Thank you Travis for that word. Very well written. In regards to Eschatology, I only suggest that the 1 Corinthians that the LORD showed you (which I have absolutely no doubt that He did), nothing being new under the sun, what happened once before will happen again under totally different circumstances, and not related to bible prophecy as referring to an "End". I needed to insert that, but that is not the topic at hand.
I wanted to comment on your post. I agree with you on every point. There seems to be that mindset where people do want to be "saved" but don't want to pay the price of the Holy Spirit by our cooperation in mortifying the deeds of the flesh. Every man is certainly dead in Christ (in theory), but not every man knows that (they need to "hear" the gospel), not even some of us believers know that (not being taught). I too had never known what those things meant until I was taught the deep things of God. Now the practicality of those things taught doesn't mean that they are instantly understood, I wish it was that way, but slowly but surely it sinks in.
There is something about the Crucified Christ and taking man with Him to that cross to which people simply do not want to be associated with. They that live godly in this life shall suffer persecution. Being Godly is one who is first of all dead to the deeds of the flesh because God cannot sin and does not have that nature. Secondly, God is a Spirit and His worshipers are those that worship Him in Spirit and Truth. They must be in the Spirit and filled with Him and walking in the truth, there can't be any error.
With the information given thus far by other posters and yourself suggests to me that the Emergent Church doesn't want to offend anyone, yet they are willing to offend God. So their motive is not to serve God but self, though they have "God" on their lips and profess to know Jesus Christ.
I remember years ago watching a documentary about gays in the church. There was one that was etched into my mind where this gay led church all were singing the song, "Are you washed in the blood of the lamb". I remember years further back where they were saying that Churches were removing songs about the blood because they were offensive. But here they are singing it anyway. It's an awful thing when a person is deceived by their own sin. They make allowances for it so they may preserve it.