I'll do my best to answer your questions. If we are in a mixed company with other believers, we don't dictate that other women must have a head covering on by any means (who are we to do that?). In our personal weekly fellowship, at this point, I'm pretty much in agreement with what Zac Poonen has said."And in conclusion, as to the practice in our churches: We do not force any sister to cover her head (against her wish/conviction) in our meetings – because if she does this under compulsion, it will be a dead work; and God wants only cheerful givers of obedience (2 Cor.9:7). We will not judge such a sister either. We will graciously assume that she does not have light on this subject.
But truthfully, assuming she "does not have light on the subject" is kind of making a judgement isn't it? I guess what you are saying is if she had light then she would have a head covering on. Not trying to be difficult. Afterall it is a judgement that you are making regarding the amount of light she has on the subject. Right? Ok, fair enough.
But at the same time, if she does not cover her head, we will not permit her to publicly pray or prophesy in our churches – because we understand this to be the command of God – as explained in this article. We also believe that this is how it is practiced “in all the churches of God” (1Cor.11:16). We do not judge other churches that do things differently from us, in this or in any other area. But we fear God and desire to obey Him fully, even if some sisters (or their husbands) are offended by our stand on this matter and as a result, leave our churches."
Understood. If you believe it to be a command of God then no one should go against that in your gathering. That's just being polite and common sense. Although, it's not practiced in "all the churches of God".
And you don't "judge" other churches once again with the exception that they just don't have the light on the subject. And that is understandable too because of what you or Zac said a couple of paragraphs back regarding light.
So I agree. The scripture speak of praying or prophesying publicly. That's not to say that people can't share testimonies and such..but the scripture speak of praying and prophesying. In our fellowship we also share a meal together, so there is definitely time for more unstructured fellowship and conversations.
So, structured fellowship = headcovering. Unstructured fellowship = no headcovering. Got it. And structured fellowship is one in which praying or prophesying may occur. But praying and prophesying does not occur in unstructured fellowship. Ok.
You said: "So, if a large block of Believers are not allowed to speak, then we will be potentially missing a lot that the Lord may want to share with us."Just being sincere, but I don't think this is a good road to go down. We could say, "Well, if we don't allow women to teach and have authority of over men and be elders, then there is potentially a lot that we could be missing out on". But the bible speaks to these issues also. The church needs to be structured the way God has instructed us. Foundations are important.
Fair enough. You already said that sisters are allowed to share testimonies uncovered but they just can't pray or prophesy in a structured meeting. I agree. Let's not go down this road.
Thanks, I truly appreciate that you took the time to explain that to me. I never really understand the rules of engagement sort of speak. And from another post you say you have travelled quite a bit. Do all fellowships that believe in head covering practice pretty much similar to how you described it?
Now, I am just wanting to make sure you know that I am not being contentious. I did ask a few questions for clarity sake and if you think I characterized anything incorrectly then please let me know. Remember, this is foreign to me, so I still may seem to not be clear on it, but I think I've got it.
And you know, it's cool. I don't see this as a problem to gathering around the Lord. You're not uncomfortable with sisters who don't wear one and I'm not uncomfortable when sisters do wear one.
So, it seems funny that we are talking so much about it, doesn't it?
Thanks again, Sean.
Pilgrim