Thank you Sister for this, very-very much.
I don't know what ministry that Bonnie suggested for her Mom, but I wondered if she'd give thought to ministering to 'the grieving'.
A strange thing happened within the last few days that I felt I needed to share with someone ever since.
I've been grieving over losing my husband - but not through physical death but spiritual death.
I posted that it was him who gave me a hunger to dig into the Word - but on July 1st, The LORD reminded me in a very touching way that, No it was not him but a professor named Hobart Grazier. Oh my, my heart felt that in my grief, I was trying to make something good out of what actually someone else had done. Grief is a very confusing thing and very much like a roller coaster, besides with waves that come and go of every emotion under the sun.
To have a Godly husband go Home to be with the LORD compared to losing a husband who spiritually dies - well, the pain is just as bad but different and thought that Gwen could reach a lot of folks in both predictaments.
Anyhow, this led to a Search for anything that was left of Brother Grazier's teachings, because he was the type to not want exposer or a name for himself - but I did a Search on him on 7/1 and found this article that all but put me in tears.
Not only did he have a huge impact on his students and his missionary work in India, but he may have been a catalyst to David Wilkerson's ministry as well.
http://www.sloppynoodle.com/wp/david-wilkerson%E2%80%99s-six-degrees-of-separation/
Brother Hobart Grazier is one of those silent heros that has touched the lives of so very many and yet made certain none of the glory went to him. He's been with the LORD now for almost 30 yrs. We got our first cat from his daughter who rescued them on our campus.
It's been quite the three days of reckoning with how grief works. I've known it to be delayed as well. There are no clear cut 'steps of grief' but I know that Gwen will make Jesus Smile with her heart for others.
Unlike Tozer's wife - Yes, Gwen was a strong backbone behind her husband's selfless ministry by being selfless herself ... putting the needs of others over her own.
A good wife is a covering of sorts as well!
Joyful Heart, Thank you again for posting these things.
They mean more than you know.
Sweet Blessings to you in return dear Sister.
Praying for Gwen and rooting for that strong lady, Amen!