I agree Geraldine, there are some excellent replies here.What is a christian?A christian is one who has realised that he is not perfect.Not stopping there, he accepts the fact that he cannot be perfect.In spite of this, he refuses to consider the possibility that he is absolved from the responsability of being perfect.As a result, he trusts that he can be made perfect...by the only one who can do it.Ah yes! And there it seems we can get bogged down under a weight of words and misconceptions and alternate meanings, defining words in the likeness of modern day collective assumptions. Which is what constantly drives me in a backwards motion, back to meaning and why I am rather fond of ye old Websters Dictionary of 1828, seems there was less tampering in those days...LegalityLEGAL'ITY, n.1. Lawfulness; conformity to law.2. In theology, a reliance on works for salvation.HolyHO'LY, a.1. Properly, whole, entire or perfect, in a moral sense. Hence, pure in heart, temper or dispositions; free from sin and sinful affections. Applied to the Supreme Being, holy signifies perfectly pure, immaculate and complete in moral character; and man is more or less holy, as his heart is more or less sanctified, or purified from evil dispositions. We call a man holy,when his heart is conformed in some degree to the image of God, and his life is regulated by the divine precepts. Hence, holy is used as nearly synonymous with good, pious, godly.Be ye holy; for I am holy. 1 Pet 1.2. Hallowed; consecrated or set apart to a sacred use, or to the service or worship of God; a sense frequent in Scripture; as the holy sabbath; holy oil; holy vessels; a holy nation; the holy temple; a holy priesthood.3. Proceeding from pious principles,or directed to pious purposes; as holy zeal.4. Perfectly just and good; as the holy law of God.5. Sacred; as a holy witness.Holy of holies, in Scripture, the innermost apartment of the Jewish tabernacle or temple, where the ark was kept,and where no person entered, except the high priest, once a year.Holy Ghost, or Holy Spirit, the Divine Spirit; the third person in the Trinity; the sanctifier of souls.Holy war, a war undertaken to rescue the holy land, the ancient Judea, from the infidels; a crusade; an expedition carried on by christians against the Saracens in the eleventh, twelfth and thirteenth centuries; a war carried on in a most unholy manner.HolinessHO'LINESS, n.[from holy.] The state of being holy; purity or integrity of moral character; freedom from sin; sanctity. Applied to the Supreme Being, holiness denotes perfect purity or integrity of moral character, one of his essential attributes.Who is like thee, glorious in holiness? Exo 15.1. Applied to human beings, holiness is purity of heart or dispositions; sanctified affections; piety; moral goodness, but not perfect.We see piety and holiness ridiculed as morose singularities.2. Sacredness; the state of any thing hallowed, or consecrated to God or to his worship; applied to churches or temples.3. That which is separated to the service of God.Israel was holiness unto the Lord. Jer 2.4. A title of the pope, and formerly of the Greek emperors.PerfectPER'FECT, a. [L. perfectus, perficio, to complete; per and facio, to do or make through, to carry to the end.]1. Finished; complete; consummate; not defective; having all that is requisite to its nature and kind; as a perfect statue; a perfect likeness; a perfect work; a perfect system.As full, as perfect in a hair as heart.2. Fully informed; completely skilled; as men perfect in the use of arms; perfect in discipline.3. Complete in moral excellencies.Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father who is in heaven is perfect. Mat 5.4. Manifesting perfection.My strength is made perfect in weakness. 2 Cor 12.Perfect chord,in music, a concord or union of sounds which is perfectly coalescent and agreeable to the ear, as the fifth and the octave; a perfect consonance.A perfect flower, in botany, has both stamen and pistil, or at least another and stigma.Perfect tense, in grammar, the preterit tense; a tense which expresses an act completed.PER'FECT, v.t. [L. perfectus, perficio.] To finish or complete so as to leave nothing wanting; to give to any thing all that is requisite to its nature and kind; as, to perfect a picture or statue. 2 Chr 8.-Inquire into the nature and properties of things, and thereby perfect our ideas of distinct species.If we love one another, God dwelleth in us, and his love is perfected in us. 1 John 4.1. To instruct fully; to make fully skillful; as, to perfect one's self in the rules of music or architecture; to perfect soldiers in discipline. PerfectionPERFEC'TION, n.[L. perfectio.] The state of being perfect or complete, so that nothing requisite is wanting; as perfection in an art or science; perfection in a system of morals.1. Physical perfection, is when a natural object has all its powers, faculties or qualities entire and in full vigor, and all its parts in due proportion.2. Metaphysical or transcendental perfection, is the possession of all the essential attributes or all the parts necessary to the integrity of a substance. This is absolute,where all defect is precluded, such as the perfection of God; or according to its kind, as in created things.3. Moral perfection, is the complete possession of all moral excellence, as in the Supreme Being; or the possession of such moral qualities and virtues as a thing is capable of.4. A quality, endowment or acquirement completely excellent, or of great worth.In this sense, the word has a plural.What tongue can her perfections tell?5. An inherent or essential attribute of supreme or infinite excellence; or one perfect in its kind; as the perfections of God. The infinite power, holiness,justice, benevolence and wisdom of God are denominated his perfections.6. Exactness; as, to imitate a model to perfection.-----------------------------------------This may end up getting rather long, but there are so many ties in what the Lord has been showing me lately and as the case often is and as our sister alluded to, that 'sameness' in conjunction with the Holy Spirit, seems beyond coincidence.From Clarkes Commentary; (By the way, all this refrence material including the dictionary is from http://www.e-sword.net/ a tremendous resource)Mat 5:48 - Be ye therefore perfect - as your Father - God himself is the grand law, sole giver, and only pattern of the perfection which he recommends to his children. The words are very emphatic, εσεσθε ουν υμεις τελειοι, Ye shall be therefore perfect - ye shall be filled with the spirit of that God whose name is Mercy, and whose nature is love. God has many imitators of his power, independence, justice, etc., but few of his love, condescension, and kindness. He calls himself Love, to teach us that in this consists that perfection, the attainment of which he has made both our duty and privilege: for these words of our Lord include both a command and a promise.“Can we be fully saved from sin in this world?” is an important question, to which this text gives a satisfactory answer: “Ye shall be perfect, as your Father, who is in heaven, is perfect.” - As in his infinite nature there is no sin, nothing but goodness and love, so in your finite nature there shall dwell no sin, for the law of the spirit of life in Christ Jesus shall make you free from the law of sin and death, Rom_8:2. God shall live in, fill, and rule your hearts; and, in what He fills and influences, neither Satan nor sin can have any part. If men, slighting their own mercies, cry out, This is impossible! - whom does this arguing reprove - God, who, on this ground, has given a command, the fulfillment of which is impossible. “But who can bring a clean out of an unclean thing?” God Almighty - and, however inveterate the disease of sin may be, the grace of the Lord Jesus can fully cure it; and who will say, that he who laid down his life for our souls will not use his power completely to effect that salvation which he has died to procure. “But where is the person thus saved?” Wherever he is found who loves God with all his heart, soul, mind, and strength, and his neighbor as himself; and, for the honor of Christianity and its Author, may we not hope there are many such in the Church of God, not known indeed by any profession of this kind which they make, but by a surer testimony, that of uniformly holy tempers, piety to God, and beneficence to man?That verse in bold stood out as it came across again this morning in this; Ravenhill presents SparksTaken from,THE SCHOOL OF CHRIST By T. Austin SparksPardon my gushing forth from this, it just has to go somewhere...I guess dear sister that as others have stated here it really is a misconception. It is an inner working of the heart, not a putting on for show, something to laud over others or a points reward system. It's a following hard after the Lord out of love not obligation.Aaron, loved that Ravenhill quote. Another favorite even with the seeming sarcasm.."If you are going to get mature in God all the dwarfs around you will criticize and sneer at you and say 'Your trying to be holier than the rest of us, ah?"If all else fails... :-P