"How many christians are really hearing the Voice of God vs thinking they are becomes emotions become a big player in this. I am troubled in my own soul with this and knowing when it is God still small voice vs my own still small voice."
Hey man it is great to see you on this site seeking for this answer. The logical answer is that only the one who is a real Christian is hearing his voice, that person knows that it is the Lord because God by his Spirit confirms this to them. I do think also that someone can be drawn by the voice of God to before salvation. If the voice someone hears confirms to his word you can be pretty sure that it is the voice of God, Satan would not want us to believe God's word or obeying it so I would tell you that the question comes "Does this confirm to God's word which is really his word, if it doesn't you can't have assurance that it is God's voice. The Jim Jones and Benny Hinns probably think they are hearing God's voice, but when you go to scripture much of what they said contradicts what God's word says. I will give you an example to help you out. I was watching a sports game and I felt a small desire to read God's word almost as if a small voice saying get in my word, the other stronger voice was saying this sports game is more interesting and my flesh desired it more than wanting to read the word. Though my desire was to watch the game more I turned it off knowing the scripture says "Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world--the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life--is not of the Father but is of the world. And the world is passing away, and the lust of it; but he who does the will of God abides forever." (1 John 2:15-17) I also knew scriptures that said
And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength: this [is] the first commandment."Mark 12:30
I knew that i was loving this game more than God and that it was becoming my god and an idol, I was breaking the greatest commandment. But, after making that decision the word of God opened up to me and his word began to speak to me and I was desiring to obey it and was hearing his voice while I was walking around to love, care, walking in mercy and meekness, etc. You just know, but it is only something that God can reveal to you, but I will encourage when you our really seriously hearing God's voice you know without a doubt it is God and their is no doubt. Brother, "But if from thence thou shalt seek the LORD thy God, thou shalt find [him], if thou seek him with all thy heart and with all thy soul." Deuteronomy 4:29 Do this and he will reveal his voice to you, his voice calls us all to
Repentance: 1Behold, the LORD'S hand is not shortened, that it cannot save; neither his ear heavy, that it cannot hear:
2But your iniquities have separated between you and your God, and your sins have hid his face from you, that he will not hear.
3For your hands are defiled with blood, and your fingers with iniquity; your lips have spoken lies, your tongue hath muttered perverseness.
4None calleth for justice, nor any pleadeth for truth: they trust in vanity, and speak lies; they conceive mischief, and bring forth iniquity. Isaiah 59 :1-4
If any [man] come to me, and hate not his father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brethren, and sisters, yea, and his own life also, he cannot be my disciple. Luke 14:26
1Ho, every one that thirsteth, come ye to the waters, and he that hath no money; come ye, buy, and eat; yea, come, buy wine and milk without money and without price.
2Wherefore do ye spend money for that which is not bread? and your labour for that which satisfieth not? hearken diligently unto me, and eat ye that which is good, and let your soul delight itself in fatness.
3Incline your ear, and come unto me: hear, and your soul shall live; and I will make an everlasting covenant with you, even the sure mercies of David.
4Behold, I have given him for a witness to the people, a leader and commander to the people.
5Behold, thou shalt call a nation that thou knowest not, and nations that knew not thee shall run unto thee because of the LORD thy God, and for the Holy One of Israel; for he hath glorified thee.
6Seek ye the LORD while he may be found, call ye upon him while he is near:
7Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.
8For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the LORD.
9For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts. Isaiah 55
"Jesus said unto her, I am the resurrection, and the life: he that believeth in me, though he were dead, yet shall he live": John 11:25
God bless you John