Mary Jane,
Our prayers are with you and your family.
See how great a love the Father has bestowed upon us, that we should be called children of God; and such we are... (I John 3:1) This is an important Scripture to remember when going through trial because it can be easy for us to think to God has forgotten us. We are secure in His love and all things that God brings/allows stem from His love for us.
My family and I have walked through unemployment a few times and can testify to God's faithfulness. It is absolutely amazing how He provides in ways unexpected; it will really strengthen your (family's) faith.
There are times, when in love, God brings various circumstances that test our faith and allow us to come to know Him in deeper ways than we ever imagined had we not gone through that trial. God does what He know He needs to do to speak to our hearts and draw us closer to Himself.
Although these trials are painful God brings them to pass for His glory and our good. And although it is a good time to search the soul (Psalm 139:23, 24), I would caution you that the enemy will come and attack with fear and guilt: telling you and yours that it is your fault, that you are a "bad" Christian, if you would just learn what God was teaching you the trial would pass, etc. Consider Hebrews 12 which tells us of how God disciplines us to share in His holiness; at the beginning of the chapter the author begins by speaking of Jesus and how He suffered and that was through no fault of His own.
May mercy, peace and love be multiplied to you (and yours) (Jude 2).
Please update us on the path that God takes your family so that we'll know how to pray for you and can rejoice in God's goodness.
Yours in Him,
Matthew