Sorry if I post some things that have already been said. I tried to go through the old posts and can see you’ve been talking about this for a while.I’ve been reading and writing and listening and talking about this subject for a while too.Pardon the bold and underlines. I am most certainly not yelling. I am just pointing with my cyber finger to key passages.Maybe I can be of some use….[First of all… John Calvin didn’t die for my sins. Neither did James Arminius. I could care less if what I say disagrees with anything they wrote.]I see in the Bible that everyone is headed for hell.Romans 310 as it is written, "there is none righteous, not even one; 11 there is none who understands, there is none who seeks for God; 12 all have turned aside, together they have become useless; there is none who does good, there is not even one."The question is not “Why does God chose some but exclude the rest?”It is “Why does God choose anybody?”Ephesians 14 just as He chose us in Him before the foundation of the world, that we would be holy and blameless before Him. In love 5 He predestined us to adoption as sons through Jesus Christ to Himself, according to the kind intention of His will, “…according to the kind intention of His will”.Out of the entire dregs of humanity, none of which were coming to Him or willfully “choosing Him”, He chose some out of the heap to be, not only saved, but His family.2 Thessalonians 2:13But we are bound to give thanks alway to God for you, brethren beloved of the Lord, because God hath from the beginning chosen you to salvation through sanctification of the Spirit and belief of the truth: The next statement that’s said is, “That’s not fair.”” The main objection many have to predestination I think is - If God really did choose certain people to be saved and certain people to not be saved, how is that fair?."I agree.I don’t want what’s “fair”. Do you want what’s “fair”?Sorry but that’s how Paul responds…Romans 914 What shall we say then? There is no injustice with God, is there? May it never be! 15 For He says to Moses, "I WILL HAVE MERCY ON WHOM I HAVE MERCY, AND I WILL HAVE COMPASSION ON WHOM I HAVE COMPASSION." 16 So then it does not depend on the man who wills or the man who runs, but on God who has mercy. 17 For the Scripture says to Pharaoh, "FOR THIS VERY PURPOSE I RAISED YOU UP, TO DEMONSTRATE MY POWER IN YOU, AND THAT MY NAME MIGHT BE PROCLAIMED THROUGHOUT THE WHOLE EARTH." 18 So then He has mercy on whom He desires, and He hardens whom He desires. 19 You will say to me then, "Why does He still find fault? For who resists His will?" 20 On the contrary, who are you, O man, who answers back to God? The thing molded will not say to the molder, "Why did you make me like this," will it? 21 Or does not the potter have a right over the clay, to make from the same lump one vessel for honorable use and another for common use? 22 What if God, although willing to demonstrate His wrath and to make His power known, endured with much patience vessels of wrath prepared for destruction? "I believe that God attempts to influence everyone to choose what's right, but some have hardened their hearts, and so God has to give them over to a reprobate mind. John 6:44-4544 No man can come to me, except the Father which hath sent me draw him: and I will raise him up at the last day.45 It is written in the prophets, And they shall be all taught of God. Every man therefore that hath heard, and hath learned of the Father, cometh unto me.I’ve usually seen people understand this as a “wooing”. An enticement of their “God shaped hole”.Jesus isn’t really speaking of it being very subtle.“Draw” helko {hel'-ko} Strongs #16701) to draw, drag off 2) metaph., to draw by inward power, lead, impelThe same word is found else where but not translated so softly…James 2:6 But you have dishonored the poor man. Is it not the rich who oppress you and personally drag you into court? “Drag” in the NASB. Same word as John 6:44 translated “draw”.John 21:6And He said to them, "Cast the net on the right-hand side of the boat and you will find a catch." So they cast, and then they were not able to haul it in because of the great number of fish. “Haul” in the NASB. Same word, helko, as John 6:44 translated “draw”. The fish were not “wooed” into the net.But what about…John 12:32"And I, if I am lifted up from the earth, will draw all men to Myself."He drags and hauls everybody to Him?I don’t think God means everybody every time when He says “all”.For instance…John 6 37 "All that the Father gives Me will come to Me, and the one who comes to Me I will certainly not cast out. 38 "For I have come down from heaven, not to do My own will, but the will of Him who sent Me. 39 "This is the will of Him who sent Me, that of all that He has given Me I lose nothing, but raise it up on the last day. He “draws” all that are given to Him.And the ones the Father “gives” will come to Him.But what about “Free Will”?”God doesn’t want robots. He wants somebody that willingly chooses Him.”I see choices in the Bible.I even see God holding people accountable for making the wrong choices.Acts 1730 "Therefore having overlooked the times of ignorance, God is now declaring to men that all people everywhere should repent, 31 because He has fixed a day in which He will judge the world in righteousness through a Man whom He has appointed, having furnished proof to all men by raising Him from the dead." But will they?How can they?I remind you of Romans 9.Romans 918 So then He has mercy on whom He desires, and He hardens whom He desires. 19 You will say to me then, "Why does He still find fault? For who resists His will?" 20 On the contrary, who are you, O man, who answers back to God? The thing molded will not say to the molder, "Why did you make me like this," will it?We are accountable for our wrong choices.And we all willingly choose wrong.I don’t see Mans will as being all that “free”.Romans 310 as it is written, "there is none righteous, not even one; 11 there is none who understands, there is none who seeks for God; 12 all have turned aside, together they have become useless; there is none who does good, there is not even one."Man is a sinner. He is corrupted by sin.He is entirely corrupted. His soul, his body and his mind. (Total Depravity)(By this I don’t mean individuals are as bad as they could be but they are tainted throughout.)A crack addict is free to make choices too.If given a hundred dollars what will he willingly “choose”?He needs help.Man is not splashing at the top of the pool desperately reaching for a life preserver that Christ is holding out. He is floating at the bottom of the pool. Two lungs full of water and unconscious. Christ needed to plunge in and get us. Not just offer us a rescue.Wow. This is pretty robust forum. Look at all it allowed me to say. (Other forums cut you down to so many words.)Again, sorry if I went over what’s already been said but I thought I might toss in some more “chapter and verse”.