Hi Heydave,
You mentioned that you were familiar with what it's all about. Just to be sure, Thanksgiving was a holiday instituted by the 16th President, Abraham Lincoln during the darkest days of the American Civil War. While the States were on the brink he was taking time to recognize what a fragile and precious thing any measure of civil and religous liberty is in this world. Given that over 600,00 were to die for liberty's neglect as well as it's affirmation through the ultimate defeat of slavery on this continent, 19th century Americans were perhaps more able to understand the meaning of Lincoln's Thanksgiving Day proclamation...
"No human counsel hath devised nor hath any mortal hand worked out these great things. They are the gracious gifts of the Most High God, who, while dealing with us in anger for our sins, hath nevertheless remembered mercy.
"It has seemed to me fit and proper that they should be solemnly, reverently and gratefully acknowledged as with one heart and voice by the whole American people. I do therefore invite my fellow citizens in every part of the United States, and also those who are at sea and those who are sojourning in foreign lands, to set apart and observe the last Thursday of November next, as a day of Thanksgiving and Praise to our beneficent Father who dwelleth in the Heavens.
"And I recommend to them that while offering up the ascriptions justly due to Him for such singular deliverances and blessings, they do also, with humble penitence for our national perverseness and disobedience, commend to his tender care all those who have become widows, orphans, mourners or sufferers in the lamentable civil strife in which we are unavoidably engaged, and fervently implore the interposition of the Almighty Hand to heal the wounds of the nation and to restore it as soon as may be consistent with the Divine purposes to the full enjoyment of peace, harmony, tranquillity and Union."
For me today, this is still what Thanksgiving Day means. On one hand, it's getting together with larger circles of family and friends to share an exceptionally good meal. I enjoyed Ginnyrose's rich description very well. The day is often accompanied by wholesome conversation and traditions. Some traditions are reverent, like singing a family hymn, and some traditions are sentimental, like each inidividual sharing something they are thankful for.
With every holiday it is possible to point out the worst behavior. Our American culture often exhibits wanton excess and lazy entitlement all at the same time. Even so, there is still a gratitude among many American Christian people, though they might be fretful for the frailty of our many public and private circumstances.
Blessings,
MC