We are called to lift our eyes away from ourselves and look into the face of our Loving Savior. It is the the beauty of HIS holiness, HIS righteousness and HIS perfection that changes us. Looking upon our own failure and wretchedness and "trying" different things to "overcome", only reveals to us how impotent we are to change the inward. Oh, we may change the outward, to be sure, but then the subtle work of the devil will fill our heart with pride, self-assurance and self-justification.
Jesus Himself said, “Apart from Me you can do nothing” (John 15:5). It’s all Jesus, all Jesus, all Jesus. That’s how we entered the new life, that’s how we walk it, that’s how we are glorified and live for ever with Him.
It’s all of grace. All of it.
We overcome by the blood of the Lamb and the Word of our testimony. Our testimony is Him, all Him. It is not us. Our testimony is His testimony, JESUS. The testimony of who He is and what HE has done. Not our works of righteousness (self-discipline, fasting, etc) That is very Hindu-ish.
Rom 5:2 By whom also we have access by faith into this grace wherein we stand, and rejoice in hope of the glory of God.
We have access by faith (the only thing that pleases God) into His grace. And this is the only thing we can stand in.
Faith, not works. You will forever be finding some terrible thing within you to fast about, to "try" to overcome. And as you "master" each sin in your life, the pride will grow inside you. This is the great "head fake" that the enemy does to us. He moves us away from beholding the Lord's beauty to beholding our failures and then moves us into subtle self-righteousness. That is why there are so many "character based" ministries today. They emphasize character and have many "gold nuggets" of teaching on how you can improve your character. It is nothing more than legal righteousness and not righteousness by faith. Many of the children grow up and become shipwrecked, in these families, because their life growing up was one of legalism and not all-consuming love for the Lord. There was no inward encounter with God, only outward obedience.
Heb 4:9 There remaineth therefore a rest to the people of God.
Heb 4:10 For he that is entered into his rest, he also hath ceased from his own works, as God did from his.
Heb 4:11 Let us labour therefore to enter into that rest, lest any man fall after the same example of unbelief.
Foofee, look to Jesus, love Jesus. Concentrating on your sin and weakness, and trying to overcome them will only put you into a deeper and more dangerous bondage. One that will cause you to justify yourself before God.
Read Psalm 51 to see what David did when he fell into sexual sin and was confronted by God's prophet. Did he rely on his own strength, cleverness, discipline or did he go to God?
It agrees perfectly with James 4.
Jas 4:5 Do ye think that the scripture saith in vain, The spirit that dwelleth in us lusteth to envy?
Jas 4:6 But he giveth more grace. Wherefore he saith, God resisteth the proud, but giveth grace unto the humble.
Jas 4:7 Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.
Jas 4:8 Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you. Cleanse your hands, ye sinners; and purify your hearts, ye double minded.
Jas 4:9 Be afflicted, and mourn, and weep: let your laughter be turned to mourning, and your joy to heaviness.
Jas 4:10 Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and he shall lift you up.
Many take James 4 to mean that we need to do a lot of self-discipline but taking the NT in context, these things we know:
The way you resist the Devil, is by drawing near to God. The way that you cleanse your hands and purify your heart is by repentance which is drawing near to God. You must forsake pride to draw near to God. Drawing near to God shows that you are humbling yourself.
Notice that James 4 never tells us to try this or try that. To work, work, work, on the "easy" sins first and then the hard ones will go away.
Draw near to God. James 4 and Psalm 51 tell us how to.
Why?
Because you can do nothing apart from Him. Abide in Him, rest in His finished work.
If Sodom and Gomorrah repented (which acknowledges God through humility), God would have had mercy.
If Sodom and Gomorrah, instead of repenting, just used self-discipline to stop their sinful activities on the outside, which requires no acknowledgment of God or inward change, they would have still been destroyed.
Likewise, if you clean up your life by your efforts and discipline, will you be saved and what will you teach others?
Some men have great self-discipline and are not drawn to outwardly wicked sins (they are all wicked by the way). And because some of us have never participated in the classically wicked sins of the flesh, we could easily tend to think that we are something when we are not.
What is Jesus saying here?
Luk 18:10 Two men went up into the temple to pray; the one a Pharisee, and the other a publican.
Luk 18:11 The Pharisee stood and prayed thus with himself, God, I thank thee, that I am not as other men are, extortioners, unjust, adulterers, or even as this publican.
Luk 18:12 I fast twice in the week, I give tithes of all that I possess.
Luk 18:13 And the publican, standing afar off, would not lift up so much as his eyes unto heaven, but smote upon his breast, saying, God be merciful to me a sinner.
Luk 18:14 I tell you, this man went down to his house justified rather than the other: for every one that exalteth himself shall be abased; and he that humbleth himself shall be exalted.
Your self-discpline and self-mastery over sin will only exalt you.