This is d first time I've come to terms with d pains of divorce as felt by the d Christian man. Its not that popular down here in d Tropics. It tears me apart I tell you.
The Lord is your strength Brother Matthew.
Continue to claim ur kids as God's heritage. I understand that they're sanctified for your sake.
"For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy." (1 Corinthians 7:14).
This may be rather easier said than done, but you may never enjoy total victory as löng as u harbour deep resentment in ur heart towards ur wife for all she's put you thru.
Its easier at this point to pray for ur kids' salvation and let ur wife sort out herself in hell if she likes but thats not d Way of d Cross.
May the Holy Spirit help you in these very trying moments my Brother.
Our Lord didnt loose anyone God brought to Him excpt that son of perdition. So u too may not loose anyone God brought to you as ur INHERITANCE includin ur wife if u claim d promises. She is not d "son of perdition", therefore she can stil be saved.
Also rebuke every influence of witchraft on ur family. Derek Prince's sermön "witchcraft: public enemy number one" wil be helpful along these lines.
Kindly text me her name @ +2348034365429 or @ uzosikejoe@facebook.com if you deem it necessary. Would like to pray 4 her by name. Guess I should be my Bro's keeper now & stick out my neck for this in d place of Prayer.
Have been askin d Lord for a Prayer-burden and I think its time to look around for needs that can be carried on my knees. It could also be a way of sowing a seed for a blissful marriage since am still single.
May the peace of God, which transcends all our powers of thought be a garrison to guard your heart in this moment of darkest night in Jesus' Name... Amen!