I actually don't like the idea of eternal torment so have been very open and even prefer annihilation. I have read about it and others have tried to show it to me through the scriptures, but I don't see it the way they are presenting it.
Notice that one kind of eternity is compared with another kind.
Mat 25:46 And these shall go away into everlasting punishment: but the righteous into life eternal.
Strongs on Everlasting: a synonym of eternal.
G166
αἰώνιος
aiōnios
ahee-o'-nee-os
From G165; perpetual (also used of past time, or past and future as well): - eternal, for ever, everlasting, world (began).
Dan 12:2 And many of them that sleep in the dust of the earth shall awake, some to everlasting life, and some to shame and everlasting contempt.
Strongs for Everlasting in the Hebrew
H5769
עלם עולם
‛ôlâm ‛ôlâm
o-lawm', o-lawm'
From H5956; properly concealed, that is, the vanishing point; generally time out of mind (past or future), that is, (practically) eternity; frequentative adverbially (especially with prepositional prefix) always: - always (-s), ancient (time), any more, continuance, eternal, (for, [n-]) ever (-lasting, -more, of old), lasting, long (time), (of) old (time), perpetual, at any time, (beginning of the) world (+ without end). Compare H5331, H5703.
Never SHALL BE QUENCHED
Mar 9:43 And if thy hand offend thee, cut it off: it is better for thee to enter into life maimed, than having two hands to go into hell, into the fire that never shall be quenched:
Mar 9:44 Where their worm dieth not, and the fire is not quenched.
No annihilation since the EXPERT (Jesus) says that we are all RESURRECTED.
John 5:29 And shall come forth; they that have done good, unto the resurrection of life; and they that have done evil, unto the resurrection of damnation.
I still remain open and am not dogmatic about this. I think it would be good if everyone was annihilated but this is not my program and I don't call the shots. So far, I don't see annihilation.. Someday, we will all find out.
But, who wants to be annihilated? Who does not want to live forever in a new body with the absence of sin and forever with the Lord?
The question of annihilation or eternal torment really does not matter unless you know that you are not going to heaven and don't want to walk with God, then I guess it would be very important. I don't think I would be rollin' the dice, though. Better to assume eternal torment if you need something to motivate you. But why don't you just let the Love of God motivate and convince you to surrender to Him? It always about "what's in it for me", or "how much can I get away with and not really suffer"?
Pilgrim