of the Spirit. In this context, those who have genuine faith cannot be called natural. This fact implies that up to very moment before one has true faith in Christ, he is yet carnal. Now reconsider the passage,
"The natural man receiveth not the things of the Spirit of God: for they are foolishness unto him: neither can he know them, because they are spiritually discerned." (1 Cor 2:14)
Again, there are only two categories, natural and spiritual. Before one becomes a spiritual man he is a natural man. So long as he is natural he will not receive the things of God as pertaining to himself. How can he choose to become a spiritual man if spiritual things seem foolish to him?
Not only do the things of God seem foolish to the natural man, but he cannot know them. Again, the moment before one has faith, he is certainly a carnal man. What does this mean with passages like Romans 8:7-8, "The carnal mind is enmity against God: for it is not subject to the law of God, neither indeed can be." It is not just that carnal man thinks the way of God by faith is foolish, but he is at enmity with God. He is fighting to be accepted by his own deeds, or to go on in sin without repentance. According to his relentless internal wickedness he would have gone on forever in enmity against God's way, because he "neither indeed can be" made submissive to God's law of faith.
How then may carnal people place trust in Christ? Because in a single instant of time, being understood in logical order, God transforms - that is, regenerates, or rebirths- elect persons in such a way that their lively souls are freed from sin to believe that the promises of salvation are not only for others, but to them, and by faith these promises are applied to the elect. Again, this is not successive in time, but logically speaking regeneration proceeds faith.
I understand the alarm people might feel towards what I have just said, because I once held similar views. Feelings aside, the Arminian perspective remains a mere optic filter held between man and the word of God, to distort the Redemptive message into one that coheres with a natural sense of entitlement and mistaken assumptions about justice.
Romans 9 pours smoke in the hole of every serpentine notion of self-determination:
When Rebecca also had conceived by one, even by our father Isaac; (For the children being not yet born, neither having done any good or evil, that the purpose of God according to election might stand, not of works, but of him that calleth;) it was said unto her, The elder shall serve the younger. As it is written, Jacob have I loved, but Esau have I hated. What shall we say then? Is there unrighteousness with God? God forbid. For he saith to Moses, I will have mercy on whom I will have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I will have compassion. So then it is not of him that willeth, nor of him that runneth, but of God that sheweth mercy. For the scripture saith unto Pharaoh, Even for this same purpose have I raised thee up, that I might shew my power in thee, and that my name might be declared throughout all the earth.
Therefore hath he mercy on whom he will have mercy, and whom he will he hardeneth. Thou wilt say then unto me, Why doth he yet find fault? For who hath resisted his will? Nay but, O man, who art thou that repliest against God? Shall the thing formed say to him that formed it, Why hast thou made me thus? Hath not the potter power over the clay, of the same lump to make one vessel unto honour, and another unto dishonour? What if God, willing to shew his wrath, and to make his power known, endured with much longsuffering the vessels of wrath fitted to destruction: And that he might make known the riches of his glory on the vessels of mercy, which he had afore prepared unto glory, Even us, whom he hath called, not of the Jews only, but also of the Gentiles?
God's election was without regard for any "good or evil" that hypothetically could have been done by Jacob or Esau. This was arranged so that "the purpose according to election might stand." God's purpose in election is to magnify His mysterious grace in Christ towards the "vessels of mercy" whom He, the Potter, is shaping, and to punctuate His power and wrath by demonstrating vengeance upon "vessels of wrath", whom He, the Creator and Providential King, is "fitting to destruction." These are hard words, upon which men are broken. If you or I, or anyone is saved, it is only because the Lord saved us from our God-damnable selves.
The original poster, nicknamed Bible 1985, wrote concerning souls in hell,
They will hate these torments and wish they would have repented if they only knew better.
Friend, you are at odds with scripture. The damned will gnash their teeth and wish they had somehow evaded God's judgment, but they will never wish to be free of sin by Christ, which is the essence of true repentance. A lake of fires cannot lick up the yearnings of the damned for sin. Dives asked for water to cool his tongue, instead of a Savior to douse his wickedness.
Bible 1985 also suggested that,
"[God] draws all men some time in their life to Jesus and they resist the holy spirit when God draws them or opens their eyes to the truth."
May I remind you that Paul says explicitly that without the preaching of the word none can be saved: "How then shall they call on him in whom they have not believed? and how shall they believe in him of whom they have not heard? and how shall they hear without a preacher?" And yet, in God's providence, though against His great commission, not all men hear the gospel. Is God drawing these ones?
One might hope men who never hear the gospel shall be judged according to their consciences, by how they responded to the work of the law in their hearts. This is a cloud without water, it is a hopeless hope. Romans 5 asserts that by virtue of Adam's sin and the fallen nature which it endows, all men are born into condemnation:
"As one trespass led to condemnation for all men, so one act of righteousness leads to justification and life for all men. For as by the one man’s disobedience the many were made sinners, so by the one man’s obedience the many will be made righteous."
This passage also reveals most brilliantly that just as Adam's sin guaranteed the condemnation of all his children by the sin nature which causes them to freely rebel, so in the same way Christ's obedient atonement guaranteed the new nature which is given to all of His seed, which causes them to freely obey the gospel call. One might now argue that while all men are Adam's descendants, yet believers should not be spoken of as Christ's children. These must now turn a blind eye to Psalm 22, which refers to the elect in this way, "A seed shall serve him; it shall be accounted to the Lord for a generation."
Finally, Bible1985 quoted a person who said,
I take the hand of my puppet, put a knife in its hand, and raise that hand and knife so that the puppet kills something. And then, I turn to the puppet in whose hand I put the knife and whose hand I forced to move to kill something, and I say, "You wicked puppet. Now you'll have to be punished." And I throw the puppet into the fire. That's Calvinism.
No. That's a myopic, bigoted, and ignorant view of matters that beg more than an armchair glance and dismissal. Those are the words of a man who has not beheld the sovereignty of God in the scriptures. Observe now Roman torturers fulfilling an intricate foreordained plan - details such as pierced hands and feet, a plucked beard, though not a single bone broken, vinegar , a tree and a spear. Watch how they fulfill the eternal council of God, pertaining to the Lamb slain form the foundation of the world, and then be judged wicked for their participation in it! God did not get lucky that His prophecies came true, neither was the cross simply a matter of chance which God foresaw. Dispel the tiny thought! God is mightier than our powers of comprehension, and has wisdom to ordain events without sharing in the guilt of those who fulfill them.
The inability to conceive how God decrees sin without morally approving or partaking in it does not negate the reality of the fact. Did not God send a lying spirit to king Ahab? 1 Kings 22:22, says,
And the LORD said, Who shall persuade Ahab, that he may go up and fall at Ramothgilead? And one said on this manner, and another said on that manner. And there came forth a spirit, and stood before the LORD, and said, I will persuade him. And the LORD said unto him, Wherewith? And he said, I will go forth, and I will be a lying spirit in the mouth of all his prophets. And he said, Thou shalt persuade him, and prevail also: go forth, and do so. Now therefore, behold, the LORD hath put a lying spirit in the mouth of all these thy prophets, and the LORD hath spoken evil concerning thee.
And what of the men ordained to perdition, described in Jude 1:4? "For there are certain men crept in unawares, who were before of old ordained to this condemnation, ungodly men, turning the grace of our God into lasciviousness, and denying the only Lord God, and our Lord Jesus Christ."
Would any believer take credit for his being a vessel of gold or silver in God's house? Could any sinner accuse God of injustice for not sending the gospel to his land? We do not ask the kettle if he approves of either our filling him with sweet tea or setting him over the flames. Household vessels are chosen and used as the homeowner decides. Likewise, the visible church is a great house in which the Lord has vessels chosen for honor, and others which are being prepared for the dishonor of damnation:
[2 Tim 2:20] "Nevertheless the foundation of God standeth sure, having this seal, The Lord knoweth them that are his. And, let every one that nameth the name of Christ depart from iniquity. But in a great house there are not only vessels of gold and of silver, but also of wood and of earth; and some to honour, and some to dishonour."
It is fitting to conclude with Christ's words, "Whosoever shall fall on this stone shall be broken: but on whomsoever it shall fall, it will grind him to powder." The doctrines pertaining to sovereign grace are truths ordained to break hearts, and no others form a more solid foundation on which to rest.
Amen, and may God bless the reader.