roman, I understand your concern and fear, if you want to call it that. I also understand your frustration in not being there to speak to him. But I would like to share with you a testimony of a lady who was prohibited from visiting her brother who was deathly ill...
Shirl was banned from visiting her terminally ill brother because of her faith. They prayed that God in his mercy would speak to her brother. AND HE DID! God revealed himself supernaturally to him and he came to the LORD. There was no other human being involved.
Too many times we think that if the right person would be at the right place at the right time, a life changing decision will be made...but it is always dependent on the right person, right time. This mindset is dependent on human beings. God usually uses people, but not always. He is not dependent on them. He knows whether this person will respond to Him and when and will facilitate that process. He also knows those that will reject Him. Consider these verses:
Heb 8:10 For this is the covenant that I will make with the house of Israel after those days, saith the Lord; I will put my laws into their mind, and write them in their hearts: and I will be to them a God, and they shall be to me a people:
Heb 8:11 And they shall not teach every man his neighbour, and every man his brother, saying, Know the Lord: for all shall know me, from the least to the greatest.
I know this promise was made to the Jews but I would understand it is not limited to them - we see this principle at work all around us.
Pray and wait and let God be God.
(We also have a lot of loved ones away from God...one must learn to not assume the responsibility of anothers' salvation.)
God bless...and will pray for you as the Holy Spirit reminds me.
ginnyrose