"I think it really comes down to anything that we value, hold on to, or give place to above JESUS is holding on to the world. SO for example if I place a greater value on receiving the love of my family above living for CHRIST then I have not abandoned myself into JESUS and I am still attempting to hold on to the world...
These few words are very challenging and thought provoking, at least for me they have been.
God Bless.
maryjane"
Very good thread, and I appreciate it. Appolus, Very sweet and deep too, TY. As far as THE COST, isn't our cross to die to ourselves, in order to live to Him? This is the CROSS that Jesus commands us to bare; we cannot have both; it is either Him, or ME.
Either we die to ourselves, and the many and varied loves we behold above Jesus, or, we must die to Jesus.
This is at the heart of the scripture : "If any man come to me, and hate not his father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brethren, and sisters, yea, and his own life also, he cannot be my disciple.
And whosoever doth not bear his cross, and come after me, cannot be my disciple."
And, for those who believe that this dying is not painful; they have never experienced it, would be the only explanation. There is real "blood, sweat, and tears" in it, in an experiential way.
Let us consider the Apostle Paul, and his path to spiritual VICTORY, in 2 Corinthians 1: James Version (KJV)
Blessed be God, even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies, and the God of all comfort;
Who comforteth us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort them which are in any trouble, by the comfort wherewith we ourselves are comforted of God.
For as the sufferings of Christ abound in us, so our consolation also aboundeth by Christ.
And whether we be afflicted, it is for your consolation and salvation, which is effectual in the enduring of the same sufferings which we also suffer: or whether we be comforted, it is for your consolation and salvation.
And our hope of you is stedfast, knowing, that as ye are partakers of the sufferings, so shall ye be also of the consolation.
For we would not, brethren, have you ignorant of our trouble which came to us in Asia, that we were pressed out of measure, above strength, insomuch that we despaired even of life:
...!!!But we had the sentence of death in ourselves, that we should not trust in ourselves, but in God which raiseth the dead...!!!
Who delivered us from so great a death, and doth deliver: in whom we trust that he will yet deliver us."
This MUST be true for every disciple of Jesus, that ever lived or will live. We must deny, or CRUCIFY or affections as paramount; Yes, even to the love of our children, or spouse, or mother or family, all of our possessions and all of our hopes and dreams and future.
[ Even our houses and land?....I still got a mortgage and equity!
.....Paul testifies about suffering this death....
"Save that the Holy Ghost witnesseth in every city, saying that bonds and afflictions abide me.
But none of these things move me, neither count I my life dear unto myself, so that I might finish my course with joy, and the ministry, which I have received of the Lord Jesus, to testify the gospel of the grace of God."
This is not just for Great Apostles; it is for every believer that possesses the Holy Spirit within them, and it is a daily manifestation of His possessing of YOU, to assure it. Without this daily and oft painful discipline. YOU DO NOT KNOW HIM!....,and I would question myself as to whether or not you are truly saved, if you do not experience.
Is it painful? It must be, for dying always is.
"And ye have forgotten the exhortation which speaketh unto you as unto children, My son, despise not thou the chastening of the Lord, nor faint when thou art rebuked of him:
For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, and scourgeth every son whom he receiveth.
If ye endure chastening, God dealeth with you as with sons; for what son is he whom the father chasteneth not?
But if ye be without chastisement, whereof all are partakers, then are ye bastards, and not sons."
We endure the Cross He gives us, and endure the pain of it, in order to achieve unto sonship; to be manifested as a child of God; THERE IS NO OTHER WAY!..and this is on a daily basis.
Yes,. there is joy, but as Jesus our Redeemer, we must:
" Lay aside every weight, and the sin which doth so easily beset us, and let us run with patience the race that is set before us."
Looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith; who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is set down at the right hand of the throne of God.
" For consider him that endured such contradiction of sinners against himself, lest ye be wearied and faint in your minds."
There are moments of Joy, for sure, that the redeemed touch now and then, and moments that we must suffer the loss of loves, and affections, that are of Earthly origin. I love my granddaughter very, very, much, but my love of her, and desire to commune with her, certainly is not above my love of Jesus. [ She is all that left in my life , and 2 grand-boys..]
She is on the alter, and I have told her so many times, as is my future, and every thing in it.
"But none of these things move me, neither count I my life dear unto myself, so that I might finish."
I fail more than I succeed here, and that is within, and sometime without.