I have been increasingly meditating on Bonhoeffer's statement of Christian Community not being an Ideal but a Devine Reality. It is so tempting to look at my present situation and point fingers at the family members who "aren't doing this community thing properly" or the church members that "won't lay down there own business for a brother and sister who's hurting", without considering the lack of patience in my own heart.The crucible of living life in intense closeness has revealed elements of selfishness that I long thought I'd dealt with. What a blessing it is to be unable to hide my true self from the group of people who band together against me at times for my spiritual edification. True edification (building up) requires a rooting out and tearing down, a destroying and throwing down, before a building and planting can occur.It is truly a beautiful thing to be able to see one's self in the negative descriptions on 2 Tim 3:2-9, which was never before noticed. It is so tempting to keep one's self occupied with who's good to listen to and who's not, or the how much we pray, fast, give, preach, and witness...but neglecting the fact that we "have not charity (agape)". We split hairs over the purity of Bonhoeffer of Barth's doctrine in this thread, due to there use of liberal terms, and yetwe neglect the heart and intent of the men.We even criticise Bonhoeffer for his involvement in an assasination attempt, which I agree was questionable. But before he cast the die of judgement, could we consider the frustration of a man living in a nation that was utterly mesmerised by the rantings of an occultic and murderous dictator. Don't forget that many christians were seduced into believing Hitler's claims about the Jews and Aryanism. Also consider that he was hanged only months prior to to Berlin's fall. So, how's your patience going? Mine's not so good, to be honest. Oh, by the way, if you're not sure if you have patience, then step out from behind the keyboard, and enter into fellowship without training wheels (ie, a 'backspace' key). Allow yourself to experience the act of foot in mouth, when you think you're speaking of good things. Allow yourself the luxury of rejection over stating things in a way that seems to twist the meaning of you intention. Then see how patient you are. How hard it is to bear misunderstanding. But how liberating to be misunderstood.Please, I'm honestly not directing this toward anyone in particular (Bro Ron and Mike I know your heart and have been incredibly blessed by your insight over the years), but attempting to pour out my heart in an attempt to pull us back on track and to respond to a question asked:Manfred wrote:just a short question: What is this thread about?(As far as the title, I believe it's an inferance to Acts 2:42-47, but really, the title is simply somantic, as with any thread)We can tend to think of the issue of fellowship as being a 'minor thing' when really it is the major. "What?", I hear you ask, "More important than evangelism?" Well, what do you plan on doing with the people you see converted? Just sending them out as nomads? Yes, I know that the great commission is of paramount importance, however Jesus Himself stated that the greatest commandment is to "Love the Lord your God with all your heart, mind, soul and strength". But He didn't stop there, because he also said that the "second is like it", before stating the second as "love your neighbour as yourself". I've heard it said that the good samaitan parable is about reaching out to the lost, and while I believe this to be so, I think it's a little closed minded to minimise it down to that. Many christians tend to "love the lost" but "despise their brother". To me, the fact that the greatest commandment is tied together to the second greatest, by defining it a "like it", means that it is inseparatable. To love your brother is to love Christ, and to love Christ is to love your brother.Please, I implore you, consider this. Weigh these words. It is easy to criticise my words, but tell me what is wrong with the heart of them. Is this issue too boring for you? Then perhaps you should consider that boredom is a signpost for the manifestation of covetousness. Boredom says, "I don't care if this is a good thing, but I want something better." I hope a haven't offend anyone with that statment, but the truth does hurt sometimes. Either way, know that I do love you guys.