Ok, to answer your question directly. Yes! You should fear God's chastisement. Who said it was the same as wrath? It is not. But that does not make it feel any better, does it?
An earthly son does not want to be chastised by his father any more than a heavenly son would want to.
Chastisement is humiliating and painful. Would you rather not humble yourself first or be humbled?
Do you fear sickness? Do you fear loss of loved ones? Do you fear loss of job of reputation amongst the brethren and the world?
God's anger was kindled against His children in the wilderness because of their hardness of heart and stiffneckedness. You deceive yourself if you think God's anger will not be kindled against you in a form of chastisement.
We have created a Father in heaven that is like an earthly father that does not have the heart to inflict pain on his children because it makes HIM (the father) feel bad.
Let me tell you. God the Father is not human or selfish or concerned about His own feelings. He is concerned about you!
He has been raising children for over 6,000 years and will continue to parent like He has always parented. And you are not special and you won't be treated differently.
Now, thank God for Jesus! Because you have an Intercessor where in the OT, there was no heavenly intercessor. Just earthly intercessors and God would hear them sometimes.
But we have a heavenly intercessor who is interceding day and night. But don't take this as false security that you can continue in your sin. Don't push the Father and and take advantage of His grace through Jesus Christ. Because in the end, He will do what is right for you. That is what a Father does. He does not withhold punishment from you because it makes Him feel bad. You better get rid of that thinking.
The Fear of the Lord is a clean fear. We do not cower in trepidation but you better fear the Lord because when you stop fearing His hand of chastisment you are in big trouble.
We preach a false God and a false Jesus to the detriment of others.
God can get pretty angry without getting wrathful.
Heb 12:24 And to Jesus the mediator of the new covenant, and to the blood of sprinkling, that speaketh better things than that of Abel.
Heb 12:25 See that ye refuse not him that speaketh. For if they escaped not who refused him that spake on earth, much more shall not we escape, if we turn away from him that speaketh from heaven:
Yes, Moses was a mere man, and Jesus is the Son of God. Much more sorer will be your punishment, but before you are completely cast off, God's great mercy as demonstrated through His Son will call you back to Him repeatedly, through words of reasoning but eventually sore chastisment if you persist in your rebellion. If He cannot get your attention through His Words of reasoning He certainly has methods that will get your attention.
Isa 1:18 Come now, and let us reason together, saith the LORD: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool.
Isa 1:19 If ye be willing and obedient, ye shall eat the good of the land:
Isa 1:20 But if ye refuse and rebel, ye shall be devoured with the sword: for the mouth of the LORD hath spoken it.
Isa 1:21 How is the faithful city become an harlot! it was full of judgment; righteousness lodged in it; but now murderers.
Isa 1:22 Thy silver is become dross, thy wine mixed with water:
Isa 1:23 Thy princes are rebellious, and companions of thieves: every one loveth gifts, and followeth after rewards: they judge not the fatherless, neither doth the cause of the widow come unto them.
Isa 1:24 Therefore saith the Lord, the LORD of hosts, the mighty One of Israel, Ah, I will ease me of mine adversaries, and avenge me of mine enemies:
Isa 1:25 And I will turn my hand upon thee, and purely purge away thy dross, and take away all thy tin:
Isa 1:26 And I will restore thy judges as at the first, and thy counsellors as at the beginning: afterward thou shalt be called, The city of righteousness, the faithful city.
Isa 1:27 Zion shall be redeemed with judgment, and her converts with righteousness.
Isa 1:28 And the destruction of the transgressors and of the sinners shall be together, and they that forsake the LORD shall be consumed.
Yes, if you forsake the Lord, you will be consumed.
Be not deceived!
Christendom thinks because of Jesus they now have this special status with God and that they can do anything.
Mike