Below is a passage from, The Pilgrim’s Progress, a Christian allegory written in 1678 by John Bunyan. I am paraphrasing and adding a little of my own stuff, but I thought this was really good.
[First, you must abhor anyone or anything that turns you out of the way of truth; as well as your own consenting to follow these falsities, because this is to reject the counsel of God for the sake of the counsel of a worldly man. The Lord says to strive to enter in at the narrow gate, the gate to which He has called us; for narrow is the gate that leads to life, and few there be that find it. Following worldly wisdom will cause you to stumble and ultimately bring you to destruction; hate therefore the world for turning you out of the way of truth, and abhor yourself for hearkening to it.
Secondly, you must abhor anyone who labors to render the Cross odious unto you; for you ought to prefer the Cross above the treasures of Egypt. He that will save his life shall lose it: and he that comes after Him, and hates not his father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brothers, and sisters, and more so his own life, he cannot be My disciple. For anyone to labor to persuade you, that the Cross shall be your death, without which, God has said, you cannot have eternal life, that teaching you should hate. For we are all called to take up our Cross daily and bear in the sufferings of Christ, for this is our glory! If we do not learn the Cross and Him crucified our knowledge of God will be false.
Thirdly, you must hate everything that sets your feet in the way that leads to death. For the wages of sin is death. Therefore anything that causes you to sin against God and His Holy Spirit, cut it off. We must learn to hate the bondage of sin.]
When Christians unto Carnal Men give ear,
Out of their way they go, and pay for ‘t dear;
For Master Worldy Wiseman can but shew
A Saint the way to Bondage and to Woe.
