Here's what I believe I have learned through my own personal experience. Sin is germinated in the self-life. Anger is the biggest red flag I have in me to notify me that I am walking in the self(flesh). Ungodly anger is always, always, always caused by my self-preservation. I become angry because something or someone is threatening something of mine. Godly anger is rare and it doesn't normally manifest in the form of rage. It manifests in action to correct the wrong. Very well said Dian. Learning this ever so slowly. Being that we are often clamoring after the Lords will could it not be to show us just this? That we are still after self-preservation, that the very situations we find ourselves in are designed to bring these items up to the surface and expose them?"But he said unto her, Thou speakest as one of the foolish women speaketh. What? shall we receive good at the hand of God, and shall we not receive evil? In all this did not Job sin with his lips." Job 2:10"From whence come wars and fightings among you? come they not hence, even of your lusts that war in your members? Ye lust, and have not: ye kill, and desire to have, and cannot obtain: ye fight and war, yet ye have not, because ye ask not. Ye ask, and receive not, because ye ask amiss, that ye may consume it upon your lusts."Jam 4:1-3"For all the law is fulfilled in one word, even in this; Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. But if ye bite and devour one another, take heed that ye be not consumed one of another. This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh. For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh: and these are contrary the one to the other: so that ye cannot do the things that ye would. But if ye be led of the Spirit, ye are not under the law. Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery,fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God. But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance: against such there is no law. And they that are Christ's have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts. If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit. Let us not be desirous of vain glory, provoking one another, envying one another."Gal 5:14-26Ed said:For whatever it's worth (which isn't quite a lot to be honest), Nice try brother, recall another post awhile back about this... :-) I'm doing that with some things in my own life and it's going to be unpleasant. Why unpleasant? Because once we see sin in our own hearts for what it really is, there's nothing more heartbreaking than our rebellion before God. I told of my dear friends this evening, is that I'm praying that the Lord will break me and keep me broken. That's my hope for you as well.But that's not the end of it all is it? Isn't it unto something? I know you realize that and by no means am trying to lessen or skirt the issue. It is or can be unpleasant. Know also that anguish could be just up ahead once again, but to revert back to Galatians; "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance: against such there is no law. And they that are Christ's have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts. If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit.Those two become by products of just the smallest acts of obedience or so it seems. After a while it gets weary kicking at the goads and am finding that giving up or 'crying uncle' could be equated with the idea of dying to self. A seemingly silly illustration? Being ever distrustful of what passes through this deranged mind, what 'voices' I am 'hearing', sorry, it's not like Samuel for me 'Speak, LORD, for your servant hears.' Yet there is that 'sense' of the Lords leading.What we want to do in any given situation and what the Lord would have us do are often on a collision course. Bet you are wondering if I was ever going to get around to the point...Over the last week I have been listening to the Old Testament while working and often want to check out of that and listen to some good messages from the heap of CD's I drag around, the mobile version of SI. But as I reach the end of Joab's sinister plotting and go digging for something on say, prayer. I 'know' that I am to continue on this course through the OT. Right there I have a decision, my flesh wants the latest CD I have burned, all well and good but that prompting is telling me 'stay with it". Isn't it almost always that way? We know it in the smallest of things but often choose to use our rationale and then start pulling out verse's to 'justify' our real denial of where the Lord is leading. Silly it seems over something so insignificant or is it?What I am finding is that when I do cooperate there is peace and even joy all the while everything else that I could give my attention to and there is a lot of it these days, frustrations, worries, pressure, finances, the global sin problem, the persecuted brethren, the weight of the world...None of it becomes less important it just gets overshadowed because in that moment I am being obedient to what the Lord is prompting me to do. This has happened over and over again even in just this 'minor' illustration.Before I stray to far off topic, the anger issue is exactly the same and to bring it full circle with Spitfires excellent words; Ungodly anger is always, always, always caused by my self-preservation. And to top it off it is absolutely useless to the 'self' or the hearers unless and only if it is directed by the Lord. Have done enough harm in my own self-preserving anger to those I love trying to 'straighten them out' when I was really poking them with the log in my own eye. If we would just bring these things to the Lord the instance they raise their ugly heads and then accept the Lords leading, not only will He get the glory He rightly deserves we end up getting in on the blessings as a by product of our obedience.Lastly, to our dear sister here. I hope that all of this council posted throughout this thread is taken for what is useful and remember that;"There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit. For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus hath made me free from the law of sin and death. For what the law could not do, in that it was weak through the flesh, God sending his own Son in the likeness of sinful flesh, and for sin, condemned sin in the flesh: That the righteousness of the law might be fulfilled in us, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit. For they that are after the flesh do mind the things of the flesh; but they that are after the Spirit the things of the Spirit. For to be carnally minded is death; but to be spiritually minded is life and peace." Rom 8:1-6May the Lord give you wisdom, that is my prayer for you.(My, this is rather long...I know you all expect no less so I guess I will save the apologies and you can chalk it up to 'there he goes again' :-) )