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getrealwithg Feb 19, 2005

A day is made up of 24 hours. If you tithe your time as well as your money, that means you owe God 2.4 hours a day of your time, (if you tithe off the top like I do that is). What do you do with the time you actually dedicate to God. How much of that time is spent doing something that will actually further your relationship with Him, something that will seriously impact your spiritual & personal lives, how much of that time is spent in entertaining yourself? What if today you made up your mind to dedicate 3 hours a day to actively seeking God's will in life, & doing it? What if for 3 hours a day you actually sought God & did only what he Himself wants you to do? Would it make a difference? You bet! The Quakers went to a meeting house & sat silent in the presence of God until God gave someone something to share with the others. They actively strived to be led by the Spirit of God in all ministry there. In their personal lives, when one of their meeting members had to make an important decision, they met as a meeting & quietly sought God's guidance in that situation. In the end, they could write what God revealed to them on a piece of paper & put it in a hat, & when read, all of their messages would be in total aggreement. If not, they sought God until they were in total agreement. While I have problems with some of their beliefs, I have no problem with their faith that God would actually lead them in every decision they made. I challenge you to get serious about your spiritual lives & seek God's light before making any major decision & acting on it. I challenge you to seek God's light in everything you do for God online.

sermonindex Feb 19, 2005

At the age of 61, I've really been thinking about "time" of late. God has been dealing with me as well about being a good steward of this precious resource given to each of us. I've given God whatever years I have left to do with as He chooses. But truthfully, it does not come close to equaling a tenth each day. I think He deserves it all. If He will but open a door for me in this world, I will serve as best I can with His mercy and grace. But He has to provide it. I shall not compete with men for the work of men. I want the work that God has specifically for me. Even so come quickly Lord Jesus.

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TonyS Feb 19, 2005

Hello Wayne,Welcome, you will find that many members at SI are taking part in a 4 month Bible reading plan than began on January 1, and runs through the end of April. I know it has been a challenge for many but nonetheless extremely beneficial for our personal life. My hope is it will establish some order to lives, and help eliminate the "hit & miss" style of getting into God's word, which we know is His will for our life.Your question "what do we do with the time we dedicate to God."For (busy) families, just determining to set aside time for Spiritual growth is near impossible. In order to free up some time, maybe these thoughts will help: One author stated it something like this "Is there anything that I am doing today that, knowing what I now know, I wouldn't get into again if I had to do it over?"If the answer to this question, is "yes", then our next question should be, "how do I get out of this situation and how fast?"It is estimated the average person spends 500 to 1,000 hours each year in his car, the equivalent of one or two university semesters. What if this time was spent with Scriptures on CD or tape? What if this time was spent listening to sermons? To be sure, it will be time wisely spent.Again welcome, and look forward to your posts on SI.In Christ,tony

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getrealwithg Feb 19, 2005

I agree wholeheartedly Lahry. When I first entered the ministry 25 years ago, it was prophesied that I would have the same ministry as John the Baptist. I began to act like a prophet. I began to chew people up scripturally & spit them out. I justified my natural aggression as a prophetic temperament. It wasn't until many years later that I fully understood that calling. John the baptist didn't even come on the scene until 6 months before he baptized Jesus in the Jordan river. I've been preparing, right slowly I might add, for a ministry that won't begin until shortly before Jesus' arrival. Now I quietly pray, share my experience online, & wait for God to call me out into His harvest field. I have no doubt that work will soon begin. I see things coming to the United States that good time believers won't be able to handle. Many will turn their backs on God & fall by the wayside during these times because God is no longer blessing them hand over fist (I have my own doubts as to the source of those blessings to begin with).

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getrealwithg Feb 19, 2005

God showed me years ago that many of us old timers would be busy in the last days training ministers for the harvest time. I still believe I'll be very much involved in that end time harvest here in the USA; but I haven't forgotten the calling to prepare people for that last great harvest either. Do you remember the 3rd part who went through the fire? The fire came to purge them & make them vessels fit for the master's use. There are a lot of us old timers who have waded through hell backwards in our lives as a believer, & I believe God has allowed that so we can comfort those who will come out of the devastation that lies ahead. God will use us in widerness refuges around the nation to prepare a place for these survivors, & minister to them when they flock into those sanctuaries. I see some huge financial miracles for some of us to prepare for those trying times; not for pur personal comfort. @ any rate, it's no time for us old timers to feel sorry for ourselves, but instead to be encouraged as we see what God will one day soon do in our lives Bro.

sermonindex Feb 19, 2005

I just wanted to respond to "A challenge". For the last 2 years i have been pondering this one particular issue: how should my time be spent? Is it ok to spend an hour watching TV? I've come to believe that if the 'self' has been put to death, if i am crucified with Christ then neither my time nor my money belongs to me. It ALL belongs to God. if I have been put to death, Paul says that Christ's love will now compel me. Christ's love took Him to the cross. He loves us SO much that He came to earth to die for us...that love should now compel us. And I wonder how we dare waste one moment of time on ourselves while the world perishes...We have responsibilities - but what will we do with our free time? it won't be my time it will be God's time - we'll want to talk to Him, we'll want to intercede before Him, we'll want to serve...we'll visit a neighbor or go to the local soup kitchen. I believe the greatest sorrow in heaven is over the terrible waste of time among Christ's followers...one day we will have to give an account for what we could have done but didn't!Most pastors will warn us to be careful WHAT we watch...but no-one's telling us NOT to watch. Time is one thing we can never have back - few us will regret an hour of TV missed, or an hour of football missed...but many of us will regret the many hours that could have been spent in fruitful prayer - and the many hours that could have been spent sharing the gospel.

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Gideons Feb 19, 2005

Yes, it's all Gods, regardless of which area of life we're talking about.So the time that He has given me is His time, as well as everything else. If I've given everything to Jesus, it's not my will but His.I gave up TV a couple of years ago (for the most part). I've watched less than a couple of hours of TV over the last year but I wouldn't tell someone to give that up, unless the Holy Spirit told them to do so. The Lord has shown me that it took my time and all it gave me was a calloused heart.With this calloused heart, it hurt my prayer time and impacted the Spirit's ability to speak to my heart.In the old covenant, 10% of the first fruits belonged to God and now ALL of it belongs to God. That's what I see as the difference between the old and new covenant.

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getrealwithg Feb 20, 2005

I don't know if it's just me, but after starting maybe 40 or 50 message boards myself over the years I've been ministering online, I've really been heartbroken over how shallow most christian message boards are. They'll flock in to talk about everything but christian living; but if a message board is focussed on christian living & being all we can be for God's kingdom, there will be virtually no interaction there @ all. A lot of people read many of my teachings over the years; but there was almost no positive response to anything I wrote. I think that's a sad commentary on the times we're livng in. If I would compromise my principles, & setup a forum or message board that entertained people, I'd have 500 members in no time. Most of my boards over the years were lucky to have 30 members @ best.

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Paulus Feb 21, 2005

You are dead right look at the stats on post to views. Your current one has 7 replies to 134 views. All the lifestyles ones are the same headcovering is in the lead with 75 replies to 1613 views. Also if you look it is a very small group who express themselves. One hope that the rest are challenged to reflect and take stock.Just an observation. By the way I was challenged about my use of time and liked especially the use of tiem in the car. I listen to two downloaded sermons almost every day while driving and to "ten shekels" at least twice a month. So there is time if we look. My current affairs is a bit shot as I dont get to listen to the news but its all bad anyway.Paul

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getrealwithg Feb 21, 2005

One hope that the rest are challenged to reflect and take stock.It's my daily prayer that God will help me to get serious in my own studies, & that my influence will rub off on others. In the end all true ministry is a byproduct of relationship. How many of us fell in love with someone, & had friends get tired of us because all we talked about was the man or woman we were in love with? It should be the same if our relationship with God is where it should be. It should be easy to talk about that relationship. If it isn't, where does the problem lie?

sermonindex Feb 21, 2005

I had a well meaning Christian approach me recently in order to scold me for spending so much time coaching football (American football, for all my friends in other parts of the world)... in his opinion sports and things like that are a "foolish waste of time", and that we should spend our "spare time" in the things of God. This person also comes across as hyper-spiritual, with no feet planted on the ground at all.Anyway... I asked him what he was doing to reach kids. As it turns out, he could not produce anything of real substance. All he could tell me was how many hours he spends in the Word and in prayer.Anyone who knows me knows I love the Word, and I am a student of the Word. But if there is no practical application of it... your time is being wasted.He chastised me for spending 8 hours a week at practices, and usually 8 hours on Saturdays at the football stadium. To him... it was a waste of time. I invited him to come hang with me sometime at practice or on game day... and he did. What he saw was me having a positive influence on nearly 40 kids. Kids who have learned respect, hard work, dedication and sportsmanship. He saw that I was very open about my faith with kids, and many of them are Christians.We need to be careful when we decide what is considered a waste of time. Is TV a waste of time? Not always... but it can be very easily. But my point is that God also created leisure and relaxation for MAN. He created the Sabbath for MAN. Surely we should dedicate all of time to the Lord... but as someone pointed out, for people like me... with 4 sons, a job, coaching responsibilities, etc... spending 2.4 hours a day in prayer and study is impossible, and to some extent it would border on legalism if I tried to attain that.Wrestling on the floor with my boys is as godly a way to spend time as being in prayer by candlelight. I'm a pretty simple man, and not as sophisticated as some folks. I like the fact that God created this life for us to worship Him, and also to enjoy living.We can spend our time in the things of God in many many different ways... not just in devotional time. Everything we do we should do as unto the Lord... 24-7.Krispy

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getrealwithg Feb 21, 2005

I wholeheartedly agree; but @ the same time we can't neglect our personal relationship with God to pursue the other. I firmly believe all true ministry is the natural byproduct of a very real, very vital, personal relationship with God. I believe christianity is simply allowing God to influence my own heart & life to the point where that influence overflows into the hearts & lives of everyone I come in contact with. When that happens, your whole life begins to be a ministry to those around you. Christian growth is a life long process, not an instantaneous event. If you gave your newborn infant one bottle a week, how long would that child last? If you yourself ate one meal a week, how long would you last. We need to feed our spirit man the same way we feed our natural man. I know for a fact that when I constantly feed my natural man without daily feeding my spirit man my natural man always gets the upper hand & i begin to allow a lot of things to get into my life that I otherwise wouldn't.

sermonindex Feb 21, 2005

I wholeheartedly agree; but @ the same time we can't neglect our personal relationship with God to pursue the other. I firmly believe all true ministry is the natural byproduct of a very real, very vital, personal relationship with God. I believe christianity is simply allowing God to influence my own heart & life to the point where that influence overflows into the hearts & lives of everyone I come in contact with. When that happens, your whole life begins to be a ministry to those around you. Christian growth is a life long process, not an instantaneous event. If you gave your newborn infant one bottle a week, how long would that child last? If you yourself ate one meal a week, how long would you last. We need to feed our spirit man the same way we feed our natural man. I know for a fact that when I constantly feed my natural man without daily feeding my spirit man my natural man always gets the upper hand & i begin to allow a lot of things to get into my life that I otherwise wouldn't.I think you and I are saying the same thing. Nowhere in my post did I indicate that we should ever neglect our time with God. On the contrary, we should set aside our alone time w/Him. I dont think we need to feel obligated to set aside 2.4 hours a day as some sort of tithe... tithing is a bit of a misnomer w/me anyway. (but thats another topic) Everything we do should be centered on Christ. I'm merely trying to point out that what may seem a waste of time to one person may be another persons ministry.Krispy

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getrealwithg Feb 21, 2005

My whole point in this is our tendency as christians, even when involved in something like this message board, to focus our energies on superficial things, & not on things that help us to grow spiritually & become better people. Jesus once accused the Pharisees of straining a gnat & swallowing a camel. How many times do we focus on one pet peeve & totally ignore the whole message? When I first started in the ministry 25 years ago. I stayed angry about certain things. I found myself getting angry over the same things all the time. I found out, when I was getting angry, it was because people were pointing out things I just didn't want to deal with. Even today, I find myself getting angry & frustrated over the same things over & over again. It's a growth process that will last a lifetime; but I won't get anywhere until I allow God to reveal the truth to me.

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rookie Feb 21, 2005

Br. Krispy wrote:He chastised me for spending 8 hours a week at practices, and usually 8 hours on Saturdays at the football stadium. To him... it was a waste of time. I invited him to come hang with me sometime at practice or on game day... and he did. What he saw was me having a positive influence on nearly 40 kids. Kids who have learned respect, hard work, dedication and sportsmanship. He saw that I was very open about my faith with kids, and many of them are Christians.Last year I began coaching youth tackle football in a "Christian league." I had the opportunity to reach families and kids in the same way. Two or three times a week I would lead devotionals with the team. I enjoyed the season and the people, yet I must confess that I struggled with the whole notion of Football. I saw the hypocrisy of professing Christ in one moment then because of competition, the kids learned from the adults about cutting corners. The kids learn by what they see as the desires most important to the adults in their lives. We can preach all we want. Yet how do we maintain what we preach. How do we share the love of Christ in an activity which promotes the opposite?In ChristJeff

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getrealwithg Feb 21, 2005

In all things pertaining to christianity, we lead by example. We need to show them something different in our own lives first & foremost. Paul admonishes us to speak the truth in love; but speak the truth we must. It's like raising children however, you never dwell on the wrong they do. You deal with it, & that's that. We need to focus on the right things men do, & not the wrong. In doing so we encourage that kind of behavior. When we constantly focus on the wrong things men do we reinforce that behavior, simply because that's what gets them recognition, & recognition is the one thing men & women crave most.

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rookie Feb 21, 2005

Thankyou Br. Wayne.In ChristJeff

sermonindex Feb 21, 2005

I struggled with the whole notion of Football. I saw the hypocrisy of professing Christ in one moment then because of competition, the kids learned from the adults about cutting corners.I'm not sure what you mean by "cutting corners"... if you mean cheating, in effect, and it was coming from the parents... there really isnt anything you can do about that except lead by example. Just like Wayne said. On our team we dont cheat... and we won 7 out of 8 games. I was accused of "cheating" because I had my offensive line double their fists and give a nice shot up under the pads at the base of the ribs against the defensive line (it works great, by the way!)... but when I was questioned about it I asked them to show me any evidence that it was illegal. (I got that little tip from one of John Madden's book)There is none because it is perfectly legal. It knocks the wind out of the opponent. Hey, it's football. It's not a gentleman's sport.But we can not control the parents. I learned that a long time ago. The only thing we can do is keep them off the field... but at home, thats something you have to live with.As for me... if I see a kid doing something illegal (cutting corners), I bench 'em. I get an ear full from the parents, but after awhile you learn to tune out the parents. And we're not a Christian league... I get cussed at. But parents cussing doesnt hold a candle to what I heard in bootcamp, so it doesnt bother me.I dont want to turn this into a football thread.Krispy

sermonindex Feb 21, 2005

I like what you're saying. I think what I said (that TV is a waste of time) can be easily be misunderstood (and I should be careful what I say)... each of us should ask ourselves how we spend our time and what that says about our priorities. I'm disappointed that someone found your participation in football problematic...what an awesome opportunity to share the love of Christ. Each of us will be dealt with in different ways - God told me no more TV and no more movies (but I had a problem). I believe as Christians are goal is to be dead to self so that Christ's love can compel us in all we do...each of us has to deal with God about our personal use of God - is it glorifying to God? TV is not necessarily bad in and of itself but is there something better i could do with my time? Like wrestle with my kids, or talk to my wife, or spend some time in prayer. These are questions that must be answered on a deeply personal level.My difficulty is that i'm doing some pastoring and training to enter full time pastoral work and i have to decide what i will say from the pulpit...often i have challenged the congregation to examine their use of time (and i've used TV as an example) but i have to be careful not to preach legalism...i think that's a challenge.By the way i appreciate this opportunity to share with other believers and grow. I am new to the internet and i hope to use it to bring glory to God. That we can have these discussions is a blessing - i know chat rooms are common but we're brothers and sisters in Christ...we're family!

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rookie Feb 21, 2005

Br Krispy wrote:I'm not sure what you mean by "cutting corners"... if you mean cheating, in effect, and it was coming from the parents... there really isnt anything you can do about that except lead by example. Just like Wayne said.One corner cut was that if a kid did not maintain grades, he could not play. Well some of the star players were not held to this rule. I accidentally found out about one of these players. When I asked the head coach he said he was not aware of this situation. I failed to press the issue. I was the defensive coordinator, so I did not allow the boy to play on defense.Another corner cut was telling the defensive players to line up in the gaps. The league rules were known by the players that they had to line up head to head. Yet the head coach for a time instructed them to line up in the gaps until the other team complained. When I became defensive cooridinator of the team part way into the season I instructed my boys to obey the rules. There are many other small issues that occurred daily, each one showed the boys that men do not see things as black and white. The boys are taught to understand that there are "gray areas." King Saul wanted to live his life in the gray areas. I attended the NFF-NFL Youth Football Coaches Clinic this past year. This organization taught the offensive lineman to hit the breatplate of the shoulder pads as the proper method for beginning the blocking sequence.In ChristJeff

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