In this church there was a situation that came up with a family. They had been married for a few years and they had three children. Some of the other brothers in the fellowship noticed that the husband seemed to be struggling with a lot of self living and neglect of his wife and children so they approached him. He was given time to pray and seek God on what they shared but when he still refused to repent they brought other brothers to him and eventually he was brought before the entire church. He refused to repent, became angry and bitter and left his wife and child. No one had contact with him for several weeks, but then he called his wife and then the other brothers in the fellowship. God had done such a work in him that he repented, he began meeting with the brothers again, for prayer and council and after time the entire family was reunited. This brother is now a testimony that church discipline handled in love can and does work. He will be the first to tell you that he was living in sin and with out the help of those around him it probably would have continued on and cost him his marriage permanently.
If we as the church would walk in faith and obey the commands of the Lord to walk with one another daily, caring for each other things would be very different from what you see now in most churches.
in Him
Ellie