Very good points brethren! Thanks for the great replies!
Here is another thought to add to this discussion.
Matthew 23:4 For they bind heavy burdens and grievous to be borne, and lay them on men's shoulders; but they themselves will not move them with one of their fingers.
5 But all their works they do for to be seen of men: they make broad their phylacteries, and enlarge the borders of their garments,
I believe we are to be transformed by the spirit of truth through the Word of God. We have to keep our body and spirit from being defiled. We are to be of a good reputation before others. But why do some strive as well as teach others to become more like the pharisees in Matthew chapter 23 than in following Jesus to walk in love as he gave himself a sacrifice for others.
I could tell you quite a few stories that I have seen through the years about people striving to be so holy outward and striving to appear so holy to others. They became legalistic and love themselves and their so called relationship with the Lord more than they truly enjoyed a true relationship with the Lord. We need a relationship with the Lord that truly touches other people with His radiant love and true holiness.
This is where God has shown me not to major on the outward man or the outward appearance but to major on the inward man and to learn modesty that leads to modest apparel that really comes from the inward man. This has lead me to believe that we shouldn't strive to be strange or so pious in our outward appearance as to want people to persecute us or talk about for these things but rather that they talk about us for our love for sinners and wanting to see people truly saved, healed, and blessed in the Lord.