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sermonindex Mar 9, 2012

I could use some prayer. I'm getting really discouraged about my job situation. As most of you know due to the economy my work dried up and I found myself unemployed. Very quickly I got a job completely outside my profession for a lot less money, no benefits (not even a paid holiday) as a "temp". Originally it was a 2 month stint, but they like my work and it keeps getting extended. I'm now there until June, but will be forced out because the company policy is that they will not keep any temps beyond one year. So in June I will be out in the street again.

The managers I work for keep telling me they would love to hire me... but Human Resources says they cant because according to some pencil pushing geek somewhere I dont meet the qualifications... even tho I am doing even more than most the people there... AND they have me train people.

I have been looking for another job the whole time, but with so many people applying for each job that comes up... I cant even get an interview. I've done everything I know to do.

Our family has no insurance now for the first time ever. As most of you know I had a heart attack a yr and a half ago, and I am a diabetic. I'm actually in the best shape of my life (the heart attack woke me up!) but I cant afford to go to the doctor, which is not a good thing. I've had to cancel 3 appointments so far with my endocrinologist (diabetes doctor) because we dont have the money.

Yesterday I got shot down for another job.

Any pride or ego I may have had before is long gone at this point. I feel like Tom Joad in The Grapes Of Wrath.

So needless to say... I am very discouraged and disheartened (and cant wait for the next Presidential election!). I could use everyone's prayers.

Krispy

PS: Forgive me for whining.

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wijnand Mar 9, 2012

I will pray for you!

I have got friends who 'live by faith' what means they don't have any means of support except prayer (they don't make there needs known). They pray and God gives money! I have heard a lot of stories from them about this and also read a book of George Muller who did the same.

I am not saying that this is a method you must try or that you're not spiritual or something, but the Lord can provide for you in all things! So I will keep praying that He will provide for you! A lot of time God just provide in the last second (I have seen it happen in my life), so look to Jezus, the one who can provide!

Brotherly greetings,
Wijnand

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enid Mar 9, 2012

To be honest, I don't know what to say. Only, forget the hype of a presidential election, and focus on the Lord Jesus Christ.

A lot of times in our lives, we stand at our 'Red Sea' and God opens it for us.

Our faithfulness to God and His word, which will never pass away, should be our focus in difficult times, and not so difficult times.

The job's around the corner.

God bless.

sermonindex Mar 9, 2012

they don't make there needs known

I'm not really so much making our financial needs known... God has provided, to be sure. And I know He will continue to.

I'm just letting folks know that I need prayer for strength more than anything else.

I feel pretty beat down right now. Thus my reference to Tom Joad.

Those who know a little bit about me know I am generally a very upbeat kinda guy. I'm wore out. Tired.

Krispy

PS "Only, forget the hype of a presidential election"... I understand, but I will get a lot of satisfaction watching that man leave office. His policies directly effected my profession.

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MaryJane Mar 9, 2012

I will be praying for you and your family. I know all to well how expensive it can be to see the doctor without insurance. Keep your eyes on the Lord, He knows your needs and He will never fail you. Remember that He loves you and cares for you and will never abandon you no matter what happens in this life, you are HIS and that means everything!

God bless
mj

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mguldner Mar 9, 2012

Thanks for making your needs of encouragement known. I will be praying for you and your family as the Spirit leads. I really don't need to tell you God will provide because I believe you already know this, keep your stick on the ice, I'm rooting for you. (sorry for the RedGreen quote just seemed fitting) :)

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jochbaptist Mar 9, 2012

Hi KK

Praying for you.

Thank you for allowing us to help you carry your burden.

I can relate, more than you know. I am very much in the same situation, but can testify that every time I placed my trust in Him completely, He never failed me.

My biggest mistake in these situations have been to look to man for help. I also had to ask the local church for help, and their Love and support both humbled and empowered me.

With Love.

Joch

sermonindex Mar 9, 2012

Firstly June is 3 months away, and sometimes the door must be closed before the other door is opened. God's idea is to be grateful for what you have, and don't complain about what you do not have. It seems you are worrying a little.

Are you doing that? Also, you have been involved with a fellowship for a while; Is that right? It seems that people who know you, and love you would be the people you could trust in, and open your heart to.

All of America will be humbled, and is. Are you willing to adapt a more simple lifestyle? You may have to. Of the millions affected, not many have faith....but you do. The scripture I like is; "The Lord has NEVER forsaken any who seek after Him!"....and..."With food and rainment [covering ] BE CONTENT!

The American Dream is over, never to rise again. His kingdom endures forever.

I was on insulin for many years, and my numbers just got worse and worse. My pancreas was dying the more I became insulin dependent.

In September I just quit it, and went natural with pills. Now my numbers run 50% less than they did ON insulin, and I'm working on normal.

I know you are concerned for your wife and children and have always provided. I admire that, and will stand by you as God's provision falls upon you. Don't stop knocking.

Below, is what the Lord has shown me to come upon America. I prophesied this in 2003, and sent it to leaders, and spoke it to many then. In the midst of this, we are about to enter in to greater glory than we can imagine. His church, the body, WILL be provided for, just as always.

http://pjmiller.wordpress.com/2009/01/03/guest-author-the-end-of-the-american-dream/

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robertsj Mar 9, 2012

I'm in the same situation. I came out of IT and can't even
get a job as a janitor! I'm having to move things into
storage and will problably be sleeping in the car soon.
I am continuing to believe that GOD IS GOOD even though my
flesh would like to say otherwise. May God though His Son,
grant us grace and peace in our hearts. (Boy, my flesh
does not want to say that, but its true!). Let's seek Him togther and ask for grace.

I too will pray for you Krispy!

~jr

sermonindex Mar 9, 2012

i just wanted to encourage ya'll that God is faithful! my husband was unemployed for 5 months and we were fed by the ravens as it were, and supported in a myriad of mysteries. His ways are not our ways. God said for my husband to seek the Kingdom of God FIRST during this time. he kept wrestling to look for work, etc. and all doors closed. then he entered into God's rest, settled down, and sought the Kingdom. Then God started opening doors, and he's been humbled by his current work, all things for God's glory so that we don't glory in ourselves.

keep pressing in, God is faithful and a rewarder to those who diligently seek Him. bless each of you. i'll be praying.

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rbanks Mar 9, 2012

Just adding to some other great posts!

1 Samuel 30:3-8 (KJV)
3 So David and his men came to the city, and, behold, it was burned with fire; and their wives, and their sons, and their daughters, were taken captives.
4 Then David and the people that were with him lifted up their voice and wept, until they had no more power to weep.
5 And David's two wives were taken captives, Ahinoam the Jezreelitess, and Abigail the wife of Nabal the Carmelite.
6 And David was greatly distressed; for the people spake of stoning him, because the soul of all the people was grieved, every man for his sons and for his daughters: but David encouraged himself in the LORD his God.
7 And David said to Abiathar the priest, Ahimelech's son, I pray thee, bring me hither the ephod. And Abiathar brought thither the ephod to David.
8 And David enquired at the LORD, saying, Shall I pursue after this troop? shall I overtake them? And he answered him, Pursue: for thou shalt surely overtake them, and without fail recover all.

Praying for you brother to recover all and God being for you then the devil can’t be successful against you. Even doubly bless him Lord …rbanks

sermonindex Mar 9, 2012

Thanks everyone... feeling encouraged by your words. Sometimes our eyes slip off of the Lord and start looking at circumstances, and thats probably where I am at right now. Wish I could just smile and be full of faith all the time, but thats not always the case, ya know.

Love you all...

Krispy

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ccchhhrrriiisss Mar 9, 2012

I will be praying for you, brother! Let me know if you need any help with your resume or cover letters.

Also, it might be helpful to register on network sites like LinkedIn and submit your resumes on certain job finding websites (like CareerBuilder, Monster.com, etc...) as well as look at employment listings on Craigslist. You will be surprised at how many companies solicit potential employees from websites like these.

Also, if you have a degree from an accredited university, you might find that school districts are looking for teachers. If there is a need, they may hire people without certification for a period (a year or two) until the individual can obtain the appropriate certification while on the job.

My brother-in-law's educational background is in Architecture and Business Administration, but decided to teach high school math when the economy took a turn in late 2008. The schools needed teachers...and he had the degree. While it might not be a "career" move that you are actually interested in, it might help put the bread on the table while you consider employment elsewhere.

Either way, I will be remembering you in my prayers.

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MaryJane Mar 9, 2012

by KrispyKrittr on 2012/3/9 7:04:48

Thanks everyone... feeling encouraged by your words. Sometimes our eyes slip off of the Lord and start looking at circumstances, and thats probably where I am at right now. Wish I could just smile and be full of faith all the time, but thats not always the case, ya know.

Love you all...

Krispy

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It is very difficult to always be full of faith and I think what you said is the greatest hurdle and that is taking our eyes off of Jesus and putting them on to the situation. I know that has always been my struggle. I feel for you, I know as the head of your family you are feeling a heavy burden to provide for your family but remember and hold really tight to Jesus and His truths that HE does love you beyond all else. I don't have any great words of wisdom to offer, or advice on what your next move should be but I will continue in prayer for you, your family, and your health.

God bless
mj

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White_Stone Mar 9, 2012

Krispy,

Don't know if you remember talking with me about the pile of books you have on your bedside table. I hope you are taking advantage of them right now. Especially, concentrate on the 23rd Psalm. The Lord is my shepherd, I SHALL NOT WANT.

This Lord/Shepherd/Jesus lives 'within you.' He has made provision for everything that will occur in your life. You have no reason for fear or apprehension. You are allowing the worldly things to take your eyes off of Him. Read Paul's Epistles, he has the words, paraphrasing "when I am weak, then is He strong.' God likes to wait until you are without worldly hope, then His strength is glorified, because you have no other reason for the help that comes. It is not your strength, or even the kindness of others. Often those doing the kindness have none in them, don't ya know?

I completely understand how stressful your situation is but it need not be so. I have a sticker on my wall that says, "Faith isn't faith unless you have nothing left to hold on to." You have the faith, I know you do. You are, as you say, worn down. I will pray extra for you & your family. I am confident Jesus is there for you.

Remember whatever happens it is for His glory.

It would be great if the one's employing you now would buck the system but that is not necessary - God controls it all.

Kindest regards,
white stone

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pilgrim777 Mar 10, 2012

If you don't have a paypal account, get one and post it so people have the opportunity to do some more things for you.

The Lord has helped us all out so don't be adverse to receiving anything from Him.

Praying for you bro,
Pilgrim

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mama27 Mar 10, 2012

I have prayed, Krispy, and will continue...sorry I didn't post to say so....

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roadsign Mar 10, 2012

Am praying, brother.

Diane

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passerby Mar 11, 2012

May the Lord bless you and your family. Things are tougher for more people today and finding a long lasting job can be tough one to pursue.

Though we stand by Matt 6:33, if the situation get worse, feel free to drop a note, what pilgrim777 said about paypal may help.

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