Hello hoohoou,
You've described very well, what the older members are experiencing. I myself am frustrated, because I've seen this in another setting, thirty years ago with a veneer of spiritual language and merely carnal interpretation of scripture.
You will find that they will allow the Holy Spirit to move in ways and for a longer duration than most churches will allow.
Not in my church anymore. We're lucky to a few minutes occasionally for someone with a word to bring it. We've been asked to write them down (which eventually, I realised, the apostle Paul began to do usually only because he was in prison, or prevented from being personally present), and if we do, they are not always given out. The 'pastor' thinks a spirit led meeting is 'weird', but then from time to time, I will recognise he is using someone else's revelation, as if it is wisdom he himself received from above.
I saw your thread about the youth work you've been given by God, and will reply in that thread also. But I want to say this. One of the ways of getting rid of people like you and your wife, is for the leadership to go along with your leading - give you a venue and invite your target participants - but then, when it doesn't become a roaring success, and you're feeling embarrassed by that (or, just warming up to fight the enemy), they allow another 'work' to start, which is much more appealing to the flesh, and they put in charge someone less qualified, less spiritual, less mature, not called by God but maybe perceived as part of the 'in' crowd and therefore someone to hang out with, and let the chips fall. Eventually, unless the kids are already sick of superficiality (as the discerning ones now are, at the church I was attending), your work will be sidelined, or the hall will be needed for something urgent (even a one off) on the night you have it, and the cycle is broken. You have to decide whether to find a temporary venue or cancel, and then you have kids who didn't hear where you're meeting. It's all very subtle, and works like a dream - which is, of course, exactly what's at the back of this 'method'.
Recently, I found this scripture, and it does (sad to say) totally encapsulate the deception which is being perpetrated on the people in the congregation I've come to know.
9 All ye beasts of the field, come to devour, [i]yea[/i], all ye beasts in the forest. 10 His watchmen [i]are[/i] blind: they are all ignorant, they [i]are[/i] all dumb dogs, they cannot bark; sleeping, lying down, loving to slumber. 11 Yea, [i]they are[/i] greedy dogs [i]which[/i] can never have enough, and they [i]are[/i] shepherds [i]that[/i] cannot understand: they all look to their own way, every one for his gain, from his quarter. 12 Come ye, [i]say they[/i], I will fetch wine, and we will fill ourselves with strong drink; and to morrow shall be as this day, [i]and[/i] much more abundant. Isaiah 56, KJV
That last half sentence in the TEV reads,
'Tomorrow will be even better than today!'
which loudly echoes my 'pastor's catchphrase 'The best is yet to come', or, 'The best is ahead'.
I was gobsmacked when I found it in scripture!
On the website, their Bible College Principal, who is on the national leadership team, recommends Brian McLaren's 'Church on the Other Side'; I now know 'why' a lot of things which go on. Also, I am distressed by his part of the write-up for the Probationary Ministers conference, (which explains a great deal of what comes out of the mouth of the 'pastor' with whom I'm now acquainted).
'As leaders of the Church we want to be our best and it is my desire that Deeper 2:52 is a time when all of us are inspired to go deeper in our walk with God and [b]in our call to lead ourselves and others[/b]. In doing so, I believe all of us will be more equipped for the purpose and challenges that lie before us.'
'lead ourselves'?
Seems to say it all.