What is the standard that we as the body of Christ should hold those who are leaders and ministers to? Should the standard be their anointing or their ability to communicate biblical truths? Should the standard be a pious face and expression in the public? Or should the standard be the 'blamelessness' that was set forth Paul in the Apostolic scriputres?
I heard of a minister who confessed that he and another female preacher developed a frienship. The minister only confessed this after pictures were released showing him walking in and out of a hotel in Rome while holding hands with this female preacher. This famous preacher sais the reason why he developed this relationship with this woman was because they shared common ground. He said he was lonely and that the pressures of the healing ministry was at fault. Not himself. Though he and his wife are still married he does not see developing a relationship with another woman as sin. His only mistake, he said was inviting her to Rome.
What pains me here is that there is no ackowledgement of sin. And if there is no acknowledgement of sin there surely be no true repentace. This preacher went on to say he was only human and that is where he left it. After these statements the audience erupted into applause affirming the preachers logic. The female preacher with whom he developed the relationship also got a standing ovation when she returned to her church. She stated that she was stronger than ever and that she had gotten her bounce back.
The man said that he still loves his wife yet he cant be in the same house with her. This is one of the worse cases of double talk I have heard. He wouldnt dare come out and say 'My wife is the reason for my problems'. So he pretties it up first by saying I love my wife. The question that the Church needs to answer is what is the standard of that kind of love and where does that love originate. Love that will move you to further stab at your wife with whom you are already alientated by tripping off to another country with another woman on your arm is no love at all, but treachery.
The most sinister thing about all of this is what is being communicated to the wider body of Christ. If a leader who is seeing 'mighty miracles' can enter into an adulterous situation whether it is emotional adultery or physical adultery, and pass that act of disregard of the Holiness off as a symtom of being human, what then will be the standard of those who are exulting in these ministries.
Both this man and woman with whom he has developed a relationship with are going to go on 'serving' the Lord. As if this is only a minor infraction that will not have reverberations across the body of Christ. Who are the ones who are to hold ministers accountable but the Church. And if that attempt is misconstrued as being judgemental by others so be it. We have to be willing to pay that price for the sake of the integrity of the ministry.
Remember Jesus commended the Church in Revelations for testing those who said they were Apostles who were not. These dear saints were not afraid that their assesment of these so called Apostles would bring upon their heads the title of judge by other Christians. Their allegiance was to Truth and not their reputation. May we hold those who purport to be leaders of the Church to the standard given at the first knowing that we will suffer and be called stone throwers, holier than thou and judges.
