I know some of the saints do not even go to a church at all in America and canada right now because of the situation spiritually. I agree it can be hard to fellowship at some churches and be encouraged. But my prayer is for every brother and sister to at least find a church they can go to once a week to submit to the leadership and find some direction even if you feel like David under Saul.
Those are very good points, Greg.
I am often reminded of the "Hebrews 10:25" rationale for Church fellowship. However, I think that it is important to remember the verse just before it too.
"And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds. Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching."
- Hebrews 10:24-25 (NIV)"and let us consider how to stimulate one another to love and good deeds, not forsaking our own assembling together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another; and all the more as you see the day drawing near."
- Hebrews 10:24-25 (NASB)
"And let us consider one another to provoke unto love and to good works: Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as the manner of some is; but exhorting one another: and so much the more, as ye see the day approaching."
- Hebrews 10:24-25 (KJV)
I think that one of the things that is often missed is the admonition to ENCOURAGE (EXORT) one another. It seems that this is one of the purposes of fellowshipping with one another. Our rationale for meeting together isn't just to be taught -- because, by this time, we ought to be teachers (Hebrews 5:12). Rather, it is to encourage one another.
I have fellowshipped with several congregations since I met the Lord as a teenager. I have noticed that some congregations are merely "indoctrination centers" where the motivation seems to make "disciples" -- but merely of the church's particular sets of doctrines. I have noticed that some were so "loose" in their fellowship that you felt like a stranger in the midst and that nothing important was really said...and that you walked out not really knowing the point of going in the first place.
Still, I have attended small congregations where the greatest strength of the congregation didn't come from outreach projects, dynamic teaching, exciting programs or vibrant worship. Rather, the substance was found in a group of people who either know God (or want to know Him) and who simply encourage one another. I think that I found more comfort and vigor in such meetings than the others.
I have read about congregations in persecuted places (like China, Cuba, or Islamic nations). I have fellowshipped with congregations in extremely poor places. I have met with the indigenous Tarahumara believers in the rugid Sierra Madre mountains of southwestern Chihuahua, Mexico. The Tarahumara Church literally met beneath a certain tree. I think that I felt more of the Lord and First Century Biblical Christianity (if that makes sense) there than in the modern institutions found in many churches in the United States.
I pray that believers in Western nations (like the United States, UK and Canada) can discover the unity and strength that comes from simply encouraging one another in the love of Christ. We don't have to be in poverty or persecution to participate in such encouragement. Oh, that the Church could ever get a hold of such encouragement!