Brother,
I say this with all love; why do you need to recommend a church or two to them? (huge grin). No one helped me when Lisa came to town!!! LOL The church that kicked me out probably WISHES someone had helped me out to avoid them!!
That is part of the walk in the Spirit, looking for the love of God and the other reasons you mentioned!!
And ... and that is part of getting to know their community, trying out churches and then meeting the same people in Wal-Mart!! (huge grin)
Personally, I'd say the smaller the better to start with!!!
God bless you brother in your endeavor!