Most of you know I have been involved in sports, particularly (American) football. I’ve coached, been in management, etc. I’ve been involved in both secular football programs and Christian programs.
This year I took off just to enjoy watching my kids play. Now that football season is coming to a close I have made some observations… and some enemies.
I think most “Christian” sports organizations, particularly for our youth… are nothing more than a way to justify our idolatry. The idol being SPORTS. I’ve never paid attention to it before, but it is amazing how much families will sacrifice financially, time-wise and energy-wise so their kids can play sports. Yet these same people can only seem to find the time to come to church just on Sunday morning. Call for corporate prayer on Wednesday night? Oh… cant do it.
I’m guilty too, so the finger points straight back at me.
People say (and I’ve said this): Football teaches boys to be men. It teaches great life lessons and skills. Well, there is truth in that. But isn’t that akin to saying the Bible is not sufficient? When an athlete spends 10 hours a week at practice and 10 hours a week working out on his own… but never opens his Bible outside of church… what life lessons is he learning?
And what parents are willing to put up with from some coaches amazes me as well. I watched a head coach of a Christian team in a Christian league this year cuss like a sailor at his team until management threatened to kick him out… a month into the season. He called several players “worthless” to their faces. Technically (by legal definition) he assaulted a member of the team’s management… and then during a game he technically assaulted one of the players.
And this man is a deacon at a very large church.
Then there is the behavior of some of the parents. Parental behavior in Christian leagues is no different than in secular leagues. I’ve seen both. It sickens me.
What is going on? Idolatry is what is going on. We love our sports so much we are willing to sacrifice everything for it… time, money, ethics… even the influences on our kids. The coach sets a horrible example for teenage boys, but it’s ok because they are learning life lessons and winning games!
C’mon… really?
Pride of life. That’s what it is. Idolatry.
Spend 15 minutes with someone and you know what motivates them. Whatever motivates them is their god.
Parents, stop sacrificing your children to idols. Sports are not a sin. But what is a sin is the amount of sacrifice we are willing to make so Johnny or Mary can have a moment in the spotlight. When people see us they should see Jesus… not a kid who’s “got game”.
More of Him and less of me.
I think I am done with sports.
Krispy
