"It may be that God’s purpose is not that we arrive at the “right” conclusion so much that we learn how to submit to one another in Christian love – including our theologians from the past. Through dialogue we can learn about ourselves and our style of thinking and relating to others; we can learn to appreciate another’s perspectives. And perhaps we can give up our need to win and be “right”. I trust that that doesn’t sound too tedious."
I love this!
One of the things that I have learned (I hope I continue to retain it) is that everyone of us are different.
We perceive differently than others. We understand differently. I am a visual person, if it's shown to me or it's told in a story like Jesus and His parables I can readily assimilate it. If it's coated over with long words and theological jargon I am lost in the soup of despair.
The idea of being "right" was knocked out of me by the Holy Ghost through a period of years and I understand why it's not necessary that "I" am right.
Even Jesus, as the way I have perceived of what He was saying that He heard what the Father speak, and did what the Father told Him to do, thus, He was doing the Fathers Will, that is, His Righteousness which was by word and deed was coming from the Father He was simply standing for what was being said to Him and shown to Him to do.
He is the example that we should follow, that we should not walk in our own righteousness and use it to clobber anyone who stands in our way, but rather just to stand and declare what is truth instead of saying what we "believe" to be truth. There is a difference.
We have a lot of people saying, "I believe this that and the other" but what does "thus sayeth the Lord" say?
By standing we are simply pointing to the One who spoke it and loving those who oppose Him and not us. Jesus said, "if they hate you, it's because they hated Me first". Yet, God loved those people even when they opposed the Truth of what Jesus was conveying from Him to them.
It wasn't, "how dare you come against my theology", it was, "this day, you shall be with me in paradise". When they opposed Him by quoting the word, He quoted back to them a deeper understanding of that word which always convicted them.
We have the limited understanding that if anyone opposes us today that they are lost, yet they still have breath and sometime down the road they may come to their senses.
Jesus tells of a man who had two sons. He told one to go to the field and work, he went but didn't go, the other said no but later went in.
We have to be greater than ourselves and look beyond the scope of humanity and see the grand picture of what men might do with the seed that is planted in their spirit. Not everyone jumps for joy of hearing the word, everyone is different. The seed reacts differently in others. Some have rain that produces germination, while others will stay in dry ground for many years and than the rains come and it springs forth.
We need patience in these forums, we don't drop a bomb and leave and expect everyone to scramble for shelter.
When they were in the wilderness Jesus had compassion on them that didn't have anything to eat, so He got everyone to sit down in groups and began to minister through the distribution of food.
This was the same group that Jesus said that they only came out to see the miracles, YET Jesus had compassion on them.
He didn't say, "How dare you just come out to see miracles and not Me". He knew what man was all about, He knew the darkness that lay in man and that he was in a pitiful situation, He came as Light to a darkened world. The last thing that man needed is to go further into condemnation. And God wasn't about to do that to His creation, John 3:16
We need to learn how to be tender and stand to what God is saying and love one another as we are bone of His bone and flesh of His flesh and spirit of His Spirit. I may be the Appendix of the body, they say in medical science that the Appendix is a useless body organ yet it's there for some reason or another. As an Appendix I may be nothing to you, but I am there because God put me there, do we then tear it out because it's of no value? God forbid.
Do we break an already broken reed and do we put water on an already smoking flax? No, we nurture it hoping that anything can be salvaged out of it. And when we leave this forum after railing someone who crossed our theology, do we pray for the one to "get it", or is our heart racing and our keyboard broken because of our pressing so hard against it?
Not everyone has ears to hear for the time being, those ears may open up later, but that is what I mean by everyone is different and we need to treat everyone differently.
Ephesians 4:32 And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you.